presuming it is the email she has listed on her erotic website, I think you are safe in presuming that she has that email secured and it would be appropriate to request any services she offers using the verbiage that she uses to advertise.

asking this in an initial request.I would suggest providing the required info to set up an appointment after screening inquire on what packages she offers.But,in my opinion if a gentleman contacted me and said what you stated in your post I would not respond to a explicit question like that.

Better would be to say something like:

"I have checked out your reviews and profile on TER, and was wondering if all the items mentioned on there are available?"

That's as specific as one should ever get.

when an escort's ad mentioned "an alternative way of having fun" for an extra donation. Surmising that she meant Greek, I told her when I made my appointment that I would be interested so that she could, ahem, be ready. Even though no mention was made of Greece, isles, Athens, anal, backyard or door #2 Monte, that was a greater liberty than I would have taken before meeting if we hadn't already talked on the phone several times.

Besides the necessary prep.   I'd never ask in advance, it's a conversation I'd have on an initial meeting.  
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want to ask the lady if all her menu items are available, (like Mrfisher said) and does she needs advanced notice to tour the Greek Isles.  Most ladies require some prep time.

Most good providers should list what they will and will not provide on their website. Many girls will put on their website "dont discuss details by phone or email". So, as unpleasant as it may be, you sometimes have to see a girl for one session and then afterwards if you've built up some trust, you may be able to speak right then and there about specifics. The big thing is she needs to know you're not a cop and once thats been established (usually by nookie) then she will probably open up and discuss anything.
I've asked all kinds of girls for all kinds of services (in person) and more often than not they turn me down. But they are never angry that I simply asked.
Doing it over the phone or email is another matter entirely and not a good idea a rule.


In your case, if she offers greek on her website then obviously she's open to it. Just have a little bit extra ready when she shows up, cuz its probably an upcharge.

does it seem like the perception on this board is that if we have enough money to p4p then money is of no object for us men? Everytime I see a question about a risk/reward when booking a session I always see a response of either see well-reviewed ladies -which often times are more expensive- or in the case telling someone to TOFTT and pay the donation for a session or two and not get ALL the services you want or are potentially offered because you need to build trust before you can ask? Has anyone ever thought that hey maybe money is an issue for this guy or many others and perhaps all we can afford is that 1 30 min session. Why should our experience in this hobby be any less gratifying than the man able to write a blank check?