Ok, heres the deal. I have a very anxious and paranoid personality.  I have seen several providers.  Has anyone ever contracted an STD while hobbying?(probably a dumb question)  I like to think the hobby is really safe-the girls i've seen..no cover, no nothing, and thats great.
Just looking for some info and opinions.
Thank you

"the girls i've seen..no cover, no nothing, and thats great."

you say no cover, no nothing....if I understand correctly you are participating in BBFS.  If this is true, you should be paranoid.  If you have not contracted an STD yet, it will only be a matter of time.

Good luck!

of COURSE you should be paranoid if you're not using protection. Wait a minute... you DO know where babies come from, right?... Uh-oh. Someone needs to go back to 7th grade sex ed class...

I am pretty sure he was saying that the girls he has met had a a no cover, you're not getting anything policy, but still he has concerns.

But feel free to fly off the handle once again with your condescending and sarcastic comments. I am sure someone will find them helpful.

I believe what the OP is trying to say is that the providers he see's require protection for all activities.  But I could be wrong.

but I can give the benefit of the doubt for that one. Apologies.

Your post does imply that you participate in bbfs which is also implying that all  of the ladies you have reviewed so as well i hope to god that it didnt come across the way you meant  it to.

But if in fact you do you need to be tested throughly and stop hobbying til you get the results back then from there on out practice safe sex .

We ladies see a number of gentlemen in a weeks time and if your providers are offering bbfs to you they are with the rest of the gents too.
the guy right before you may have had an std and not known..thus you are ALL infected and happily passing it along to everyone else including wives and your s/o.

Please Play Safe
xoxoxoxo
Leigh

Regardless of the difficulty in deciphering the original post I think it's still a valid question.

Has anyone ever contracted anything?  I know plenty of providers who include bbbj on the menu.  While that is far far safer than BBFS it isn't without risk.

I for one have never contracted anything but I would be curious if others have.

Have I ever caught an STD from a provider?  No.

I have found most escorts are more knowledgeable about safety than your average one night stand.  

Its a good idea to learn about the risk and how to minimize your exposure.  

Play safe

This is really a great question that ought to be treated with seriousness even though the OP has kind of scrambled his logic a bit. But this topic affects everyone in this hobby. And particularly if you are someone who sees multiple women or clients, it can be a life or death question.

I give the OP credit for admitting that he often sees women with no protection. I'm in no way saying that as an endorsement, just that his honesty is refreshing. Most times on sensitive topics like this everyone sticks to their politically correct responses.

The fact is that most men, given their choice would prefer to go without protection. The difference in pleasure is like swimming in the pristine Carribean vs swimming in a New Jersey swamp. Yes, you are still in liquid matter, but it's a whole different ballgame.

However most men are mature enough to realize the dangers such a behavior would expose to them and their families. But being frank, let's be honest and admit that in that moment of intense hormonal lust and excitement, it can be very difficult to resist the natural desire to stick it deep into that sweet hotness.

However to answer your question 600, personally I have never contacted an STD, either from a lady of pleasure or just regular girls. Part of that is because I really do not see a great amount of women. For example I've been seeing one wonderful lady for the past 5 months exclusively but also because I'm a bit more paranoid than you are.

I couldn't fathom seeing a strange lady and sticking her unclothed the first time. And for me, my fear of getting someone pregnant overrides my fear of an STD.

So I would strongly urge you to reconsider your practice of going unprotected with your ladies. Other means of release might not offer you the intensity of orgasm but the security of no STD's coupled with the assurance of not getting her pregnant to me would make up fot the drop in pleasure.

I would also urge you to really examine the reasons you might be attracted to such risky behavior.

I applaud you again on a very frank and deep post.

yes, that is what i meant..thank u.  I don't think i would be posting about these concerns if i was having unprotected "relations"  I would never engage with protection, i'm not an idiot.  But i see how my post was misunderstood, poor choice of words.

That was my real question.  BBBJ is somewhat common.  Am i alone with my concerns or are others concerned as well?  And let me be very clear, no girl i have met has offered BBFS..I apologize for my original post, poor choice of words.  Again, i have never been offered BBFS.
"no cover, no nothing"  meant u get nothing without a cover...Sorry for the confusion.

I took the OP's post to mean that he was getting BBFS and that was "great" for him.  If I misunderstood, I do apologize to him for my incorrect assumptions.

Perhaps the OP could post a clarification for inquiring minds?!?!

It seems pretty clear to me he's saying that, even though the girls he sees demand a cover or you get nothing, he's still concerned about contracting something.  I can relate to that--it's my numero uno concern for this hobby, and, as unpleasant a topic as it may be, I'd love to see some discussion of it.  Maybe there could even be a section on TER for health concerns.

I agree, i think a health concerns forum could be very helpful.

Thanks for the reply...Though i want to make it clear i have never had BBFS.  My concerns are with BBBJ and DATY..both of which i love!

So.... after all that, can anyone articulate the risks of a bbbj - other than messing up somebodies hair???

I was concerned for your health and the health of the ladies you have seen and will see!  If you are practicing safe sex and the providers you see are as well, your chances of contracting something is less than if you were playing with civies.  Providers are usually much more careful than civies and get tested frequently.  There is still risk involved with BBBJ, of course, but not as much as with BBFS.  

are a frequent topic on the Newbie board.  If you have a specific health topic you are interested in, just do a search on that board.  If you don't find anything, feel free to start a new topic.  The Erotic Highway could also be a help.

"I would never engage with protection..."

I took your original post to say that all the ladies you saw were "no glove, no love" situations. Your clarification (specifically the portion quoted above) were less clear than the original post.

try this

http://www.stanford.edu/group/SHPRC/ch4_ora.html

or this

http://std.about.com/od/riskfactorsforstds/a/oralsexsafesex.htm