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Lennzi44 119 Reviews 11031 reads
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1 / 28

Funny thing today. Ran into Kate at her day job today. Can’t find her ad to provide link. She’s the older platinum blonde with huge juggies that gives bbbj. I think she recognized me. I was in the check out lane next to her lane. Might have to go back for another visit.  

Kind of a turn on to see providers in everyday lives. Saw Sue and Lori sitting together at a bar. Glad they didn’t recognize me as I was with my SO and didn’t need any drama. Saw Nikki of Mpls (now retired) as I was walking into department store while she was waiting for a ride. Talked to her for a bit and almost talked her into quick bj in my car for 100. I bet she would’ve if her ride wasn’t coming soon.  

Anybody else ever come across providers in their day to day lives?

vorlon 119 Reviews 128 reads
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2 / 28

I saw her but don't think she noticed me.  I also saw a restaurant server one time who looked just like a picture I saw in one of the ad sites from years ago.

jollyranger 52 Reviews 83 reads
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3 / 28

I’ve run into a few providers out in the civilian world, but I’ve never breached their privacy by talking to them. If they were alone, I’ve exchanged a quick smile and one time she came over to me since I was alone too.

Jersey_Girl See my TER Reviews 128 reads
posted
4 / 28

Other side of the coin... this is a question that is posed to me often.  "Do I bump into clients in real life?" I can honestly say that without making a date out of it or being invited to "swing by" their place of work, I have never. I only for the first time this weekend was in a place with other providers and mingling was not welcomed. I just keep very to myself in this world and apparently my everyday life is off the spectrum. I invite people into my everyday life through subscription sites where I drop where I am going to be even and not been approached.  I'm sure it would be a fun serendipity to bump into someone unexpectedly that you know so intimately and maybe spark a revisit if possible.

I could just be so wrapped up in being present, like I am in a session, that I am oblivious.  

XO
Jersey

joebush123 25 Reviews 101 reads
posted
5 / 28

I ran into one of my fav MNE girl over the 4th in mpls.  We noticed each other almost immediately, she was with her parents and siblings and so was I. She winked and smiled at me so I did the same. A few hours later someone had pinched my butt and I was horrified, turned around and it was her leaving and she gave me another wink, no one else noticed. Think she retired now as I don’t see her ads anymore and the girls in the same group don’t “know” her.

golfguy612 35 Reviews 86 reads
posted
6 / 28

I ran into a provider I had seen several times at the grocery store. I heard her voice first as she was talking with a friend and then saw her.  

I don’t think she saw me and even if she had, this was during covid and I was wearing a mask.  

I certainly didn’t approach.

Kingdami 58 Reviews 82 reads
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7 / 28

What was her name?

dirkdigler024 1 Reviews 108 reads
posted
8 / 28

Back in the old days when there was the various massage places to go to I ran into an ex girlfriend of my best friend who was also a friend of mine. You went in the place and met all the girls and picked the one you wanted to see. Back then it was all full service. When I went in I see a girl, who was a friend, was working. After an initial embarrassment by both of us I asked to see her. She didn't want to but I convinced her that I would never tell any one about our meeting and she agreed to see me. After that 1st meeting I pretty much saw her every week for 2 years. Spent a boatload of money on her but it was fun. Its been almost 25 years and I still have great memories of our time together.

paigesavage See my TER Reviews 101 reads
posted
9 / 28

and y'all can add this to your list of "reasons not to see Paige"... but this whole thread kind of gives me the creeps. I know the intentions of this thread are innocent (re: providers are real life human beings with lives) but there's something about it that feels off.  

 
Don't get it twisted, I'm not deluded. I know that as a "face out" provider, the likelihood of being noticed out and about in town is rather high. It doesn't detract from the fact that it's a weird position to be in because the chances are that you know of me but I have no clue who you are unless we've met. There are times I see a man staring a second too long with an almost knowing grin and it sort of jolts you back into remembering that little fact. However, this post gives me the creeps due a recent experience that brought the full gravity of the situation home.  

 
Recently, I was flying home from a fly me to you and I got a DM in my "message request" inbox on Instagram asking me, "What kind of scotch do they have at the bar?" I figured because I had posted a photo of my scotch on my Instagram story that this fella was just curious. However, I didn't answer and went on about my day. Later on that night, I'm settling in at home and check my email. This man, who has been dragging his feet about seeing me for almost a year, emailed me and said verbatim (copy/pasted from his email), "Our paths finally crossed today.  You were right in front of me at TSA in Baltimore and the same plane back to Minneapolis.  I must say wow!  Now I really need to find some free time and connect with you!"  

