Better would be to say something like:

"I have checked out your reviews and profile on TER, and was wondering if all the items mentioned on there are available?"

That's as specific as one should ever get.

How do we request for some services while making an appt via email/phone at the beginning, like for eg if the lady says she does greek on the website and I want to book Greek package, can I mention that while sending the inital request? Is this not considered explict terms?
Thanks.

presuming it is the email she has listed on her erotic website, I think you are safe in presuming that she has that email secured and it would be appropriate to request any services she offers using the verbiage that she uses to advertise.

asking this in an initial request.I would suggest providing the required info to set up an appointment after screening inquire on what packages she offers.But,in my opinion if a gentleman contacted me and said what you stated in your post I would not respond to a explicit question like that.

Yes, I understand. But most providers state that they need advance notice for Greek. How would I word that request without getting burnt?

Thanks. That is a good idea. I will try that.

when an escort's ad mentioned "an alternative way of having fun" for an extra donation. Surmising that she meant Greek, I told her when I made my appointment that I would be interested so that she could, ahem, be ready. Even though no mention was made of Greece, isles, Athens, anal, backyard or door #2 Monte, that was a greater liberty than I would have taken before meeting if we hadn't already talked on the phone several times.

Besides the necessary prep.   I'd never ask in advance, it's a conversation I'd have on an initial meeting.  
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Something like, "and was wondering if all the (cough) items mentioned on there are (cough) available?"

If you try it on the phone, you should actually cough, obviously.

want to ask the lady if all her menu items are available, (like Mrfisher said) and does she needs advanced notice to tour the Greek Isles.  Most ladies require some prep time.

Most good providers should list what they will and will not provide on their website. Many girls will put on their website "dont discuss details by phone or email". So, as unpleasant as it may be, you sometimes have to see a girl for one session and then afterwards if you've built up some trust, you may be able to speak right then and there about specifics. The big thing is she needs to know you're not a cop and once thats been established (usually by nookie) then she will probably open up and discuss anything.
I've asked all kinds of girls for all kinds of services (in person) and more often than not they turn me down. But they are never angry that I simply asked.
Doing it over the phone or email is another matter entirely and not a good idea a rule.


In your case, if she offers greek on her website then obviously she's open to it. Just have a little bit extra ready when she shows up, cuz its probably an upcharge.

I wouldn't respond to that either. That's still referring to specific activities. You might as well just come out and ask flat-out. I'm not going to admit that ANYTHING on my TER reviews is correct, not to someone I don't know. It's all fantasy remember? There's a reason for that. I agree with Travini. Ask her once you've gotten to know her a little, so she knows you are safe.

It bugs me how many men ask for explicit stuff before we've even gotten past screening. "Do you do Greek?" "Do you do BBBJ?" Heck, that's what the reviews are FOR (though I know this case is a bit different). Even once you're screened, unless you have some damn solid references from women I know personally, I still don't want referral to explicit activities. I don't want that so badly you're probably going to get an email asking you not to email me again because I don't do illegal things.

Let's meet first. If you have some long, explicit fantasy we can discuss it after the fun has began (and I know you're not LE), or we can discuss it for a future date. Someone else pointed out too that if you're talking about Greek a lot of women are going to want to see the package before agreeing to anything with it. Why go through all of the extra prep time if it's not going to comfortably fit?

Actually she can qualify for up to an 8 in performance.  She gets a +1 for anal.

But i guess you'ld have to follow the thread. It was a joke.


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... have most people missed the glaring safety point.

The OP is talking first visit. You decide how much time. You book it. You take that much money.

YOU DON'T EVER MENTION SEX ACTS which is what services are.

Code words are no shield, in fact they MAY be more incriminating in some cases.

If the woman lacks the safety savy and basically puts on her website something that means:

"$300 to suck your dick and let you fuck me. And for another hundred I'll take it up the ass"...

...well, you still better not mention the SODOMY PACKAGE in an email!

I'm not paranoid, but I am ULTRA SAFE.

If it's the situtation where the woman likes to know in advance to prepare and make sure things are clean, I would go on the first visit with the 4 BENJAMINS, and ask while we were playing. If she said she needs advance notice, then I'd tell her that I will always want that, and determine a safe generic way to convey that.


HH

does it seem like the perception on this board is that if we have enough money to p4p then money is of no object for us men? Everytime I see a question about a risk/reward when booking a session I always see a response of either see well-reviewed ladies -which often times are more expensive- or in the case telling someone to TOFTT and pay the donation for a session or two and not get ALL the services you want or are potentially offered because you need to build trust before you can ask? Has anyone ever thought that hey maybe money is an issue for this guy or many others and perhaps all we can afford is that 1 30 min session. Why should our experience in this hobby be any less gratifying than the man able to write a blank check?