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Hand it to her.
Always.
My apologies if this question has been answered recently. What's the best way to leave a tip at the end of the session? Should you place it in the envelope or hand it to her? If you place it in the envelope should you do it while she is watching you? Thanks for your help?
You could include it in the envelope in the beginning of the appointment.
Or when she is walking out you could slip it in her hand.
I even had a gent stick a tip down my bra.lol
There is no wrong way to give a tip put it in the envelope or give it to her in her hand at the end very simple!
Here's a previous thread on how to leave a tip.
Just place it "under" the envelope that is presumably still in the same spot you left it when you entered the room.
No fanfare is necessary.
No fanfare is best anyway.
You don't need the person you are tipping to look at you.
Actually, its better that they don't see you making an issue about it.
They will find it when you leave .. and will appreciate you just the same... if not more.
Never, ever, hand it to her, as if you are handing a tip to a bell hop. Don't ruin the session.
Hobbying is about pleasuring first.... showing money takes away from what vip providers and top hobbyists enjoy the most --- each other.
This has been asked and answered here many times. You can search, but Jayda's answer is the best. There is no right or wrong way. Although I would say, sticking it in the envelope at the end of the date would be weird. Most of the time the envelope would have been left out at thebeginning of the date. She may have grabbed it and put it in her bag at some point, or it may have been left out the entire time. In any case you should not be touching it once you left it. That would be awkward. If the envelope us still out, you can leave a tip on or next to it or you can just hand it to her. mrfisher uses a palming method as he is exchanging a goodbye hug. (he has mentioned it a few times in tipping threads). Personally I leave it by her "stuff" (envelope if it is still out, or bag/purse, cellphone, keys, etc.)
We will get the same questions over and again. I learned this as a teacher, so we just have to be patient and point them in the right direction. Thanks for all your help. You are one of my highliest unpaid assistants here. Keep up the good work.
Swim
There are different camps on this topic, so if you spend some time reading up you will get the whole spectrum of tipping.
FWIW...I don't tip, and never will. I tip folks that make their livings on tips. In this game that is the furthest thing from reality.
Just to frame the issue...even at $ 150/hour that comes to an annualized income of $ 300,000 a year.
And you want to tip her...why??
Frankly, I see it the other way around. The gals that get me to come back are the ones that provide me with a beverage, a listerine cocktail, and a mint along with a good bye kiss.
but worry about how we like it. Honey, you can shove it up my azz for all I care lol, I am just happy by your gesture. I have had men tip me before, after, and even during so it makes no difference to me where or how you do it. Other ladies may have an issue with having money handed to them, but once you're in the door it's a bit too late to start worrying about all that. If I was not a hundred percent sure you were legit, I would not have accepted the date to start with.
It has often been said by providers that the best tip is a repeat visit. I don't tip, I bring a gift, and if I really like her, I will come back for a repeat visit. If you want to tip her, just do it discretely, however you want to. Just don't make a big deal out of it.
Swim
My normal practice is to gift on conclusion unless she presses for business first... I have the gift out & separate when I put my pocket junk on the dresser next to my clothes. (Getting dressed with pockets full is a good way to lose things.) So it sits on the dresser under my junk & is silently left behind when dressing. Often it will disappear in the back & forth of dressing & bathroom but sometimes not.
If I were to tip, I would not open the envolupe. I'd just place the tip with it. Or have it in my hand when we grasp hands for goodbye kiss. Either would work.
skb
I put a tip in the envelope once. Also the last time I did that. I went to use the bathroom and the lady called out in a slightly paniced voice, "How long are you paying for". I explained it was simply a tip. An unnecessary awkward moment.
Another time during an outcall, I handed the lady a tip at the end. Followed up by the comment "Here's some gas money". She stared back rather blankly. Awkward moment number two.
Now I just quietly leave it out in the open.
I usually don't tip either, but I occasionally do after a good session.
What really annoys me is when girls *ask* for tip.
Even if I was thinking about tipping them, being asked is still kinda disturbing.
and have a larger budget. That's because I tip everybody when I'm on vacation, bell hops, cabbies, maids, dealers, strippers, starters at the golf course, hair dresser, manicurists, why would I tip all these people and not tip my providers.
I always keep it hidden until the end of the session then I slip it in their hand as I kiss them good bye.
But they have to earn it. I don't tip if I didn't like the service, or i'm short on funds.
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