I would never, EVER post what school I attend in my ad. I don't mind saying here and there where I go (it's a huge university), but to actually have it in an ad WITH face photos? No way.
Your gut instinct (or your SO's, rather) are great for some things, but I think you should probably err on the side of caution with this. Red flags are red flags for a reason.Hi fine ppl of ter. We are a couple with a bicurious female. We had posted a few months ago about what we need to educate ourselves in protocol. The replies were immediate ,awesome and right on target. Thanks!!! We are now ready to choose a provider and have contacted her to get quotes. Our provider is in Eros. There are two girls. Visiting. Their profiles are identical. Red flags all over the place. The thing is, they are college sorority girls. My partner and myself both really like her. Not to be a critic..but their ad would make most hobbyists run for the hills.. is it possible that they really are just nieve? There are so many red flags including a dated card saying eros and the date of the photos claiming eros verified thier pic.Eros says they don't verify anything..stuff like that that it can't be a trap or scam I am not sure if Its acceptable to post links and ask for advise on them here. I don't want to be rude or improper to her ourselves and this forum. We want to get together Friday and need some timely assistance Again, my other half spoke to her. She sounded genuine. her voice has the correct accent geographically matching her school She liked her pleasant demeanor and said..yes she is the one. She had a good. Gut feeling. I happen to be one who gives the female gut feeling a vote..lol
Thanks,
Holding our breath for Friday launch in nyc... or look for plan b. We are looking in erosny couples.
You are admitting there are "red flags all over the place" and you still want to see this girl? You mention nothing of her reviews so am I to assume she doesnt have any?
It doesnt matter what escort mall site a woman chooses to place her ad with. Since you are new at this, only see well reviewed girls whose reviewers have written lots of reviews.
Going by "gut feelings" may end you end in jail. Dont go by how people "sound." This is an illegal activity. If you dont already have one, get a VIP membership here to be able to read the reviews. Be safe, play safe. Good luck.
Ya gotta give a lil credit in the fact that I had the wherewith all to come ask experts.. rule one. When in doubt..ask the experts
Eros does in fact verify photos IF the provider has been busted using fake photos in the past, but until someone complains, they don't offer such a service. Here is all you need to know...DO THEY HAVE TER REVIEWS? If not, you're taking a crap shoot. Bottom line...any woman you find regardless of where, you need to always check here right after for her reviews.
Thanks London,
If its not too much trouble or out of line, I'd like to get you guys input on our potential pribidor.
We got a referral from one of our new friends and have made contact with her. She is highly reviewed and is considering taking is on. Ty amber
If its not too much trouble or out of line, I'd like to get you guys input on our potential pribidor.
We got a referral from one of our new friends and have made contact with her. She is highly reviewed and is considering taking is on. Ty amber.
Even though we are new, we have found ter to be the best source of honest information. You bet we'll be checking and letting you all know how our adventures go..
I feel they are on some sort of sorority fundraiser and totally amateur. I also like to think of the side of " what if I were the provider" walk a mile.
I think we are so optimistic that we are blinded of potential danger.
Thank you guys. I'm determined to get to be that lucky guy. Its her fantasy and I'm just along for the ride..lol. poor me.
also here's a question. We would like to be verified but due to the nature of employment. Umm.... are they discreet? We dont want any issues. Are they reliable and trustworthy to have my personal information?
thank you bluepillman and London Rayne for your advise.
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1) Who are the 'they" you are referring to? Escorts or verifying services? If you are referring to P411 and DateCheck, yes, they have excellent reputations and will be discreet. I cant comment about the girl on eros. Get verified by one of those two agencies so you dont have to give out your employer info to every girl you want to meet.
2) Eros is LOADED with bait and switch and bogus pics. DO YOUR HOMEWORK. Strongly advise to think with the big head, not the little one. Your fun time can wait another week. You will have peace of mind knowing you did everything right.
Have fun, but be safe doing so!
You tock man. Thx. Safety education, and the patient folks of ter land.. we' re moving in...
I've seen inquiries about similar eros ads for years. 'Sorority girls', or college girls on spring break, always with the college actually named. It's usually a Southern one. For a while (back in 2010) it was the University of South Florida, or something down in Florida. Always more than one girl named per ad. They have been running for YEARS. Not sure if yours is one of those ads. But chances are, it's not something new, and I'd bet you tons of $$ that, whoever these girls are, they are NOT college girls on spring break. You have the same chance w/this ad as you do finding the real thing amongst the faux purses and wallets in Times Square.
Anyway, I'd personally be wary. And I DEFINITELY would not share personal info w/the girls in that ad. If it seems too good to be true, it probably is. There are some of girls on this site with reviews actually written by couples who they've seen and made very happy. Other girls who have a proven track record of good reviews, who will show you and your gf a great time.
Make the wrong choice, and it's wasted $$$$ at absolute best. And Eros is rife w/bait and switch, scams, and worse.
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=168052&boardID=2&page=#168052
A girl holding a white piece of paper (or some blank piece of paper) on which is written Eros and some recent date. Anybody who owns photoshop (or some minimal photo editing program) can erase the paper and use a 'Chalkboard' or even paint tool to scribble the date in what looks like marker. (Send it to me and I can do it for you lol). Think of how marker looks on paper in real life tho...those black splotches where the pen pauses, w/uneven inking (won't flow in some places)...does this verification photo really look like it would if you scribbled on computer paper w/a sharpie?
Just saying. Don't think that you are the one among 5000 who will get a good outcome when there are warning signs all over the place.
Lol are you a carpenter? You hit the nail on the head blibdfonded.
Thanks. It's because of you awesome people who seem to actually care and help us newbies, that our eventual first adventure will be safe and fun.
Is there a thread on common scams, red flags( thx bp and sfamber) and set ups?
We are two, honnest , compassionate, caring , people trying to expand our realm of fun. Not end up in the pokey or ripped off and beat up by some thug who can't make an honest living.
..and remember, everyone starts as a newbie. Ya gotta start somewhere. Any advice is welcomed. Constructive criticism is a lesson waiting to happen.
From what I saw you posted about the girls on Eros. I think we all know who they are. They are featured on the front page. I also contacted them and didnt get no agency name or website just a lengthy email explaining why is this and when I asked if they needed any references to get me screened they just said they needed my phone number and my name. This is indeed very strange so I decided to go with some other well reviewed girls.