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flyboy60 1901 reads
posted
1 / 16

My apologies if this question has been answered recently.  What's the best way to leave a tip at the end of the session?  Should you place it in the envelope or hand it to her?  If you place it in the envelope should you do it while she is watching you?  Thanks for your help?

jaydalee See my TER Reviews 566 reads
posted
2 / 16

You could include it in the envelope in the beginning of the appointment.
Or when she is walking out you could slip it in her hand.
I even had a gent stick a tip down my bra.lol
There is no wrong way to give a tip put it in the envelope or give it to her in her hand at the end very simple!

Noonie101 19 Reviews 688 reads
posted
3 / 16

Just place it "under" the envelope that is presumably still in the same spot you left it when you entered the room.
No fanfare is necessary.
No fanfare is best anyway.
You don't need the person you are tipping to look at you.
Actually, its better that they don't see you making an issue about it.
They will find it when you leave .. and will appreciate you just the same... if not more.
Never, ever, hand it to her, as if you are handing a tip to a bell hop. Don't ruin the session.
Hobbying is about pleasuring first.... showing money takes away from what vip providers and top hobbyists enjoy the most --- each other.

perfectstorm 19 Reviews 616 reads
posted
4 / 16

This has been asked and answered here many times. You can search, but Jayda's answer is the best. There is no right or wrong way. Although I would say, sticking it in the envelope at the end of the date would be weird. Most of the time the envelope would have been left out at thebeginning of the date. She may have grabbed it and put it in her bag at some point, or it may have been left out the entire time. In any case you should not be touching it once you left it. That would be awkward. If the envelope us still out, you can leave a tip on or next to it or you can just hand it to her. mrfisher uses a palming method as he is exchanging a goodbye hug. (he has mentioned it a few times in tipping threads). Personally I leave it by her "stuff" (envelope if it is still out, or bag/purse, cellphone, keys, etc.)

London Rayne See my TER Reviews 543 reads
posted
5 / 16

but worry about how we like it. Honey, you can shove it up my azz for all I care lol, I am just happy by your gesture. I have had men tip me before, after, and even during so it makes no difference to me where or how you do it. Other ladies may have an issue with having money handed to them, but once you're in the door it's a bit too late to start worrying about all that. If I was not a hundred percent sure you were legit, I would not have accepted the date to start with.

hiddenhills 143 Reviews 634 reads
posted
6 / 16

Here's a previous thread on how to leave a tip.

Dr Who revived 1122 reads
posted
7 / 16

There are different camps on this topic, so if you spend some time reading up you will get the whole spectrum of tipping.

FWIW...I don't tip, and never will.  I tip folks that make their livings on tips.  In this game that is the furthest thing from reality.

Just to frame the issue...even at $ 150/hour that comes to an annualized income of $ 300,000 a year.

And you want to tip her...why??

Frankly, I see it the other way around.  The gals that get me to come back are the ones that provide me with a beverage, a listerine cocktail, and a mint along with a good bye kiss.

swimtrekr 59 Reviews 786 reads
posted
8 / 16

We will get the same questions over and again.  I learned this as a teacher, so we just have to be patient and point them in the right direction.   Thanks for all your help.  You are one of my highliest unpaid assistants here.  Keep up the good work.

Swim

swimtrekr 59 Reviews 438 reads
posted
9 / 16

It has often been said by providers that the best tip is a repeat visit.  I don't tip, I bring a gift, and if I really like her, I will come back for a repeat visit.  If you want to tip her, just do it discretely, however you want to.  Just don't make a big deal out of it.

Swim

quartertone 36 Reviews 537 reads
posted
10 / 16
shudaknownbetter 815 reads
posted
11 / 16

My normal practice is to gift on conclusion unless she presses for business first...  I have the gift out & separate when I put my pocket junk on the dresser next to my clothes.  (Getting dressed with pockets full is a good way to lose things.)  So it sits on the dresser under my junk & is silently left behind when dressing.  Often it will disappear in the back & forth of dressing & bathroom but sometimes not.
If I were to tip, I would not open the envolupe.  I'd just place the tip with it.  Or have it in my hand when we grasp hands for goodbye kiss.  Either would work.
skb

GordanNash 444 reads
posted
12 / 16

I put a tip in the envelope once. Also the last time I did that. I went to use the bathroom and the lady called out in a slightly paniced voice, "How long are you paying for". I explained it was simply a tip. An unnecessary awkward moment.
Another time during an outcall, I handed the lady a tip at the end. Followed up by the comment "Here's some gas money". She stared back rather blankly. Awkward moment number two.
Now I just quietly leave it out in the open.

oleper 7 Reviews 781 reads
posted
13 / 16

I usually don't tip either, but I occasionally do after a good session.
What really annoys me is when girls *ask* for tip.
Even if I was thinking about tipping them, being asked is still kinda disturbing.

1192967 45 Reviews 618 reads
posted
14 / 16
jaydalee See my TER Reviews 611 reads
posted
15 / 16

Posted By: oleper
I usually don't tip either, but I occasionally do after a good session.
What really annoys me is when girls *ask* for tip.
Even if I was thinking about tipping them, being asked is still kinda disturbing.

Ishootcraps 27 Reviews 365 reads
posted
16 / 16

and have a larger budget.  That's because I tip everybody when I'm on vacation, bell hops, cabbies, maids, dealers, strippers, starters at the golf course, hair dresser, manicurists, why would I tip all these people and not tip my providers.

I always keep it hidden until the end of the session then I slip it in their hand as I kiss them good bye.

But they have to earn it.  I don't tip if I didn't like the service, or i'm short on funds.

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