Newbie - FAQ

I would have zero problems with this, and actually do this all the time.
lumbermanxxx 2159 reads
posted
1 / 13

Is it proper etiquette to ask a provider for recommendations to another provider?

London Rayne See my TER Reviews 707 reads
posted
2 / 13

Because I am so limited on the locations and can't work weekends, I am constantly sending guys to a few girls in my area. Hell, I even put a damn ISO out for Outcall providers on my local board. I mean, if I can't see him, what good does it do to stop another woman from making money? I am not getting it anyway.

bluepillman 632 reads
posted
3 / 13

well, I'd stay clear of asking her that, if I was a newbie. Thats if i understand your question correctly. TER will help you find the right women. GET a VIP membership here if you havent already done so.

Or did you mean "references?" After you see a lady, you can certainly ask her if you can use her as a reference to give her name to another lady to vouch for you. Almost all will do this for you, provided you were polite, followed her rules, werent creepy, etc.

lumbermanxxx 600 reads
posted
4 / 13

To clarify, i do mean after I have seen her, maybe even on my visit to her when leaving.

Posted By: bluepillman
well, I'd stay clear of asking her that, if I was a newbie. Thats if i understand your question correctly. TER will help you find the right women. GET a VIP membership here if you havent already done so.

Or did you mean "references?" After you see a lady, you can certainly ask her if you can use her as a reference to give her name to another lady to vouch for you. Almost all will do this for you, provided you were polite, followed her rules, werent creepy, etc.

lumbermanxxx 604 reads
posted
5 / 13

Thanks London, I always read your comments and appreciate them.  I just wish you were near Maryland.

London Rayne See my TER Reviews 597 reads
posted
6 / 13

a client asks about another lady he might like to see, as if he is their property. So, best to be prepared for that too.

Duplicitouslust 24 Reviews 555 reads
posted
7 / 13

Dear Ms. Rayne:
How will you approach this subject when you retire? Also when you attend your meetings at the Louisiana State Providers Assoiciation, what do some of the more seasoned providers say with respect to referrals when making a transition to leave the business or when a guy ask for another woman? I am sure it is something that comes up from time to time.

mrfisher 115 Reviews 500 reads
posted
9 / 13

I have had a few providers tell me that I ought to go see so-and-so, on occasion, but that is rare for obvious reasons.

You should have a very good relationship established first before asking something like that.

tps7c 5 Reviews 626 reads
posted
10 / 13

I know this is p4p but it still comes off as rude in my opinion.  It's like saying, you're ok but do you have any hot friends??  lol...

I know most providers wouldn't care because it's not 'personal' for them and they don't form attachments to us anyway.  BUT, think it from their business standpoint.  If you owned your own business, and someone asked you for a recommendation to another service right after they used your service, you might be a little bit annoyed/insulted.

tps7c 5 Reviews 571 reads
posted
11 / 13

She might also want to keep you to herself.  Assuming you're a good client (good hygiene, manners, always on time and leave on time, etc.), why would she want you to spend your money elsewhere when you could be spending your money on her?

baby_one_more_time 36 Reviews 527 reads
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12 / 13

Totally not a problem if it's a different city, or if the first provider is out of town during your desired dates, or doesn't provide a service you're looking for, if you need outcall instead of incall, etc., etc.

Different if it's direct "competition" for the lady.  I wouldn't ask a provider for a recommendation to another provider who provides the same service(s) in the same location at the same time.  That's kind of rude.  Sort of like asking a mechanic if he knows any other mechanics in town.

cantdance 95 Reviews 557 reads
posted
13 / 13

is it like asking a restaurant owner where I should eat?  I feel that it could be rude.

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