I like BBBJ but it's not my favorite.

I sometimes find a good old fashion HJ much more exciting, depending on the gal.

My favorite with many is on their thighs or stomachs while DFK.

There's a lot of choices on the menu.

I usually ask before performing it. "Do you need a little tongue kiss?"  If a guy declined(which has yet to happen to me) I wouldn't be insulted bu a little taken back.

If you don't love it, you shouldn't get it! As long as you tell a girl what you're into in a respectful way, the right girl should be more than happy to do what will make you happy!

Aside from the fact that I have had some amazing CBJs, and some HJ (at AMPs) to rival a good BBBJ...

Assuming this is from fear of STDs... a HJ or CBJ is probably your safest bet... do you do CFS? CFS has a real risk of herpes infection (less so with a female condom) due to the inevitable skin-to-skin genital contact (it doesn't take much).

This being the case, maybe you should stick to a massage and happy ending at the local AMP... or bingo.

We're all adults so if you pass then you pass...I wouldn't be like oohhhhh come on.... maybe it's just me but i'm do unto other as I'd want them to do unto me & all that good stuff so if you say no & don't like it I got other tricks. Don't sound crazy at all.

and choose not to go down on her?  Either you were asked or not would that be insulting towards the provider?  I can understand but should I expect it?