Actually she's my ex-wife..  When we were married, I had no desire to hobby.  In fact, I had never paid for sex in my life at that point.  Sex with my wife was wonderful; beautiful face, great body, and she could fuck like a porn star.  Not only didn't it cost me a dime, but she fucked me like that because she loved me.

It was only after my divorce that I began to have sex with escorts.  Considering I had such a great sexual relationship with my ex wife, every time I see an escort, it always falls short by comparison.   It can't get any better than what I had when I was married and it will never be for free. Can I ever be satisfied by an escort?  

 your post doesn't belong on this board. I'm sure many will offer an opinion, but I suggest you cut and paste it to The Erotic Highway. The Love Goddess will provide you with some definative answers, and her advice is always right on the mark! Good Luck.

i loved to fuck his wife too lol lol

Well I think they were fairly rude .
I thought maybe you were my exhusband actually when I read this yesterday so avoided the post .Have a great day , Kendall

I'm sorry, I couldn't resist!

Actually, there are some escorts out there that can probably compare to your ex. Sometimes you find that one where you just 'click' and it's like magic - without the arguments and hassles of a relationship. Unfortunately, you can't usually just roll over and she'll be there. So it's not quite as spontaneous as it was with your ex. But, on various levels you can get a good degree of intimacy.

OK, enough Dr Phil here! Get out there and explore some!

that I got to have sex with a beautiful and intelligent woman who also loved me and wanted nothing in return except my presence. No provider could ever match that.



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Why did you get divorced??

and

Why ask "Can I ever be satisfied by an escort?" - if you already know the answer??

1.  She wanted the divorce, not me.

2.   Even though I know the answer for me, I was interested to hear other people's thoughts.  I'm not really about answers but rather about discussion and debate.

You need a true GFE.  They are very hard to find.  IMHO, I believe self-proclaimed GFEs fall into 4 categories:

1.  Random providers who claim to be GFE because it makes them more money - they know they're lying (most of them).

2.  PSE providers (i.e., those who do all the acronyms) who claim to be GFE because it makes them more money (maybe 20% of them).

3.  Providers who think GFE means bb (maybe 20% of them).

Note: Providers in classes 1-3 often give it away with wording choices in their ads, e.g., they "offer" GFE.  To me, it's not something you offer, but an experience created by a providers attitude and perspective.

4.  True GFE providers who understand that GFE is all about enjoying what you do and behaving like a lover who wants to be with you for free (maybe 5% of them).

The above represents my own very personal opinions formed after seeing about 350 providers.  Come to think of it, that would mean that I've known 17 true GFEs.  I guess that's right.  2 at Janes, 6 or 7 at Julies and the rest as Indies around the globe.

One more observation -- as you pay more than the average going rate, the percentage of providers in categories 2 and 3 increases.

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.. to it - because it hasn't happened to me.

I have to ask - but realize that it's very personal and would completely understand if you choose not to respond.

Why did she seek the divorce??  Did she ever personally tell you why??

I think there can be a difference in what people put on a piece of legal paper - so perhaps what she might have told you would be the real reason.


I ask - because you were so very much in love & so very happy and satisfied in all ways - but was it not the same for her?  ( at some point )

And do you think that you could ever feel that way about someone again??

Manny

ps - I'll remove this post at your request or as Mod's see fit, of course.

Hey Mr. Red Baron:
Pardon my asking but how does the observation in your last sentence apply to catagory 4; the one which really counts?
Thanks.
M'laid

I offer GFE.

Great question.  I have not seen enough providers in that category to have a very firm opinion, but I believe there is very little change in category 4.  It still seems to be around 5%.  Again, this is just my opinion formed from my personal experiences.