In the past 2 weeks I have been with 2 providers that when I asked them for a BJ while standing up with them kneeling both have refused saying that they felt that it was too much of a submissive position for them. They preferred to give a BJ with the male laying down because it puts them on equal ground. Now I have never thought of this as a domination thing for me, I just get really turned on by getting a BJ standing up and looking down and seeing a beautiful woman looking into my eyes as I look into hers. I told them thank you very much but no thank you and I got dressed and walked out. My question is this, do other providers out there feel the same as these 2 do?

board for a wider possible response of answers.

Speaking for myself, the first thing I like to do is get on my knees.

I like it when I have a client I feel comfortable enough with that I know I can drop to my knees before he has barely walked through the door..

Than again,I like being a little submissive, though I dont think this position IS submissive. I think its sexy and arousing.

On the flip side, I have had clients that do not want to stand because they feel uncomfortable, and prefer to lay down.

- that such a position is submissive because when I'm in that position I'm happy and comfortable with it and I enjoy it.  It's a great position for CIM and also better than lying down if the guy wants to look in the mirror and admire the view of being sucked.

So I guess you could say I don't feel the same as the providers you mention.

After reading your above message and then looking at your pictures, I must say that I need to meet you. The next time that you are in NY you should consider coming to Long Island.
My buddies and I will keep you busy.

I feel that the postion a guy or lady is in is absolutely  irrelevant.  What is important for us ladies is to love what we do.
Obviously the ladies that you are referring to may not really be uninhibited, or they may not even like what they do, I can't judge since I do not know them.
If we ever meet I promise you that I will kneel during a BBBJ.
I truly am sorry you had such bad experiences.
XOXO
Gina

Reamn Carrie!

EB,

An appointment with Carrie is well worth the drive from LI. Of course, I'm a little biased since she made my toes curl with a scene similar to what she describes above.

But beforewarned -- after seeing her, she'll be able to turn you rock hard with a single sentence.

I'm well known for my exquisite oral techniques and no matter in which position I perform, whoever is with me will be spellbound and unable to move...I can manipulate a man just with a light touch of my lips, tongue and fingers. I love to get down on my knees and surprise a guy with a bj that leaves his legs shaking to the point that he needs to lay down
Thank God  most women don't have any idea of how much power they can have over men's bodies.

I only hope that one day I'm fortunate enough to see that visual come true.

It is by its very nature submissive. However the submissive really has the upper hand in that situation. Direct eye contact, easy access to the testes, and ass. I am pretty tall so I enjoy it, but it is a real thrill to do something so naughty that others don't do. I revel in being the kink mistress.

Reamn Carrie!

Speaking of your buddies, EB you sure have a point.  Besides no need to make the drive into NYC when these ladies can enjoy all Long Island has to offer.  I think a visit by Carrie may be in order!

Call it what ever you want
But knees is fine with me!!!!!!


kisses
lacey

You must really want me to see you next week by posting that response, September is too long to dream.