 
Now don't get me wrong... the heart of the message was flattering. It's nice to know that people think I look good in person; however, not to be dramatic, it gave me The Police "I'll be Watching You" vibes. Again, I think it's due to the slight power differential in that moment and the idea that this person could have touched me as you know how it is in airports and getting on and off the plane... you might bump into someone.

backbend 43 Reviews 183 reads
posted
10 / 28

Cool that you saw Kate.  I had heard she was back in town.   Very enjoyable sessions with her; always wanted to see her rack in full but she always declined the request.  Funny because she typically does not mind being touched down below so go figure.  I had enrolled once as a client for a massage chain because she was working there but she was gone by the time I tried to book with her.

I saw "Diane" at a concert once.   Don't think she saw me.   That is the massage person who for a while had to change her name because a TV station ran an "expose" and included her.

Also saw a massage person at a restaurant outside of uptown once.   She has moved since and was never reviewed here.   So there is not much information to work with there but there you go.

One of my very favorite under the radar people works at a financial services firm that I used to use so I was worried we might see each other but it never happened.  She was also very under the radar.

When you get down to it I pretty much only see under the radar people lately.   I am getting old and therefore so are they!

IJMiggs 99 reads
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11 / 28

“Anybody else ever come across providers in their day to day lives?”  Are you fucking kidding me?

We are not talking about doctors, lawyers, and teachers.  Sex workers identities need to be protected and their privacy not compromised for obvious safety and legal reasons.  Posts like this have no business being allowed.

-- Modified on 8/9/2021 11:19:07 PM

vorlon 119 Reviews 101 reads
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12 / 28

Yeah, if I saw a provider out in public, whether I'd seen her before or not, I wouldn't be sending her messages about it unless she was one of the very few providers I'd seen so often that I knew she'd be OK with it.

wingman1346 85 Reviews 94 reads
posted
13 / 28

Twice in 12 years.  Both in suburbs.  Once at a playground and once at a grocery store.  Both complete surprises.  Exchanged silly smiles and discreet nods and went on our ways.  Had good laughs at our next meetings.  

Jersey_Girl See my TER Reviews 109 reads
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14 / 28

We all make choices.  Part and parcel of us doing what we do  is marketing to the men that are "shopping" and looking. I am my brand. As a generalization, men are extremely visual and often are highly attentive to their surroundings as part of their human nature to be on a quest, and that quest for men... is often women.  

I had to pull back from my social presence for my counseling and book selling because of facial recognition, algorithms, and AI. Walking into any bar or restaurant and seeing dining customers faces in their phones I am always prompted to triple check that my location services are turned off.  I have chosen to do what I do now, in line with who I am now and that comes with some responsibility.

I was once approached by multiple people because my "Tub Time" videos were bumped to the top of the feed on Facebook which links to Insta and anyone in the restaurant was seeing my face and seeing that I am a Sexologist. Now, add in all the people looking for an escort or just fantasizing about it and pleasuring themselves to ads and escort malls and I know my face has been seen and given tribute oodles of times. I find it an honor.

Fortunately, I know how to graciously accept flattery and acquaintance frenzy from admirers and fans in real life so a casual eye contact or hello wouldn't put me over the edge. Life is to short.

Lennzi44 119 Reviews 137 reads
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15 / 28

Dude, chilax!!!  You PM me and now this on the discussion board all because I wouldn’t give you Payton’s previous identity. I told you I won’t because you don’t have enough reviews here to qualify getting this information rather your snarky childish rates.  

I’ve seen providers that are CPAs, EMTs, CMTs, Teachers, students and yes even a DR. I compromised nobodies privacy.

paigesavage See my TER Reviews 91 reads
posted
16 / 28

to reiterate my post above wasn’t about *how* I react to a client giving flattery and/or running into a client in real life. I’ve run into clients in Minneapolis plenty of times, when touring and, and even on a plane where there was some eye contact, a smile, and flirting via iMessage in air. I’ve run into subscribers for my VIP content in Uptown. Someone went so far as to come up and say hi. I was kind and smiled, politely turned them down when they asked to take me on a “off the clock” date, gave them a hug and continued to do my grocery shopping.  

 
To insinuate that a person isn’t gracious when they are only explaining how boundaries have been crossed before is rather callous. Yes, life is short and in that short life clients ask us to respect their boundaries and the virtues of discretion constantly… do we not deserve the same?  

 
Again, the issues I was raising above are 1) the power differential of being face out and clients you may never see seeing you out and about and posting about it on boards, talking about it in their back channel areas, etc. I’ve seen clients on another board go so far as take photos of providers out and about and post them and 2) the lack of boundaries some clients have in general.

MsDynamite See my TER Reviews 106 reads
posted
17 / 28

I would never bother a client in public let alone try to do it on the sly either.  
 Kinda creepy to me tbh

Lennzi44 119 Reviews 50 reads
posted
18 / 28

That’s funny. Thanks for the laugh.

