your post doesn't belong on this board. I'm sure many will offer an opinion, but I suggest you cut and paste it to The Erotic Highway. The Love Goddess will provide you with some definative answers, and her advice is always right on the mark! Good Luck.

I'm sorry, I couldn't resist!

Actually, there are some escorts out there that can probably compare to your ex. Sometimes you find that one where you just 'click' and it's like magic - without the arguments and hassles of a relationship. Unfortunately, you can't usually just roll over and she'll be there. So it's not quite as spontaneous as it was with your ex. But, on various levels you can get a good degree of intimacy.

OK, enough Dr Phil here! Get out there and explore some!

You need a true GFE.  They are very hard to find.  IMHO, I believe self-proclaimed GFEs fall into 4 categories:

1.  Random providers who claim to be GFE because it makes them more money - they know they're lying (most of them).

2.  PSE providers (i.e., those who do all the acronyms) who claim to be GFE because it makes them more money (maybe 20% of them).

3.  Providers who think GFE means bb (maybe 20% of them).

Note: Providers in classes 1-3 often give it away with wording choices in their ads, e.g., they "offer" GFE.  To me, it's not something you offer, but an experience created by a providers attitude and perspective.

4.  True GFE providers who understand that GFE is all about enjoying what you do and behaving like a lover who wants to be with you for free (maybe 5% of them).

The above represents my own very personal opinions formed after seeing about 350 providers.  Come to think of it, that would mean that I've known 17 true GFEs.  I guess that's right.  2 at Janes, 6 or 7 at Julies and the rest as Indies around the globe.

One more observation -- as you pay more than the average going rate, the percentage of providers in categories 2 and 3 increases.

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