Newbie Question

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Good luck.

OK, I don't do references or haven't yet.  I am a passerby kind of hobbyist.  I want to check out a girl, go on a site, call, visit and get the hell out of there.  I get excited by the rush that I am not thinking about trying to build a relationship.

This is bad because I can't do references.  I probably could, I guess I could call and say, "Hey, I was that guy that you saw several months ago, blah, blah."

Here is my question, are you like this?  And what got you settling down.  I want to see kind of higher end women, that are connected to high-end agencies.  I can't get in the door I unless I see providers that will give me a reference.  And I can't do that unless I get over myself.
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Plus, I am a little about even asking for a reference.

....a lady if she can be listed as a reference.  

  When I send my thank you e-mail, or when the gentleman is dressing before he leaves, I always tell him, "that while I truly have enjoyed our time together, if in the future, you choose to visit with another lady, please know that you may list me as a reference".

  Good luck in the future.

Hugs and Kisses,
Kelly

and finding such gals is not all that rare.

Not only should he feel comfortable in asking for a reference, but that is the attitude which brings you repeat clients!

-- Modified on 7/7/2012 2:04:53 PM

I see a lot of guys who don't have a TER handle or belong to any board for that matter, so assuring them they can count on me for a ref vs. handing over their personal info. to every provider they see, always seems to be a good way to part.

Hello All;
  As a fairly new member here, but long term client, I've been reading the boards and finding my way around. I absolutely agree with whiterabbit's post! IMO, London & Kelly both strike me as class acts. Now I just need to convince them to visit me here in "The Land of Enchantment"!!!