Jersey_Girl See my TER Reviews 85 reads
posted
19 / 28

I was and always speak of my career only and the way I do things. It is never an attack. Words on a board like this are flat without intention which is why people get twisted here all the time.  I don't play that way EVER. Be love and show love is my mantra in all areas of my life. I apologize if you took this as an attack on your opinion and wisdom through life experiences. I just do me Goddess, you do you anyway you like.

IJMiggs 100 reads
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20 / 28

“I’ve seen providers that are CPAs, EMTs, CMTs, Teachers, students and yes even a DR. I compromised nobodies privacy.”  I think 99.9% of the active escorts do not work these jobs in their daily life.  Does anyone know an escort that is a doctor or CPA by day and an escort by night?  Fucking ridiculous!

We should ask providers on this forum what they think about discussing their private lives on a public forum.  If I saw a local escort and then had her as a server at a restaurant, is it cool that I share that story on this forum?

Why don’t you post on this forum the DM’s we exchanged instead of making accusations.  We both know I gave you shit about this creepy thread over DM.

-- Modified on 8/10/2021 11:03:08 PM

SageX6 5 Reviews 113 reads
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21 / 28

I know a very well respected classy provider that lives in my area that I have the pleasure of seeing many times.When appropriate, and we cross paths in public we enjoy conversations. I have also helped her at my job and she is a popular, respected high valued client, that is popular with our staff due to her kind and respectful interactions. She also has a very successful mainstream career that I will not mention out of respect for her. In public we interact in a most normal, appropriate friendship way.
Like Lennz, I have seen a paralegal, dental hygienist, hair stylist. (X2) and a part time EMT (suspect same charming girl) as providers over the years. Yes Miggs, these are people just like us, sometimes getting by or enjoying the thrill on the side. I don’t find it creepy at all providers are normal people, rather reassuring. Course, if we creep on them, that’s creepy. Lol

sweetromantic 157 Reviews 109 reads
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22 / 28

4 years ago I was working at an event for a very good cause. I was working inside a tent and a girl came in and I swore it was a very well known, very popular provider (at the time) I had seen a few years before this, twice. I knew she could be there because this was a cause she would have been very involved in. She was with a friend and I kept my distance. We never really locked eyes the 15 or so minutes we were in the same area together. I never did see her again but was in touch a few times as she comes and goes in the business every so often. I would have asked her about it if I ever saw her in person again but oh well, never happened.

  As for providers being doctors and lawyers it reminded me of a story. I provider I had seen probably 10 times in a year claimed she was many things. As we got to know each other better she would take my interests and career and tell me she used to work for a national company that had to do with said interests. She also claimed she was planning to be or almost ready to be an attorney. I never really believed a word she said as she was seeing many clients a day and would have no time for such a job you needed lots of time for. She had impressive stories and many guys would eat it up and I did keep coming back because she was that good. But if a provider has a high level career along with this she is only doing this very very part time and if at most seeing 1 client a week. Don't believe everything you hear.

lester_prairie 12 Reviews 109 reads
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23 / 28

Just like in civie life, if a chick finds you attractive, she will respond positively to your interest.  If she finds you unattractive, then you are a creep.  That's just the way life is.

jollyranger 52 Reviews 90 reads
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24 / 28

That reminds me of an UTR girl I knew a few years ago that was a law student and would fly into town once a month. Every time I saw her she had a new stack of law books in her hotel room. She did it to pay for law school without the mountain of student loan debt and for the thrill of the taboo situation. I remember the last time her I saw her, about 2 months before her graduation and we joked about how she was going to have to find a new way to get her thrills.

Pollenbroker 24 Reviews 118 reads
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25 / 28

I agree with Paige.  Years ago, a provider I saw regularly was in the same restaurant as me and my wife.  We noticed each other and didn't make anything of it at the time.  When we saw each other next, we were both uncomfortable about the experience.  

What has always made the hobby work for me is the clarity of its boundaries.  Once you're in that hour, in that place with the provider, the world outside doesn't exist.  You become deliciously intimate with a stranger within the four walls of that room and the time of the visit.  Then you leave, and that delicious world is just a memory.  

Mix the two up, and you make a mess.

There's a lot of wisdom and truth in the old joke, "I don't pay you to fuck me; I pay you to leave when we're done."

Drj5249 110 reads
posted
26 / 28

accurately put Pollenbroker

vorlon 119 Reviews 94 reads
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27 / 28

There have been several providers I saw for extended periods of time who were escorting to pay for school.  I suppose they could have been making up elaborate stories but the things they told me were similar to my own expereinces and to experiences of other people I know.  In a couple of cases, I started seeing them even before they decided to go to school and kept seeing them all the way through until they finished.

super_champ 36 Reviews 83 reads
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28 / 28
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