or would you rather not hear details?

Seriously, it depends if you want to see her again or not. If you want to see her again be tactful, say you want to spend time with her again and say something bothered you. Try not to put her on the defensive. If she really about making you happy she'll listen to your concerns.

Just my 2 cents though.

Steph

I've had minor issues with some ladies.Mostly i just let it slide but once I had an issue (she must of had a bad day and was complaining about EVERYTHING) with a lady I'd seen twice before. I just didnt book another appointment with her again.  

We all know what happened to Abe Lincoln after he was honest, right?

Some do and some will blacklist you

I'm only half joking.  My ATF smokes and for years she would always ask me if I could smell smoke when I walked into her in call.  I never did but one time I smelled it in her hair.  I didn't tell her that night but I mentioned it in an email the next day and she was very happy that I had told her.  The smell didn't really bother me but I knew that it was something she tried very hard to avoid so I wanted her to know about it.  I still see her and she still smokes but I've never smelled it in her hair again.

I dont mind hearing something that might benifit me. I mean everyone has their own opinions and likes and dislikes. But Im always open to hearing honest opinions. That's just me!

Possibly not the best idea. As far as I am concerned if a guy does something that makes the session uncomfortable I just get through it if it's not too bad and then never see him again. There are so many women and guys in this game there is no need to put up with whatever it is that makes the session less than great.

I appreciate honesty as long as it is done discreetly and kindly. I try my best to please and always encourage feedback.

some want it, but if you are writing an honest review of a not so nice session, probably not,  Circumstances dictate what you write, and if you, as a reviewer want to be truthful.  There are a lot of factors going into how a review is written.  I won't attempt to tell guys how to review their sessions.  

some people like to talk but NOT about personal "feelings" Like she might be thinking " I wish this guy would just STFU already, I'm not his psychiatrist" LMAO! Some ladies (not the young ones) are much more receptive.

as long as it is done nicely.  

I am open to feedback but I have never had feedback about a session I mean negative feedback.  I've had feedback about stuff we talked about and I value informed advice from people who have experience.  But criticism about my provider skills?  I don't think so.  If it's in a review, sure I would learn from it.  But that's where it belongs.  

If you want to see her again address it nicely. If not...next!

I've gotten some great constructive criticism on certain policies that I have, especially when I was figuring out certain things at the very beginning. Plus, I do like hearing what my clients think about the way I run my business, so that I can know what works and what doesn't. It gives me insight to whether I'm attracting the kinds of clients I like, or whether I'm turning them off inadvertantly.

2-3 times.  

*get a boob job
*lose weight
*gain weight
*didnt like your outfit
*your wig is spooky

"I'd be a bit defensive if it was something to do with my personality though, which it seems like you're suggesting your issue is"

One thing I would never say to a provider is: " You know?, you should..."

I like being told in a kind honest way if I am doing/saying something that can be putting a damper on the mood of the appointment. It just makes things honest and upfront and everyone is on the same page.