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Re: When someone brings his latest STD testing print out..
hushhush 2489 reads
posted
1 / 20

I am new to the hobby. I have yet to make my first booking so is there a proper way of asking a provider if she carries STD's or when she was last checked?

perfectstorm 19 Reviews 995 reads
posted
2 / 20

Some will answer honestly. Some will answer dishonestly. Some will be offended that you are asking. Nothing good will come from bringing up the topic. If you ask, "do you have any STDs?" would you expect anyone to answer "yes."

There is risk in this hobby. Take care of yourself. Reduce your own risk. See well reviewed ladies. Use condoms. Get tested yourself. Will this eliminate all risk? Hell no. The only way to do that is to be celibate.  

It is generally believed that there is more risk in picking up random strangers in a bar, than in seeing a provider.



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keystonekid 114 Reviews 901 reads
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3 / 20
swimtrekr 59 Reviews 825 reads
posted
4 / 20

Fast track to get your name on a no-see list.

Swim

hushhush 857 reads
posted
5 / 20

Posted By: hushhush
I am new to the hobby. I have yet to make my first booking so is there a proper way of asking a provider if she carries STD's or when she was last checked?
 
Thanks for the advice guys.gals. im stoked! just booked my first date on my birthday.

WymenLover 36 Reviews 743 reads
posted
6 / 20

Get yourself tested and take along the report showing that you are negative.

Show it to her and see what her response is.

ROGM 820 reads
posted
7 / 20

Don't ever ask that question to Provider. EVER. My suggestion, I would not get into this Hobby, just yet.  

Do these things first;

Find yourself a nice Church going College Girl  

Get Married  

Have kids  

Then get Divorced.  

Now after the Divorce, you're ready for this Hobby.

justanillusion 726 reads
posted
8 / 20

She may think he is wanting BB as in producing his clean papers which, incidentally, can be forged. Best not to say anything and do what one needs to do to protect ones self.

brilove See my TER Reviews 812 reads
posted
9 / 20

I do tell them the truth (which is I'm clean and get checked often) but I also included the fact that what else would I say lol.  I mean anyone can lie so asking is almost useless like asking if I'm a cop. Personality if a provider does have an std I would hope they would not be doing this or at least tell the clients upfront without having to be asked.  That's a perfect world. So as the others have said ... Don't even ask.  

Posted By: hushhush
I am new to the hobby. I have yet to make my first booking so is there a proper way of asking a provider if she carries STD's or when she was last checked?

harborview 10 Reviews 806 reads
posted
10 / 20

it puts a cloud over the meeting.  If she told you she had a STD, you wouldn't see her.  So she wouldn't tell you, even if she knew.  The best you can hope for is that she really tests regularly.  And then, take as many precautions as you feel you need to.

breannabreeze See my TER Reviews 742 reads
posted
11 / 20

I've seen enough posts in the Craigslist section of Rants and Raves to know.  There is also an underground world of hobbyists that trade info with each other that if you can get into may also give you some idea if anyone has caught anything.  It is rude to ask if a provider has STDs but that doesn't mean you can't scope out the area.  Your biggest worry (since you are wearing a condom right?) will be herpes and warts.  So look and see if she has a rash, blisters that have crusted up, or pimple like bumps in that area.  Remember if a lady shaves she's bound to have an ingrown hair or two and those bumps are usually in the pubic bone area...Those bumps are usually red and a lot of times you can see the ingrown hair through the bump.  But as others said, there is no 100% fool proof way to not catch STDs unless you practice abstinence.  I'd say you'd have a similar chance if not more of picking up an STD from a girl you picked up at a bar or went on a date with.  Most well reviewed providers get STD checks on a regular basis because contracting an incurable STD generally means you have to quit the business, or deal with an angry mob of hobbyists.

NattyBoh68 29 Reviews 667 reads
posted
12 / 20

Ask her for her STD card. She will appreciate your knowledge and your sense of safety for both yourself and her!

Ok, no for the serious answer. If you are here you better be prepared to have yourself checked regularly. Use condoms. I don't care how hot she looks. No BBFS. BBBJ, DATY and those type of things are up to you. Just do what you are comfortable with and read up on the risks.

If you want to be 100% safe get some lube, a box of tissues and there is plenty of free porn on the Internet. You will save tens of thousands of dollars in the long run.

ExquisiteGiana See my TER Reviews 629 reads
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13 / 20
fallonkelly See my TER Reviews 698 reads
posted
14 / 20

She will take that as asking for BBFS.  NO Huge NO

Posted By: WymenLover
Get yourself tested and take along the report showing that you are negative.  
   
 Show it to her and see what her response is.

London Rayne See my TER Reviews 690 reads
posted
16 / 20

Sure you can "ask" but you honestly think she knows if she does have an STD? If she was tested last week and had sex since then, the test is useless. That includes the 6 months before the damn test that she was having sex. Know your risks, and protect yourself. That is YOUR job, not ours. If you demand bbbj and cim, well...don't get angry if you catch something. Those are the breaks. Many lovely providers out there who do everything covered.

weipeikei See my TER Reviews 722 reads
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17 / 20

..It puts me on high alert. Why would you bring this? Are you going to try something risky?

London Rayne See my TER Reviews 623 reads
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18 / 20

Uh yea, hello officer lol. "No, we were not going to have sex for money...he just brought along this test result for kicks.

dicktracy 3 Reviews 606 reads
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19 / 20

Posted By: hushhush
I am new to the hobby. I have yet to make my first booking so is there a proper way of asking a provider if she carries STD's or when she was last checked?
Did she ask you about STD's?  If she has them she isnt telling you. You can wear a condom and take your chances like the rest of us or dont hobby. If you are really worried, wear a condom during oral, dont do oral on her, and dont kiss. It wouldnt be worth hobbying to me without those things, but its your health.

hushhush 654 reads
posted
20 / 20

thanks for the responses everyone! I'm just not used to hobbying since I am usually in relationships but work has been killing my schedule to meet with anyone in the last couple of months. Cheers!

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