and y'all can add this to your list of "reasons not to see Paige"... but this whole thread kind of gives me the creeps. I know the intentions of this thread are innocent (re: providers are real life human beings with lives) but there's something about it that feels off.
Don't get it twisted, I'm not deluded. I know that as a "face out" provider, the likelihood of being noticed out and about in town is rather high. It doesn't detract from the fact that it's a weird position to be in because the chances are that you know of me but I have no clue who you are unless we've met. There are times I see a man staring a second too long with an almost knowing grin and it sort of jolts you back into remembering that little fact. However, this post gives me the creeps due a recent experience that brought the full gravity of the situation home.
Recently, I was flying home from a fly me to you and I got a DM in my "message request" inbox on Instagram asking me, "What kind of scotch do they have at the bar?" I figured because I had posted a photo of my scotch on my Instagram story that this fella was just curious. However, I didn't answer and went on about my day. Later on that night, I'm settling in at home and check my email. This man, who has been dragging his feet about seeing me for almost a year, emailed me and said verbatim (copy/pasted from his email), "Our paths finally crossed today. You were right in front of me at TSA in Baltimore and the same plane back to Minneapolis. I must say wow! Now I really need to find some free time and connect with you!"
Now don't get me wrong... the heart of the message was flattering. It's nice to know that people think I look good in person; however, not to be dramatic, it gave me The Police "I'll be Watching You" vibes. Again, I think it's due to the slight power differential in that moment and the idea that this person could have touched me as you know how it is in airports and getting on and off the plane... you might bump into someone.