I have never showered with a provider.  Is it reasonable to expect a provider to take a shower with me (especially if you book a longer than average date)?  I think that showering with a provider would be a good way to break the ice.

not only does it break the ice, sometimes it's necessary for either/both party (if you know what i mean)

and it works both as foreplay and afterplay. it's rather common (at least more common than you'd think)

I think it's great!  Several times I've showered and bathed with my girl and it was always fun!  There's just something deeply erotic about scrubbing and lathering a lovely girl... and it sets a casual and comfortable stage for the fun to come.

I hate expecting it tho, since a couple times I was hoping for a mutual shower since the reviews seemed to say she offered it to most of her clients.  

I'm not saying this is some sort of deal-breaker for a good time;  the only time it comes up is if I see reviews that indicate a shower together is the norm for that particular lady.  If then a mutual shower is refused, I'm left wondering if I did something wrong, is all.  That's the sort of thing that gets into your head and makes you not wanna repeat since maybe, just maybe, the chemistry just wasn't there for her even if she didn't show it in other ways.  

the hair

OK, I get out of my own shower, fresh and clean with wet hair. I then spend the next hour applying multiple expensive hair products, blow drying a certain way, and finally applying the final hair product(s) to achieve the "natural" look. My hair looks thick, shiny and just a bit touseled, just like the hair commercials. Perfect!

And then I'm supposed to get in the shower again with the client, GETTING THE HAIR WET? I don't think so. LOL. (And those hair scrunchies don't help that much.)

So, please don't be offended if the provider politely declines to shower with you--it's not you, it's the hair thing.  

a French-style "douche" hand-held water-spray (installed in my shower) that can strategically avoid hair

bathing/showering is too much fun to give up!

not doing something foolish in the shower and getting the lady's hair wet, she would be more inclined to do so.

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I also enjoy showering with a lady and have done so many times.  I am always careful not to get there hair or face wet, out of courtesy.  Many times I entertain in my home and offer the ladies a shower afterwards (by themselves to freshen up).  I have only been taken up on it once, but it's the thought that counts.

hornyness!  LOL

When I go to an AMP I always get the shower. Its fun and the girl almost always cleans the "naughty bits" for me which is a rush. Some really get into it. It is a fun way to break the ice.

Normally Providers here dont really do much in the shower(I have found so far) so YMMV.

Still fun for me though.