The world of BDSM offers a lot of flexibility for kink and swinging. If you get into certain circles of the BDSM community, there are parties where arrangements like full swap can be worked out.  

nycad

A client took me to Checkmate on my last tour here, and

we saw all degrees of play... some full swap, some soft swap, some just watching. As you get more experience in the lifestyle, you will find that you can rarely categorize a club as "full swap" or not. Every club is a reflection of the people who are there on any night.  

Of course, I live in the epicenter of swinging (south Florida), so I am used to some pretty hot action... and we were there on a rainy Friday. That night at Checkmate, the crowd wasn't large-- but the people were sexy and attractive. I'm hoping to go again when I'm there in a couple of weeks.

I'd avoid Trapeze in NYC. Dingy, dirty and dated.

My advice-- go with someone who you really enjoy, and count any extracurricular play as a sexy bonus to your evening.

Have fun!

Tabu of S FL

Over the past several years I've visited Le Trapeze a handful of times. I've also been to Checkmates twice.
I would have to say that Le Trapeze can be hit or miss on any given night. I've seen some nights where its really dead and not much is going on in the great grand "red room" as I call it, and other times where it looks like there a great big orgy taking place with several couples involved. In general, I've witnessed the most action at Le Trapeze and there have been multiple times where I've seen full swaps going on.

I've seen some pretty good looking people at Le Trapeze, but I've also seen some trashy looking people so I guess you never know until you show up

Sitara

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hi there

this is great info

thanks matey

Alley

Lets go with the optimistic assumption that people are using condoms when they are swinging.  

I was wondering about the couples that go swinging.  Do fluid bonded couples that swing use condoms with each other when at a swing club?  Is that part of the etiquette?  Or do they do what's natural with each other and just use condoms when engaging with others?  Is such behavior accepted or forbidden