Posted By: Rayakyle

I agree I don't understand why they don't either.The bad part is I'm in need of one so I can have an active account on here and so I can join p411. So if you are up for issuing one for me shoot me a email  at [email protected]  my website is acting up but you can email me for photos or any information you might need.

It is always appropriate to ask - and to send a "thank you for the great time" email after.  I have had two well known providers spontaneously ask me not to write a review because they "didn't want the increased visibility"    

FWIW, sometimes a clear post on a forum is as helpful to others (and the lady) as a more detailed review - especially if it is followed up by a full review.

Good luck, Raya - I wish you well.

J

I like the writing.  I've been behind this year because of a lot of things in my personal life.  For me they can be a lot of work.  I tend to get real graphic and use a lot of detail.

A couple more, applicable to me:

1. Uncertainty if provider wants a review. I have never been asked to leave a review, and only a couple times have I felt like I should ask to leave one. However, there are certain providers, particularly those that are somewhere above UTRs and somewhere below full-advertising indys, where I just don't know their preference, so I would rather (perhaps for reason #1 you noted), not comment.  

2. Nothing remarkable to say. I will always review if I had positive experience, or a negative one (i.e. B&S, scam, etc.). However, there have been some situations where the experience may have been "blah", but I would not want to leave a negative review, as that may negatively impact her opportunities, even though it may have been an off day, or just poor chemistry between us. I am not very consistent in the application of this rule.  

Also, TER gets very strict with their policies; I have had to make edits and go through re-approvals many times before to get it through their moderation. That might frustrate some folks.

Re: Sheer Laziness

Oh, laugh it up Blondie! If I had even known about reviews when we met, I'd have written you a great one. You fueled my newbie fire, for sure! Guess I'll have to track you down and make up for my past mistakes.

Many reasons

You're right- some guys feel that if they can't say something nice, then they shouldn't say anything at all. And I somewhat support this view. Girls can, from time o time, just have a very bad day, and gents realize that these women sometimes rely on this as a career, and have kids or families to support. I know some providers that do not get reviews or keep a profile on TER because they prefer to keep themselves UTR. Still other times, gents prefer not to "kiss and tell". I have had several old fashioned gentlemen whom I adore and are fantastic clients not review me simply because they are from a time when we didn't tweet, fb, and instagram every single thing they did. They like to keep their experience a private (albeit steamy) one. So, there are a variety of reasons, but you're right... It is a little odd if someone is booked solid, without any reviews. Makes me wonder what they're doing to advertise. Word of mouth? Other boards and sites? Eros? In my experience, TER has been my best tool of advertising, and produces the best, most dependable clients. So I couldn't see being in this industry without taking advantage of TER reviews.