OK, I don't do references or haven't yet.  I am a passerby kind of hobbyist.  I want to check out a girl, go on a site, call, visit and get the hell out of there.  I get excited by the rush that I am not thinking about trying to build a relationship.

This is bad because I can't do references.  I probably could, I guess I could call and say, "Hey, I was that guy that you saw several months ago, blah, blah."

Here is my question, are you like this?  And what got you settling down.  I want to see kind of higher end women, that are connected to high-end agencies.  I can't get in the door I unless I see providers that will give me a reference.  And I can't do that unless I get over myself.
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Plus, I am a little about even asking for a reference.