Hi fine ppl of ter. We are a couple with a bicurious female. We had posted a few months ago about what we need to educate ourselves in protocol. The replies were immediate ,awesome and right on target. Thanks!!!       We are now ready to choose a provider and have contacted her to get quotes. Our provider is in Eros.    There are two girls. Visiting. Their profiles are identical. Red flags all over the place. The thing is, they are college sorority girls. My partner and myself both really like her. Not to be a critic..but their ad would make most hobbyists run for the hills.. is it possible that they really are just nieve? There are so many red flags including a dated card saying eros and the date of the photos claiming eros verified thier pic.Eros says they don't verify anything..stuff like that that it can't be a trap or scam I am not sure if Its acceptable to post links and ask for advise on them here. I don't want to be rude or improper to her ourselves and this forum.   We want to get together Friday and need some timely assistance Again, my other half spoke to her. She sounded genuine. her voice has the correct accent geographically matching her school She liked her pleasant demeanor and said..yes she is the one. She had a good. Gut feeling. I happen to be one who gives the female gut feeling a vote..lol      
 Thanks,  
 Holding our breath for Friday launch in nyc... or look for plan b. We are looking in erosny couples.

You are admitting there are "red flags all over the place" and you still want to see this girl? You mention nothing of her reviews so am I to assume she doesnt have any?

Eros does in fact verify photos IF the provider has been busted using fake photos in the past, but until someone complains, they don't offer such a service. Here is all you need to know...DO THEY HAVE TER REVIEWS? If not, you're taking a crap shoot. Bottom line...any woman you find regardless of where, you need to always check here right after for her reviews.

Even though we are new, we have found ter to be the best source of honest information. You bet we'll be checking and letting you all know how our adventures go..

also  here's a question. We would like to be verified but due to the nature of employment. Umm.... are they discreet? We dont want any issues. Are they reliable and trustworthy to have my personal information?


thank you bluepillman and London Rayne for your advise.

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1) Who are the 'they" you are referring to? Escorts or verifying services? If you are referring to P411 and DateCheck, yes, they have excellent reputations and will be discreet. I cant comment about the girl on eros. Get verified by one of those two agencies so you dont have to give out your employer info to every girl you want to meet.

I've seen inquiries about similar eros ads for years. 'Sorority girls', or college girls on spring break, always with the college actually named. It's usually a Southern one. For a while (back in 2010) it was the University of South Florida, or something down in Florida. Always more than one girl named per ad. They have been running for YEARS. Not sure if yours is one of those ads. But chances are, it's not something new, and I'd bet you tons of $$ that, whoever these girls are, they are NOT college girls on spring break. You have the same chance w/this ad as you do finding the real thing amongst the faux purses and wallets in Times Square.

http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=168052&boardID=2&page=#168052

A girl holding a white piece of paper (or some blank piece of paper) on which is written Eros and some recent date. Anybody who owns photoshop (or some minimal photo editing program) can erase the paper and use a 'Chalkboard' or even paint tool to scribble the date in what looks like marker. (Send it to me and I can do it for you lol). Think of how marker looks on paper in real life tho...those black splotches where the pen pauses, w/uneven inking (won't flow in some places)...does this verification photo really look like it would if you scribbled on computer paper w/a sharpie?  

From what I saw you posted about the girls on Eros. I think we all know who they are. They are featured on the front page. I also contacted them and didnt get no agency name  or website just a lengthy email explaining why is this and when I asked if they needed any references to get me screened they just said they needed my phone number and my name. This is indeed very strange so I decided to go with some other well reviewed girls.

I would never, EVER post what school I attend in my ad. I don't mind saying here and there where I go (it's a huge university), but to actually have it in an ad WITH face photos? No way.

They are NOT some horny college girls on spring break. Plus, those ads have been running since *at least* 2010. I'd say it's an agency. Best case scenario: bait and switch. Worst case scenario: robbery. The OP should stay far away.

Wow, this place is awesome. Genuine emotion means genuine people regardless of opinion. We are joining VIP here today.  My prime objective is to avoid both thugs and being someones gf in the clink.  Lol. Her gutfeeling loses its vote. Safety first. For both parties is paramount. Lesson learned.. if you guys can keep us pointed in the right direction, we may finally get to begin to explore our fantasies before I get my AARP card. Lol  
We have done quite a bit of self education as BPM had suggested. Now here's a question...and yes I've read the entire discussion here..  for a couple.. datecheck or 411?  

You tock man. Thx.  Safety  education, and the patient folks of ter  land.. we' re moving in...

As you said, safety is first. From what I can gather in my short life as a hobbyst is that always stick with a well reviewed provider. You'll know what you are getting and won't be dissapointed.

Definitely not LE,  definitely a college girl, it was as simple as I didn't know any better and ALSO I didn't know how to blur (or think to take pics with my face cropped) for about hmmmm about my first 7-8 months as a provider. During those months I actually didn't think anyone I knew would be looking at any of these escort/hobby sites so I thought I was okay in every aspect UNTIL I had 2 people damn near back-to-back admitting to recognizing me (freaked me out thoroughly) .......my next time taking pics and from then on i've blurred/warped my face in my pics to some degree.

Must be an online program, because every school I went to would have tossed me flat on my ass, if that got out. The whole "college coed" thing is a played out marketing tactic, that only works for girls who can truly present themselves to be genuine. I especially love the real models and pro cheerleader ads bwahahhaa.

....... pretty known Richmond VA univ. and I recognized a girl from there on the local BP .... don't think she got kicked out for being an escort. Yeah the college co-ed think might be played out but for many college is what got us into this *coughs*.  

Lol are you a carpenter? You hit the nail on the head blibdfonded.  
Thanks.  It's because of you awesome people who seem to actually care and help us newbies, that our eventual first adventure will be safe and fun.  

Thanks London,  
If its not too much trouble or out of line, I'd like to get you guys input on our potential pribidor.  
We got a referral from one of our new friends and have made contact with her.  She is highly reviewed and is considering taking is on.  Ty amber

What does +2 eom mean?  To me eom is end of month.  Sry I still have to work on the shop talk.

Ya gotta give a lil credit in the fact that I had the wherewith all to come ask experts..  rule one. When in doubt..ask the experts