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+1 - take that behavior as a BIG red flag. -e-
swimtrekr 59 Reviews 236 reads
posted
1 / 15
Good post, Melissa.

I hope that all who read this will take it to heart.  Remember guys, providers are people too, they have private lives, and above all don't need to put up with time-wasters or rude guys.  The better you treat them, they better service you will get from them.  Safety and discretion are two of the most important rules to be mindful of.

LLAP,
Swim

keystonekid 114 Reviews 214 reads
posted
2 / 15
Providers should do whatever they feel is necessary to be safe . . .

when seeing a guy. If a guy doesn't want to give the lady the information she needs to feel safe, then he should move on. Some ladies screen more carefully than others.  

Some ladies barely screen and should be avoided. You ask why? How about getting a matching set of silver bracelets.

SterlingArch 230 reads
posted
3 / 15
This will fall on deaf ears I believe

My first instinct would be to just not see these guys rather than instruct them do specific things differently.  Wouldn't you rather them give you these red flags so you know not to see them?  The audience that you are talking to that acts this way quite frankly does not care about you or your feelings

mrfisher 115 Reviews 202 reads
posted
4 / 15
However, if just one dummy out there reads this and smartens up, it will have been worth it. eom


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SE-Newbie 170 reads
posted
5 / 15
+1 - take that behavior as a BIG red flag. -e-


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KristaC34 See my TER Reviews 230 reads
posted
6 / 15
I have an experience...

In a perfect world, OP, wouldn't that be AWESOME!?!

Today, I was screening a potential client.  I asked him to provide certain info so that he and I could see each other, and so that I feel comfortable with him.  He obviously didn't like my request bc he told me that I am a piece of sh*t and f-u.  I'm like... ACK!!  "Thanks for the verbal abuse so that I can block you immediately!"

I've had moments when I wonder why some people act crazy, and how unnecessary it is.  Reading this thread makes me see that poor behavior right away can be a blessing in disguise..

Fancy8888 See my TER Reviews 246 reads
posted
7 / 15
Details for screening for Safe paid time

Posted By: SweetMelissa
Please don't text or email me with  
   
 Hey Baby., darling, Honey. etc.  
 what up, Let's hook up,  
 Dick picks  
   
 Mr. Oh, I am important you can't verify me or I have never done this before. .. Both are mostly lies. I don't give a damn if you are the BOA, CEO. Just be a gentleman and let me know that you are exactly who you say you are. . I know when you are lying  after the first 5 minutes of speaking with you and I must do so before we meet.  Myself as well as most providers  don't give a damn about your job or who you are or if you are married. what I do care about is. AM I SAFE, Who are you? for a variety of reasons! ( Cooties, Silver bracelets) are high on the list..  
   
 Please, Please do not think because you have followed me or otherwise that I am so hungry that I will negotiate with you. I will only see you if I feel safe and from there we will go for MY FEE and no less. I don't care how well you are hung or what you think you can do for me with your penis.. Size does not make the man.   Anything less then be above will get you deleted and laughed at.  
   
 I am really not a cold hearted bitch., but I am amazed at the number of folks who think that just because I do this that I do not have boundaries or self esteem or

keystonekid 114 Reviews 241 reads
posted
8 / 15
Guy must be a real DF. Did he make these comments through email or over the phone? If . . .

phone, maybe a reason to not list your phone number and only give it out once a guy is screened.

SterlingArch 203 reads
posted
9 / 15
Re: I have an experience...

Posted By: KristaC34
In a perfect world, OP, wouldn't that be AWESOME!?!  
   
 Today, I was screening a potential client.  I asked him to provide certain info so that he and I could see each other, and so that I feel comfortable with him.  He obviously didn't like my request bc he told me that I am a piece of sh*t and f-u.  I'm like... ACK!!  "Thanks for the verbal abuse so that I can block you immediately!"  
   
 I've had moments when I wonder why some people act crazy, and how unnecessary it is.  Reading this thread makes me see that poor behavior right away can be a blessing in disguise..
You might not like how he responded to you but think of how much worse the meeting would of been with someone who acts this way.  By the same token I have had providers act rudely (albeit rarely) when setting up an appointment and I decide to change my mind as things most likely will only get worse.  Simply teaching rude people to disguise their rudeness in their introduction will not help.

WCedie See my TER Reviews 189 reads
posted
10 / 15
Very good point and well said, thank you! (e)


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480funguy 178 reads
posted
11 / 15
Re: Guy must be a real DF. Did he make these comments through email or over the phone? If . . .

I'm sorry but I have to ask, is DF for douche ferry? Like a douche canoe only even more extreme? (Hard to imagine)

Posted By: keystonekid
phone, maybe a reason to not list your phone number and only give it out once a guy is screened.

KristaC34 See my TER Reviews 164 reads
posted
12 / 15
Re: I have an experience...

Oh!!  I completely agree with your comment!!  Thank you for sharing...

What you said, plus, I'm not into taking on anymore projects... I have enough of them IRL... ;-

Bob77 31 Reviews 174 reads
posted
13 / 15
Why not just go with a verifiable provider reference

I have been told some escorts do not want to do this out of jealousy.
From an escorts point of view what could be better than info from another escort if the client was safe

Sexy Carolina See my TER Reviews 152 reads
posted
14 / 15
I just delete and don't waste the time or energy

That's what I suggest
My phone number is only given out right before we meet so I don't have any uncomfortable phone calls
I could not even begin to tell you the number of emails I delete but the time spent doing this has been minutes and the anguish is ZER

lumbermanxxx 145 reads
posted
15 / 15
Love it..

GREAT POST!!! Have a GREAT day!!!!

Posted By: SweetMelissa
Please don't text or email me with  
   
 Hey Baby., darling, Honey. etc.  
 what up, Let's hook up,  
 Dick picks  
   
 Mr. Oh, I am important you can't verify me or I have never done this before. .. Both are mostly lies. I don't give a damn if you are the BOA, CEO. Just be a gentleman and let me know that you are exactly who you say you are. . I know when you are lying  after the first 5 minutes of speaking with you and I must do so before we meet.  Myself as well as most providers  don't give a damn about your job or who you are or if you are married. what I do care about is. AM I SAFE, Who are you? for a variety of reasons! ( Cooties, Silver bracelets) are high on the list..  
   
 Please, Please do not think because you have followed me or otherwise that I am so hungry that I will negotiate with you. I will only see you if I feel safe and from there we will go for MY FEE and no less. I don't care how well you are hung or what you think you can do for me with your penis.. Size does not make the man.   Anything less then be above will get you deleted and laughed at.  
   
 I am really not a cold hearted bitch., but I am amazed at the number of folks who think that just because I do this that I do not have boundaries or self esteem or

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