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Speaking for myself, the first thing I like to do is get on my knees.

I like it when I have a client I feel comfortable enough with that I know I can drop to my knees before he has barely walked through the door..

Than again,I like being a little submissive, though I dont think this position IS submissive. I think its sexy and arousing.

On the flip side, I have had clients that do not want to stand because they feel uncomfortable, and prefer to lay down.

- that such a position is submissive because when I'm in that position I'm happy and comfortable with it and I enjoy it.  It's a great position for CIM and also better than lying down if the guy wants to look in the mirror and admire the view of being sucked.

So I guess you could say I don't feel the same as the providers you mention.

I feel that the postion a guy or lady is in is absolutely  irrelevant.  What is important for us ladies is to love what we do.
Obviously the ladies that you are referring to may not really be uninhibited, or they may not even like what they do, I can't judge since I do not know them.
If we ever meet I promise you that I will kneel during a BBBJ.
I truly am sorry you had such bad experiences.
XOXO
Gina

I'm well known for my exquisite oral techniques and no matter in which position I perform, whoever is with me will be spellbound and unable to move...I can manipulate a man just with a light touch of my lips, tongue and fingers. I love to get down on my knees and surprise a guy with a bj that leaves his legs shaking to the point that he needs to lay down
Thank God  most women don't have any idea of how much power they can have over men's bodies.