Hello all,
I'm a man in my mid 30's, married, looking to take up the hobby.  Money isn't really an issue and I'm looking for the safest/best experience possible.  The problem is that most of the well reviewed ladies and agencies require references which I of course don't have.  Any suggestions on how I should go about starting?  FYI I'm in western mass but I don't mind a little bit of a drive.  
      Thanks much.
             Brian

you will get some excellent responses there, better than I can do.  Welcome to a highly addictive hobby...which you may kick yourself for not joining earlier.

any of the referral type sites...it is your best bet to get your foot in the door...then once you have seen one gal you will have a provider reference as well 8o)

... and also read the Newbie Manual (self help). It's all been said there.  I've been at it for almost three months and there's a lot to learn.  My main suggestion is to go to P411 first because you can actually speak with someone there who'll help you to identify the info they need for verification.  Once you've joined, seek providers who are listed as "Newbie friendly."  After you seen a couple, have them give you a "Provider OK." and you'll be set.  Good luck!

My website has details on 1 or 2 hour outcall dates to western mass. I am more then happy to be your first, especially since you are Irish like me