Since you seem to be missing posting with me, I'd like to take this moment to wish you the best.  Its great you found the one that you want to marry and we should all be so lucky to find that one.  Good Luck.

A question for the hobbyists:  I am curious,

(1)how many of you would marry an ex-provider? why or why not?


And (2) if you would marry an ex-provider, how many of you would be comfortable with the ex-provider maintaining friendships with guys she used to provide for and comfortable with her keeping active on the hobby boards?

(3) Would you feel that she is obligated to tell you that she used to provide and/or still communicates with the hobbying community?

Do NOT ask my last SO this one!!!!!!!

1) Sure, assuming that the relationship was solid and that the person was compatible.

2) I wouldn't be comfortable with that, any more than I'd be comfortable with a partner who stayed in regular contact with anyone they used to have sex with. I wouldn't expect to keep in regular contact with ex-girlfriends either.

In the end, people have to determine their own comfort zones and stick with them. Arguing that someone else's comfort zone is "irrational" is beating your head against a wall. It's also insulting; it assumes that you (the generic "you") know how someone's mind should work better than they do.

3) Pretty much. It's not an issue of ownership or any such crap; failing to let your partner know that you're maintaining relationships with ex-partners is likely to cause stress when it comes out. Better to be up front about it.

Your millage may vary and all that.

I'd marry Macy in a minute !!!!!

(3)The past is the past. Have a feeling she  will care if you continue to keep in contact with providers.  Sooner or later a 10/10 is going to appear and  going to need some attention.

(2) Again I think it is a new start.

 (3) Definitely would marry a provider.  Would a provider want to be married to a dedicated hobbyist.  Remember For the provider this is business.  For us it is recreation. I wouldn't give up tennis.  One minor caveat though, although I would marry a provider probably would not want to marry one with hundeds of reviews and seemed to live for them. It is one thing to
not mind and another to realize how neverending the stream was.  A lot of the providers I know say they don't necessarily read the details.Just my humble opinion.

my only regret is I didn't get a chance to meet her before she retired

Thank you for the heartfelt congrats. My fiance knows what I did. He knows you misterday. He knows that I have my own forum on BGFE still. He himself was a hobbyist. He has been with other ladies that post on this board. Is our relationship strong? Yes, because hobbying and providing is in our past. We are 100% honest with each other. Now, do you have any more weak attempts to analyze my life? Would you also like to walk me down the aisle and give me your blessing? Act your age already! I still talk to many hobbyists and it has nothing to do with sex. I was on the phone with 2 of them last night on speaker. Why are you obsessed?

Beyond the duration of this fiasco, we could have side bets on whether its the profession or the banal psychosis that breaks it up. And bets on how long after she starts providing again (cant get that genie back into the bottle).
(I feel like Michael Corleone, I quit this board and news of a post like this drags me back in.)
Fuzzy...can you hold the money....I mean, odds are you wont be hanging onto these bets too long.

No need to go all hillary clinton on me.  It was a question for the hobbyists. I'm sure your announcement had one or two reflecting on whether they could marry an ex-provider.  It wasn't a question for you to answer, I was just curious about opinions on the subject.

I'm sure the two of you have a healthly, loving, committed relationship that many aspire to. I think its great that he likes and is okay with the fact that you want to continue to be part of the hobbying scene and have contact with former...uh... business associates after the wedding.

I certainly wasn't planning to analyze you. From the responses, it seems like most of the guys would marry an ex-provider, well, providing that there were some limits to her providing. Its good to know the guys here are so open minded, as a lot of guys would never think of providers as marriage material.  You've got a winner, its great that he accepts your past. Goes to show there's even hope for all of us.

on Mrday's sarcasm!
Dude, you are the ultimate straightman. If you wrote that without cracking a grin to split your head, John Cleese can die peacefully.

Goya, you really gotta stop with the gut-busting lines here. My side is killing me and I'm in tears. That is FUCKING hilarious. Come on Macy, even you would have to love that one.

whuut?, whuut? No clarence, I've come to appreciate some people anew. Whuut?, whuut?

You old bitchy mental derelicts have a foot in the grave already. You wish you got paid to have fun and were happy, but you're not. So you pick on people because it's all you can do to feel better about what pathetic existence you have resoluted to. If it makes you feel better, he knows I'm a sex maniac and I'm a little crazy. Is he really getting a raw deal here? LMAO, have fun with those fantasies. Go back to your VIPbackchannel cuntfest.

Count me in on the Macy Pool. But from reading these posts I say this is how she really feels about her former clients. Really love the "cuntfest" line.

'mental derelicts'?...'resoluted to'?... thats our little Rhodes Scholar!
Sorry for being stable and having a sense of humor.
Hey, on the bright side, Im sure Macy as a wife is like having a credit card....car gets a flat...she sucks you a new one. lose your travelers checks...she sucks you into a four star hotel....crappy seats on the plane....well, you get the idea. Thats every mans dream for sure.
Sane and stable was why one hour was all I ever needed.

has nothing to do with sarcasm. Like Bizarro and the rest of us, I'm just positioning myself to be Macy's rebound guy if things dont work out with the wedding.

