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kennyw 1 Reviews 1115 reads
posted
1 / 14

I just had a very unfortunate no-show experience with a provider; I posted a review, describing it, but I'm not sure that was correct; the review for instance required me to attest to her appearance, which of course I can't do if we haven't met.

What's the best way to share my useful information? A review, or something else?

henryb61 5 Reviews 293 reads
posted
2 / 14

That's  the way I understand it. There was nothing to review. You may be able to post something on the regional board. Lets see what Swim has to say.

Posted By: camilleofboston
....Have changed, you cannot review someone you haven't met.  
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swimtrekr 59 Reviews 333 reads
posted
3 / 14

if there was no meeting, you can't review her.  What you can do is what I did when it happened to me.  Post on your regional board what happened, just don't name her in public.  Tell people if they want to know who she is to PM you.  This way you don't have to deal with her in the open, who knows what she might say or do.  You can't post it on the Reviewers only board since you're not eligible to join it yet, so your regional board is the best and only option.

Sorry it happened to you, but don't feel alone, it happens to lots of folks, both hobbyists and providers.  Just part of the biz, nothing we can do about it.

Swim

SUPADOGGIESTYLE 33 Reviews 397 reads
posted
4 / 14

if you have any "contact" with her then TER will not let you post her as a rip-off (1) rating because"you got something for you money. It's a catch 22, there is no eventuality that permits a rip-off review.

-- Modified on 6/28/2014 8:18:13 AM

perfectstorm 19 Reviews 460 reads
posted
5 / 14

You can review a bait and switch, and you can review a ripoff,as long as you met the girl. There are many such reviews in the database.

You can not review a NCNS because you bever met.

SUPADOGGIESTYLE 33 Reviews 390 reads
posted
6 / 14

You are rejected because you did not have an actual session with her. An actual session is required to do a review. ?????????

Adjax 392 reads
posted
7 / 14

Are there any banned topics not allowed in reviews?  Provider drug use/STDs/questionable "management"/etc for example?

Ty.

1192967 45 Reviews 318 reads
posted
8 / 14

...about a review being rejected because it is not objective. It mentions drugs, disease, etc.
Go to reviews (tab at top). The instructions under "Do you have any questions?" include a link to the Review FAQ's. Click and read. There is a lot more about writing reviews you might want become familiar with.

Adjax 431 reads
posted
9 / 14

Posted By: xyz23
...about a review being rejected because it is not objective. It mentions drugs, disease, etc.  
 Go to reviews (tab at top). The instructions under "Do you have any questions?" include a link to the Review FAQ's. Click and read. There is a lot more about writing reviews you might want become familiar with.
Got it, thanks.  Can't say I fully agree with this policy; personally I think if a hypothetical provider recommended by hypothetical but well known booker hypothetically shooting H in front of a hypothetical client there should be a way to give heads up to others.  Of course this is purely fictional situation cuz those things never happen in a hobby word.

swimtrekr 59 Reviews 373 reads
posted
10 / 14

it's their site, and therefore, their rules.  I'm sure there are many rules, regulations, and policies that admin has here that many people do not care for.   Some I agree with, some I do not.

Swim

-- Modified on 6/29/2014 1:31:10 PM

perfectstorm 19 Reviews 335 reads
posted
11 / 14

It all depends on who looked at your review. Why didn't you try submitting it again or asking admin for info through a "contact us" or email?
There are many bait and switch reviews and ripoff reviews in the database where no session took place.
Here is an example:

perfectstorm 19 Reviews 306 reads
posted
12 / 14

You have to have some creative writing skills and know how to hint about things without being blunt. TER does not allow reviews mentioning drugs, but I have read some reviews where it was pretty obvious the girl was on drugs by things the reviewer said in the review. I wish I had time to search for one now so I could show you an example.

SUPADOGGIESTYLE 33 Reviews 331 reads
posted
13 / 14

Then when you go into the bathroom  BEFORE the session starts, you take a peak but leave the envelope there. Do NOT let the Hobbyist go into the bathroom after you unless you remove the envelope first.

GaGambler 395 reads
posted
14 / 14

When I stated just how dumb the "envelope" was many, many years ago, you would have thought I had raped a nun. Virtually everyone accused me of being disrespectful, demeaning, and just a horrible human being, that came from hookers and johns alike. Now more and more people are coming around to the idea that the envelope is not only a waste of time and energy, but is actually counterproductive to the lady.

I do exactly what it sounds like you prefer. I simply drop the donation on the dresser or nightstand within the first few minutes of arriving at the incall of a provider that I have never seen before. If I have seen her before, sometimes I don't bother until I am leaving, but that's when I am a known quantity and the lady knows I am not going to short her or stiff her. The last thing I want is for the lady to be worried about collecting her money when she should be busy pleasing me. lol

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