Newbie - FAQ

I understand, but this is a hobby that involves risk.
mrfisher 115 Reviews 543 reads
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1 / 17

sure, whaat the hell - go for it.

It's been a while, but I did a few overnights with a couple of gals and had a blast being lucky Pierre.

spinman91 61 Reviews 1994 reads
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2 / 17

but would three hrs be overkill for a doulbes session? I originally planned for two, but am considering a third. I'm gonna definitely have water available if I do

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SinCitySinner 67 Reviews 522 reads
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3 / 17

Constant fucking?

Fucking and BBBJ

Slow sensual sex and massaging, caressing.....etc

Drinks and BCD time..

Whats your stamina like? Are you 80 yr old who has problems getting it up..In that case you might need 2 hrs just go get an erection.. Or are you 18 yr old stud who can fuck non stop like a robot? In that case....the poor girl may need to be carried out in a gurney..

I can understand being a newbie, but these sort of questions are just common sense and something only you can answer..

Good luck with threesome..

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spinman91 61 Reviews 468 reads
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4 / 17

Again I know stupid questions and to answer I'm in my twenties and while not in the best shape I should be in I'm not slob either So I think I can go the distance. Thanks I'll try my best thankfully I at least know the one girl from my first threesome.

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spinman91 61 Reviews 482 reads
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5 / 17

Also like the title says its a REALLY dumb question. Good thing I eat a lot of avocados

spinman91 61 Reviews 427 reads
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6 / 17

Yah I figured why not its the gonna be a little before the holiday, I figured why not have two "Valentines" it's closest I've ever gotten to an actual one

Posted By: mrfisher
sure, whaat the hell - go for it.

It's been a while, but I did a few overnights with a couple of gals and had a blast being lucky Pierre.

crazyshit 370 reads
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7 / 17
spinman91 61 Reviews 516 reads
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8 / 17

Quite a few I have a few ideas/positions I might want to try with them if there up for it

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spinman91 61 Reviews 348 reads
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9 / 17

They are usually quick to respond. hopefully it's just they want to wait closer to the date with a confirmation correspondence

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crazyshit 381 reads
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10 / 17
spinman91 61 Reviews 376 reads
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11 / 17

Right that's a given (I haven't discussed it with them yet and I hope 3 hrs will give us time to try a few if not some alternatives), I always wait until we're together in the room to ask for anything explicit.  I just hope me asking to change the time and the duration, for whatever reason made her not want to see me again. I only received correspondence from the new girl not the one I had seen before about the change.  I figured it was no big deal especially since I am doing it a two weeks in advance, but as John Steinbeck said "the best laid plans...yada...yada" I guess I'll just have to hope for the best.

crazyshit 351 reads
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12 / 17

If you have to keep revising and changing, your planning sucked in the first place.

spinman91 61 Reviews 334 reads
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13 / 17

I understand that and if it means she rather not see me, she wasn't the provider I thought she was and enjoy my time with the new girl. But I have my fingers crossed that she is busy and wants to wait closer to the date to confirm anything. Worst case I save some money.  And again I apologize for being novice but it is my first outcall and the SOP isn't something I am familiar with which I explained to her to which I hope she understands especially given how young I am

crazyshit 347 reads
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14 / 17

If you are expecting everything to have the Is dotted and the Ts crossed before you meet, this might not be the hobby for you.

And most women are just going to want you to just give a little trust and stop going through a checklist for the session.  Honestly, it will take the pressure off if you do this.  But if you are so anal that you have to get every last detail right, many girls won't want to see you.

spinman91 61 Reviews 319 reads
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15 / 17

I'm normally not one to focus on the details too much, I'm terrible at micromanaging. I get you and I try to leave it up to the lady I'm usually not to specific with the apparel usually just a color or a theme then leave it up to her/them to figure out what works best for them I even asked them if they were okay with me moving things around the new girl okay with it the one I saw before no correspondence yet though in the past that's not unusual so I figure I'm fine and the way she operates I'll know before the session whether or not she's coming. So I figured worst case I have that much time to focus on getting to know  the other provider. It's more like I have to coordinate with two women who may or may not be coordinating with each other for whatever reason, so excuse me for making sure all parties involved have to at least be on the same page on some critical details. I just like some correspondence so that I know that I'm not wasting my time and can probably find an alternative if need be. I understand in this hobby planning is inevitably useless to some degree, but it's better to have a plan and have it fall through. then to not have one at all.

Posted By: crazyshit
If you are expecting everything to have the Is dotted and the Ts crossed before you meet, this might not be the hobby for you.

And most women are just going to want you to just give a little trust and stop going through a checklist for the session.  Honestly, it will take the pressure off if you do this.  But if you are so anal that you have to get every last detail right, many girls won't want to see you.

crazyshit 389 reads
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16 / 17

Just flesh out the broad strokes, and go with it.  If this is such an important thing that you are gonna get totally upset if things don't work out exactly as planned, you might be setting yourself up for disappointment.

spinman91 61 Reviews 364 reads
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17 / 17

Right I never expect anything to go according to plan. I guess it's just hard to have alternatives and contingencies, if there is lack of correspondence so I'm not wasting my time and theirs.

Posted By: crazyshit
Just flesh out the broad strokes, and go with it.  If this is such an important thing that you are gonna get totally upset if things don't work out exactly as planned, you might be setting yourself up for disappointment.

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