"Rebound guy"? dude, spare the sacarine then, if youve got 300.00 (or 350 for the deluxe 1.5 hour session) you can be one of the rebound guys.
a john is a john is a john is a john.

after thinking it over, I dont wanna just do Macy, I wanna be the rebound guy for marrying her. She's got everything a man could want. Classy, articulate, well mannered, and all soft and cuddly. She's damn near perfect. The kind of woman I can take to meet mom and grandma. Mach rocks.

on his gleaming white armor to defend the churlish, the meanspirited but thinskinned, the nastiest provider this side of Aileen Wuornos (fer chrissakes, go look it up)
HEY
Maybe Chris is marrying Macy???
think of it....
that would do for hobbying what Lee Harvey Oswald did for the motorcade...
What a twofer!

You're a real catch, Tiff; his loss.

-- Modified on 3/3/2008 9:37:27 AM

This has got to be one of the funniest threads I've read in a long time...thanks guys for making me laugh this afternoon!

it sounds like you had quite the experience in this area

whuut?, whuut?  Inquiring minds just wanna know.

Like many of her appts, Tiff wouldn't show up.

Macy getting MARRIED ???!!! LMAO ..

Wasn't it "Mr. T" that used to say, "I pity Da Fool"?  The guy must be a masochist.

(kidding --only partially) !

-- Modified on 3/3/2008 11:37:18 AM

Re: Macy getting MARRIED ???!!! LMAO ..

I love you too :p BTW I wear the cuffs, 'cept around my wrists.

Well, things are looking up...her website has been "paused"...not taken down...just "paused"...so you might have a chance...

LOL you're not the first person to question that. I paused it instead of taking it down to retain my domain name.

Sweet little thing that she is.....

But at least Macy is real.... few that are that real...  baggage and all, going in you know what you will get... and it is odd that there are dudes on here who obviously enjoy sex (well, ya do don't ya?) are the same ones who criticize the lovely ms. Madison for liking sex as well....

A few days ago on the Gen Discussion board, there was a thread about the church in Florida that wanted to force all married couples to have sex once a day.... I think it was Sins who commented that she would feel deprived - cuttin down like that to once a day... lets face it... we are all addicts.  no one better than the other...


And yes, Tiff, Macy et all this is a shameless suck up!

... See how much laughter you bring to the world!  And don't listen to them, believe me they are laughing with you and not AT you. I'll be here, steadfastly waiting, if things don't work out with your marriage plans. And all that talk about over and unders and doubling down is not at all funny in my book. You go girl.

Bizarro, back off, it is I that await the sweet charms of Macy first. And I will joust or fence for the honor. ON GUARD!!!!!!!!

However, Julianna and Karina are both tops in my book.

why not.... shoulda seen what I was married to before...

2) maintaining a friendship... how else is she gonna keep my in my lifestyle...

3) tell me all?  heck I want her to let me film it and sell it ala Amy Fisher, or Paris Hilton, or Kim Kardashian, or Pam Anderson or.... well you get the drift....

-- Modified on 3/3/2008 2:31:00 PM

I would suggest both you and he get some therapy prior to matrimony to insure it's success.  It's not half as expensive as divorce lawyers and it's sooooooo helpful.

My hat's off to you MD.  Your questions have sparked a half-dozen very funny threads.

...and what's wrong with little cuntfest my dear?

He's lucky.  She doesn't have his phone number.  She has mine, but I know she can't figure out who I am.  All you other fellas out there should just go ahead and change your phone number now.  I wouldn't want to receive a call from Mr. Macy demanding some hush money.

Cuntfest:
A) file that for the future fellas, when youre thinking about that cherished GFE...Thats what she thinks of you, and if you think any more of her....
B)just curious how fast a guy would be banned for referring to one of the ladies with the 'C' word....hmmm, always two sets of rules, always a white knight to defend your no-show, no-call....explains a lot.

So are you "bitchy old mental derelicts" happy now?  All you're doing is giving Miss Congeniality exactly what she seems to be craving at the moment...attention.  For fuck's sake, if she's retired then she should do just that...retire and go away.  But post almost a full page of responses re her upcoming "marital bliss," and suffer the consequences of her less than kind spewings.

But hey, at least we all know what she really thinks of us "foot in the gravers"...like that's really any fucking surprise.  Yep, as she always said on her "suspended" website: "I love my work," just not the people in it I guess.

Late nite musings from another bitchy old derelict who'll opt out of this cuntfest thread forevermore.

How many posters would (1)prefer that Macy, since she's retired, go away?

or

(2) For the sake of giving her marriage the best shot of success, go away?

or


(3) just adore her lovely posts like I do, and would feel a significant void in their life if she would just go away?

(4) Love her posts for the pure amusement factor.