There really is no "normal" situation.  Each provider works differently from the next.  However, if a provider is going to use the room for the rest of the day on other appointments, it should be her responsibilty to pay for the room.  Many of the travelling providers will adjust their rates accordingly to compensate for the travel expenses.  Local ladies will often try to set up multiple clients to cover that cost as well.

But it all boils down to a simple understanding of who is paying for it up front.  If the question is asked in a courteous way, the lady should not take offense to it.  In a first meeting senario, many of the details should be cleared up without making the lady feel uncomfortable or suspicious, then repeat visits should be a breeze.  

The key for a successful provider is to give the client a perception of value.  If the client does not find the value, he will move on.  In your case, it seems like the provider left a bit of an uneasy feel to you from the money standpoint.  Yes, she got an extra 80.00 for that session, but are you willing to return?  That's your call.  It's like any other business.

"I forgot my credit card" would set off my bullshit detector, for two reasons: 1) who really forgets their credit card and related stuff?  That's like a 19-year-old who goes to a bar and "forgot" to bring their ID.  Uh huh.  2) Many hotels want your credit card on file even if you pay cash, for incidentals, or in case you trash the joint, etc.

If she kept the room and is using it for other purposes, then that's an incall situation and the expense is hers.  Now that doesn't mean she can't pass the expense on to you, but she should have included it in her rate instead of tacking it on as a separate item.

The situation you describe is not typical, in my experience.  I think you got suckered.  But like you said, it's only $80.  Don't let it get you down or be bitter, just learn from it and make sure terms are agreed upon in advance.  Once you've already put some investment into it (travel time, in this scenario), you're open to manipulation.  And once you've met the girl in person, brain is impaired.  Decisions about money must be set in stone by that point, unless you are one cool dude or just don't care about money.

This is how it works; If its an OUTCALL, the girl comes to my home or apartment or ROOM I provide.

If she has an INCALL location she usually has already paid for the room and is seeing more than one client. Because she is either traveling or has many appointments.

But it is something you need to discuss with the provider before hand unless you are picking up someone on the street. Its is RARE that you would ever go to the counter of a hotel with your provider and then pay togeather. Totally unprofessional in their eyes.

So remember the difference between OUTCALL and INCALL and if you need OUTCALL but are married or have a girlfriend or live in roomate or faimly then YOU get the room, If she offers INCALL, she ALMOST ALWAYS HAS A ROOM OR NICE PlACE to meet.

BUT ASK, what happened is awkward and a really good way to get busted. ALSO most girls would be HORRIFIED if that happened. THey want to be discreet and stealth and going to the counter of some motel is like "crackwhore" status.

Ok So OUTCALL and INCALL you got it right bud? and if you forget or are confused ASK before hand.

But dont start nickel and dimeing her that's a great way for a provider to say forget it, she is NOT a used car you cant hustle her down.

So if you want to see a NiCE independent girl and its OUTCALL only...then you are responsible for her "donation rate" , the room and accordingly a tip depending on how you felt the session went.

Check out Expedia, and Priceline, You can get 3,4 and 5 star hotels for a HUGE discount. THAT HELPS. Trust me. sometimes you may get lucky the girls may agree to meet you at a "seedy" one for like a "fantasy" type session. That saves money but you better pony up on her fee .....

Word travels fast if you are a good client....it can eventually lead to lots of perks, discounts,extratime....personal relationships....inside info....

But when in doubt ask, no one will laugh we were all knew once man.

-T

That I deducted the $80 I gave her outside from the envelope.  That way the total amount paid to her was her total fee.  If nicely said, she would realize that the amount was paid to her in two stages.

Since it was considered incall, you should not have to pay for the room at all, that is her costs and should be absorbed by her.