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Re: Linked In
redsun71 1 Reviews 1556 reads
posted
1 / 22

I keep a very low profile and have never posted anything here. But got tempted today.
A reasonably know  provider that has been reviewed here was intriguing to me.
I went ahead and emailed her my interest and provided some well known providers as references.
She first asks my picture. Then I responded back asking for her clean picture a d mailed a quick picture I took on my computer when I got her email.  As a response she asks me to provide my linked in profile.

Don't know if she was kidding, but that was the limit for me. I gracefully responded saying
That is too much of my personal info and asked her to have a good day.

Did any of you guys experience the same when a provider after a the references etc still asks for too much personal info..

Boy I was on the edge..
Inquiring for similar experiences..
-cheers!

Pollenbroker 23 Reviews 959 reads
posted
3 / 22

It's an odd request no matter how you cut it.  We don't have any business asking or getting each others' Linkedin profiles.

jgoodman222 14 Reviews 1088 reads
posted
4 / 22

If a new provider won't take one of those, I move on.

redsun71 1 Reviews 989 reads
posted
5 / 22

I did not give my real ID at the same time the I do I provided is truthful with respect to references etc. someone new I would expect providers getting a little bit Andy but from someone who has decent set of reviews..
Maybe she knows me in person and wants to avoid each other knowing our outside world..

vorlon 119 Reviews 1063 reads
posted
6 / 22

But I have seen a number of provider websites that ask for all sorts of personal information so I am not surprised.

sweetkarley See my TER Reviews 1097 reads
posted
7 / 22

it is just another way of verification reassuring our safety as well
when I screen, I ask for full name, and employment information.
If I am giving you my all, I expect the same in return.
So I would not take that offensive....
:)

Intrigued42 4 Reviews 828 reads
posted
8 / 22

Do you really "give your all", though, including real name and where you live? I don't think either is wise, with each provider, or client, we see. If you're asking for full name and employer, you can find out a whole lot about the clients you're screening. Is that necessary if the client has already been vetted by a site like p411 or date check?

Pollenbroker 23 Reviews 917 reads
posted
9 / 22

LinkedIn gives information on employer, past employers, business associates, friends, etc.  A provider doesn't need all that information, and giving it out gives the provider access to loads of info that no sane hobbyist would want any provider to have.

tonightoutcall 856 reads
posted
10 / 22

Posted By: Intrigued42
Do you really "give your all", though, including real name and where you live? I don't think either is wise, with each provider, or client, we see. If you're asking for full name and employer, you can find out a whole lot about the clients you're screening. Is that necessary if the client has already been vetted by a site like p411 or date check?

termsofdelicious See my TER Reviews 1166 reads
posted
11 / 22

Your lucky this is only your first. Weekly, from hobbyists, I receive LinkedIn requests! And they are sent to MY email: [email protected]

Isn't that more strange then your request??
Hmmmph,
SG

MsDynamite See my TER Reviews 902 reads
posted
12 / 22

Happens to me too & I never ask for work info,  references &/or verification site membership suffices.

Posted By: termsofdelicious
Your lucky this is only your first. Weekly, from hobbyists, I receive LinkedIn requests! And they are sent to MY email: [email protected]

Isn't that more strange then your request??
Hmmmph,
SG[/qquote]

sexxxycat71 See my TER Reviews 930 reads
posted
13 / 22

I look at it like this...P411 and RS2K require that us providers have a good standing reputation in the community in order to be verified and listed through them.

Our reviews here show that reputation, so I offer my promise that I will dispose of all personal info after meeting...based on my reputation of being reliable, sweet, trustworthy, and fun!!

The bottom line is our safety...for both sides, but I need to say that I totally prefer that all tigers be verified through those sites listed above and not make me your "first" because I do trust the word of the highly reviewed girls in the USA.

I would not suggest giving ANY personal info to unreviewed girls or poorly reviewed girls but I think that the ones that show a good reputation, should/could be trusted...especially if personal info is all you have!!

xoxoxo
Good luck Tigers!!

sexxxycat71 See my TER Reviews 831 reads
posted
14 / 22

Or.....the girls you gave as refs have a bad rep with bad reviews or other red flags that we find in verification processes.

I don't care for personal info myself. sorry for your bad experience.

Maybe you should try a kitty instead...meow!! lol

xoxoxo

notfinnish 869 reads
posted
17 / 22

Heh! That is so strange it can only deserve dead-pan response! So, have you considered setting up a 'Samantha Good' LinkedIn profile and accepting their invites. The truth just might set you free.

On the other hand, maybe you have a lot of lawyers in your posse in need of networking and you are being confused for another Samantha Good. ;>

Posted By: termsofdelicious
Your lucky this is only your first. Weekly, from hobbyists, I receive LinkedIn requests! And they are sent to MY email: [email protected]

Isn't that more strange then your request??
Hmmmph,
SG

slowstrokes 18 Reviews 769 reads
posted
18 / 22

The person must have his e-mails linked so they are using the same contact list.  Linkedin somehow mines these and sends out these requests.  My SO sent out one of these mass contacts unknowing.  I would be very careful if you are using linkedin.

DollhouseMechanic85 66 Reviews 997 reads
posted
19 / 22

I once had a provider send me an invite to add her as a contact in my Linked In profile......C'mon....how does that look in among your professional colleagues you have a provider?  I don't know what she was thinking.  Unfortunately I had given her my real name. First and last time for that mistake! Obviously, I declined the request to add her to my linked in contact list.

DJ1985 21 Reviews 839 reads
posted
20 / 22
MsDynamite See my TER Reviews 814 reads
posted
21 / 22

I think mine is registered to someone else by miistake & that it's possibly an automatic thing because it happens a lot, I just ignore it since I have no way of getting into that account in the first place so I have my doubts anyone would add me . This is a good reason not to sync your contacts & use encryption.

Posted By: DollhouseMechanic85
I once had a provider send me an invite to add her as a contact in my Linked In profile......C'mon....how does that look in among your professional colleagues you have a provider?  I don't know what she was thinking.  Unfortunately I had given her my real name. First and last time for that mistake! Obviously, I declined the request to add her to my linked in contact list.

vorlon 119 Reviews 954 reads
posted
22 / 22

And I don't login to any accounts from the rest of my life in that browser.  I don't know that this method is foolproof but I try to make it more difficult for the Googles and Facebooks of the world to collect my data.

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