Gross over-generalizations incoming.
Supply and demand, the itch and the scratch, the small vs. the big brain, wham-bam or something more, particular interests or needs (whatever they may be)... The discussions have all been had, and really aren't the aim of my foray into initiating a discussion on the board.
I have been around the hobby longer than even I realize sometimes. With that, I have seen my share of trends, geographical differences and similarities, and have experienced things both wonderful and deplorable which I will never forget.
More recently though, I have observed an inflation of rate the likes of which is almost incomparable, and the rationale (at least to me, hence the post) lacking.
I have followed the rise of some from their more humble beginnings to world-elite class (repeatedly kicking myself for not taking an opportunity to meet them, of course), gradually increasing requested donations over time. These individuals are established, reputable, and allow for a very high level of confidence that time shared together will lead to only pleasant surprises. This post is not directed at these rare few individuals.
Amazingly, other individuals who are just as (perhaps more?) amazing to share time with have held their ground. We are fortunate to have several of these lovely ladies in our very own neighborhood. This post is not directed at these rare individuals other than to express gratitude.
More recently, a newer group seems to be emerging who appear out of the blue yet are still seeking major-league (or greater) compensation. I have found myself thinking, "Really?" more often than I ever have when I am finally able to find donation information. At times, it has bordered on, "You have got to be kidding me."
Perhaps I am the old goat akin to the "I remember when bread cost a nickel!" generation. Regardless, I am more interested in reading impressions other men and women in this community have. This is not intended to be a discussion, necessarily, on worth, or impression of self-worth, but more a venue to explore the trends in the community. Perhaps it would help identify some rationale that would make sense to me as to the 5, 10, or more bills being requested for a brief interlude, or being a relative unknown asking for nearly as much. What do the established folks think?
It's getting cold outside, and I know heat is nice, but I attempted to make this discussion-starter as non-confrontational as possible. Please keep the flames to a minimum.
Stay safe and have fun.
Stone