Hello Everyone,
I am writing this post as a primer for new providers who are trying to enter this business; seasoned providers who may have become less than enthusiastic about their job; and for anyone else that cares to read it. I am not a provider. But I stayed in a Holiday Inn Express last night, so I feel as if I might have some expertise valuable to the profession.
It's also fun to post things that get people to talking! LOL
Before reading the rest, grab your favorite beverage before starting. It's a LONG one!
*** Third of Three Parts ***
You've booked an Appointment
GREAT!!!!!!! Congrats! You're on your way! There is a guy interested in you, he has the money, and you have the time. What now? Well, think of it this way, when you shop for a car, and you walk into the showroom, do the cars have mud all over them? Does the place smell like a swamp? Are the sales people dressed like hillbillies at a truck pull? Hell no! You need to be in a nice hotel. I'm talking the Hyatt or some other 3-star/4star place that indicates you have class. Maybe you don't have class, maybe you live in a trailor, but this business is about perceptions. Show the guy you know the difference. You can get a 4-star room for $65 on Priceline. Do it!
Some girls think they are so hot looking that they can make the guy book his own room, and she commands the same income. Yep! They get away with it. Don't think that YOU can. Do the right thing. You are in this biz to provide fantasies and these guys are dropping good money on you. Get a nice place, decorate it with candles, scents and get a decent stereo to play relaxing music. How would YOU want a guy to receive you? Do the same for him. We aren't that different.
Wear hot looking outfits. Barefeet is not hot. Most of you are not tall enough to make a guy feel insecure by your height. That was over in 7th Grade. Wear those spiked heels, thigh high hose, gorgeous bras, and do your hair. Men want to see you with make up. We want to know that you prepared for us. Men are animals. The best way to make us most human is to shower us, shave us, put some cologne on us. However, you women are different. And MEN are dropping the envelope. Remember? That is why you are doing this. Dress up, dress your room up, do it all. WE deserve it.
*** NOTE: Be sure to check with your client to make sure he is NOT sensitive or allergic to perfume! Some guys do NOT want you to wear perfume as not to bring "evidence" home to his family. Ask the client FIRST before slathering that perfume on!! ***
Be sure to give that guy the time of his life. Assume that he is going to write a review of you. Every guy CAN write a reveiew, but only some of them do. Never let a guy tell you that his review is more important than other reviews. He's lying and trying to get you to fuck you for free. Treat every guy that you invite to your incall as if he's the greatest guy in the world, and you'll never have to worry abou this. Some guys have written 50 reviews on this and other sites. That means that spends alot of money on you and other ladies. Treat him well, but treat him just like the guy that is knocking on your door for the first time. NEVER let someone bully you into doing things for a review that you wouldn't normally do.
If you ever bypass a condom, you are a slut, a worthless cunt, and all the women that you'd love to be friends with, will villify you. Fucking a guy bareback will jeopardize the hobby, your income, and everyone's fun. If you fuck without a condom, every girl, every guy, will try their level best to destroy you. Don't do it. Don't think about doing it. If we find out you did it, we'll do everything we can to destroy you. Enough said
You've Just Had A Great Appointment
GREAT!!!!!!!! That guy just left your incall with some silly grin on his face. You did a good job! Guess what? He'll probably remember you for the rest of his life! You made him feel great! I know that makes you feel good. I know, he was fat and ugly, like most men in our later days. But YOU were someone different. You touched us, you talked to us, you listened to us. You are an angel on earth. Enjoy your status!
NOW is the time to jump on your computer and write him a thank you note. Salesmen know this secret, and you should too. Thank him for finding you, booking with you, and ultimately, showing up. You can pay your electric bill now. You can buy diapers or fine lingerie. Whatever you want. He gave that to you and you owe him a thank you! Don't be fooled into thinking that HE owes YOU a thank you. He does not! You're in a service industry, you take pride in running your own business and act like a business owner and thank him for your success. Pepsi and Coca-cola thank you all the time, you should thank your customers, too.
*** Some newbie providers have inquired about blacklist websites. Do NOT bother with those! Why? Let's say that you had a bad session with a client, please tell it to the appropriate forum / board on the website. You'll get more results that way. On blacklist websites, once you put that client on the blacklist, it's almost next to impossible to have that post removed if you change your mind. A large majority of those posts are nothing more than drama posts!!! If you have issues with your clients, talk with experienced providers because they have valuable insight to help you through your situation. Don't waste your time on the blacklist websites and FOCUS on doing your job right! ***
Discretion
If you fuck the Mayor of New York City, take that secret to your grave! I know you'd love to tell that bitch who was the captain of the cheerleaders in high school, how successful you are, but shut the hell up! I know that you'd love to keep a diary! I know that you'd find extreme joy in telling your neighbor about all the powerful men that want to spend time with you. Guess what? If you do tell, we will find out! See the bare-back conversation above! If you tell people, men will slam you in reviews, in the locker room, etc Shut up! The more you shut up, the more popular you will be.
Powerful men fear their wives just as much as schmuck bowling champions in Po-Dunk Indiana. Do your job right and shut up!!! That's what you're paid for!!!
InFinitum
I hope this "primer" has been helpful to those who are new and those who've been around a while, but thought maybe she's invincible. She isn't. We aren't. We're all just trying to get through this together.
Gents, forget the bartering, haggling, and other tricks that only show you have no money. Plus, guys, don't fall into the drama... you don't need it... ladies don't need it. Stay out of it!
Ladies, forget the gossip, the incessant posts, the drama, and the crazy posts that show you really aren't all that desired.
The hobby works for itself. Ladies make money, guys have fun. When anyone tries to manipulate that, things get all messed up!!!!!!!!!
I love you all, especially the lucky ladies who have seen me. I'll remember you and I won't forget you!
I'm done posting this one. This is everything I know. I hope it helps.
*** End of Part Three ***
sunrosc
and writing style, it's so different from yours...