I seldom write updated reviews when I see a provider again unless something noteworthy has changed.

…if a provider asks for one, or if my experience was exceptional (good or bad) compared to her other reviews, or if potential clients need to be warned about a dangerous situation. Fortunately I’ve never had to do the latter, and it’s been many years since I had to write about an exceptionally bad experience.  I don’t review someone again unless they request an update or there’s been a significant change in their service or appearance that hasn’t already been covered in other reviews.  

I post a review every time I meet someone unless there are some mitigating circumstances that make the visit non-typical. I've run into a few of those recently where my new friend has had something odd happen that resulted in a less than awesome experience for me, but I know it wasn't her fault. In those cases I skip the review. The rest of the time I write up an honest review so I can keep my VIP account alive and let others know what to expect.

I will write a review if the lady would like me to. I always ask her if it’s ok.  
As someone mentioned, I typically do not write a second review for the same person.

There are those providers (who are good) who still hate reviews.  So out of respect I don't usually write reviews anymore.  But if they ask, I surely would.  I always write honest reviews.  I actually just wrote a rip off review, so I am not against negative reviews.  But other than that, my reviews have been positive because my experiences have been positive.

There might be a few left, and they are 20 years old. But one day, my lawyer called me and said, "shut up!"

I decided also to edit two years of board posts.  

many years ago when I got started I would ask providers, to my surprise they would say no or I wish you would not. I did publish a few thinking I could use as references. none of providers care anything I posted on ter. today if I get negative session: upsell, cash and dash, very fake pictures. I review with one sentence on the other sites.