What are the normal question an agency or independent will ask. What's considered too much info? Should I be worried if they call my work? What kind of questions do they ask?

Here she goes. Ms Know Itall and her casting aspersions against her potential client base. I'd never ever give my name/employer to any hooker. May hinder your entry into this 'game' but it'll pay off in the long run. Big time. Otherwise you go to bed each night knowing which BSC hooker is going to decide if you won't see her again forwhatever reason, is going to throw your name, address etc onto a national black list.  

Posted By: JuliasLittleSecret

Not all of us are BSC, though it is up to you to decide which of us are and which of us are not.  Good luck with that!  LOL  
   
 Now, when I call a person's place of employment for verification, all I do is call the main number and ask to speak with you.  You will need to answer your phone for verification to be completed, and that's it.  Very simple and painless, and as long as you don't rob me, short my donation, (try, lol) to beat the crap out of me, or kill me, you have no worries about me ever bothering you again after we meet.  
   
 Hint:  If you stay with ladies who are busy enough to not have to chase you down for business, you should be fine.  

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That would mean they know who your employer is. Do you really trust a stranger with that info in an illegal activity? Only you can answer that.

What do you stand to lose if you are outed? What risks are you comfortable with?  

Join one of the verification sites such as RS2K or P411 and yes you should be worried about giving out your work #. Give them (providers) as little as possible and be extremely careful who you give your personal information to.  

So far it seems like I need to be aware of BSC bitches lol. I'm assuming providing work info to agencies is a no no too. The best bet seems to be set up p 411 and give them my name and number ....maybe a handle or two and should be enough. Unless you already have a provider or two that can vouch for you as well.

Some guys would be able to withstand the most batty of BSC girls and be fine, others wives check their emails and are the reason (quality) providers won't contact you unless you contact them. Only you know your situation and can be the judge of the risk you want to take and with whom.  

I'm a newbie as well with no provider references. If I purchase a p411 membership, will that suffice for screening or will most providers still want to call my employer? Thanks

Agencies are worse. Always a target of LE and they rarely dispose of client data regardless of what they tell you. A huge % of gals aren't BSC but if you find one who is, and she has your data, your life can be a living hell.  

For me, getting screened by P411 was the one risk I was willing to take (and it was surprisingly painless).  I might be missing out on a few great providers who require direct verification with them, but I figure that if I play only with providers who take P411 and who therefore are themselves participating in P411 then I am comfortably playing in the fat part of the bell curve.

After joining P411 find a provider that will see you based only on Ginas screening and start gathering Okays. Every provider sets her own screening policies, if one is requesting more than you are comfortable with move on. You will find that even 1 P411 Okay will open a lot of doors.

I was new to this a few months ago, thankfully my first provider suggested I register with TER and P411 she did ask me a few verifying questions once I did see her she gave me an ok. Since then no problem each provider has their own comfort level as you should. Do your due diligence on the provider also.  Also watch your handles as they can be searched on Google so don't use something your friends or spouse would check out

This is good advice.  After registering with TER and P411, I found an established provider (actually top-15 in her large metro-are market) who would see me on that alone.  Then I reviewed her and started the process all over again.  The second woman that saw me gave me a P411 OK and I haven't had to answer a lot of intrusive questions since.

Do you even know what some girls are capable of in the "most batty" category. Hmmm...I don't think so. Well at least you said "some." "Some" may translate to less than .001% however. lol  

Okay, you recognized that Charlie said "some" and not the "most" you put in the subject line. Perhaps you can also recognize that there's no "all" in her OP. YOU read it as an universal statement, but it also reads as a statement of etiquette. Her generalization is only off the mark for someone with an axe to grind

as that is what a board for beginners is exactly for, to get accurate info, both big and small. What she said was factually inaccurate because she is young and inexperienced.

I have received unsolicited emails and texts(!), so I know, and I would argue that it is bad form for a "quality" provider to do so unless it has already been cleared with client. Indiscretion is not an attribute of a Quality Provider. Disagree?

If I had said "providers", it would be NOT ALL PROVIDERS!!!

Like Jack, I have at least 4 pending unsolicited emails; all from top-shelf women, all of whom I've previously seen. They're simply doing what high-end girls do, nurturing the relationship and getting a customer touch. They're not running 2:1 specials or begging for business, they're just reminding me why I happily do business with them.

So I looked into p411 and they say you can call in your info if you don't want to submit it through the web. They claim they will shred your info once confirmed if you call it in. They ask for your work info too. Do you guys trust p411 with your work information? What else do they ask for aside from name number work info???

Better to give your information once to a company based outside the US than give it to multiple people whenever you get the urge to play. P411 is considered by many to be a safe and trust worthy operation, it's the main way I screen with and meet new ladies.

Agreed! Well said.