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Re: Intimacy is not always about fucking.... that's why
Cropduster1 2352 reads
posted
1 / 38
Bad reviews all around, my theory

Have noticed a great number of poor reviews from younger/ newer providers. Most of the top  
providers are fully engaged in the act, love getting fulfilled sexually and of course they get rewarded
financially. Lately most of the newer providers have one thing in common, they are not engaged,  
they want it over fast, and sometimes the guy leaves before finding out what was available.  
Do we have younger providers in this market only here for the money who really don't like sex?, could the economy be that bad?

OldTimerB 45 Reviews 1437 reads
posted
2 / 38
Blame it all on Obama

I can not stand the proliferation of B2B/DIY girls the last couple years. While many are sexy, hot, cute, busty, whatever, it's obvious to me that it's easy money for them and they are mostly in it for only that reason. I'd be very surprised if 1 out of 10 of these girls was around in 5 years. Some do enjoy feeling good during the "massage" but it's still about the $$$. What will these girls do when they're in their late 20's, 30's, 40's. They might be MILFs but with few skills and they'll never make money like they do now. I equate them to strippers paying their way through college, law school, medical school, etc.

mariahlove 1646 reads
posted
3 / 38
As a new, young provider

I can only speak on my behalf, i guess I'm unsure as of who you are speaking of ( i do not want to know), as most of the newer younger lady's i have either exchanged references or hang out with- all have wonderful reviews, i mean no one is perfect so of course there's a shitty one here and there move on and do better ;)  

Speaking for myself, i absolutely adore what i do, and i'strive to do my best, hell I'm miss freak nasty.. did i just say that? Welp its true, i naturally love to nurture gentlemen, catering in many fun and sensual ways. Hell i have had a few ups and downs with deciding what works well for myself, and now I'm good, loving every bit of it! And.very happy!  

I also believe there are many bullies, that have tried to break me, clearly have not succeded the reason i mention this is because i have been told some NOT ALL y'all know i love the true gentlemen of this hobby. But as i was saying, have been told guys try to.push new girls to see what they can get out of them, if they don't get it, there goes a bad review. EFF all of that i refuse to put up with crap like that! Period. But some girls can't handle pressure and fall into the loop.  

Sense I'm being honest, of course there are girls in it for the bank roll and mite hate everything about being a companion.. and sense I'm still being honest, this is a business after all so of course the money is a factor. But i honesty believe you have to love what you do, and be genuine. I can go on but my poor fingers hurt lol :)

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Posted By: Cropduster1
Have noticed a great number of poor reviews from younger/ newer providers. Most of the top  
 providers are fully engaged in the act, love getting fulfilled sexually and of course they get rewarded  
 financially. Lately most of the newer providers have one thing in common, they are not engaged,  
 they want it over fast, and sometimes the guy leaves before finding out what was available.  
 Do we have younger providers in this market only here for the money who really don't like sex?, could the economy be that bad?    

mariahlove 1175 reads
posted
4 / 38
Re: As a new, young provider

Yikes, looks like a part my comment got all screwed up, oh well i think you guys get my point.

nutzosmpl 15 Reviews 1092 reads
posted
5 / 38
I have had a few negative ...

experiences with providers in their early twenties ... a couple of them I've reviewed. Although I think Mr. Duster makes a valid point, my theory is that some of the bad sessions that I had, were because of the significant age difference between myself and the younger provider. Possibly a case or two of YMMV. Now I almost always look for providers over the age of 30.

Most certainly, I don't look OLD ... why just today several of the gals at the home were fussing over my new hair piece  ...   :-)



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masonseth69 3 Reviews 1013 reads
posted
6 / 38
Generational Differences

The same generational difference phenomenon that exists in the corporate world probably also exists in this profession.  And that is, there are significant differences in what each generation wants out of work and what they expect to put into it.  Generally speaking (and this is general, every individual is different), the older generations exhibit more work ethic and pride in what they do (baby-boomers, Gen-X).  Whereas the younger generations have a more 'what's in it for me' approach and do not view work as an important or integral part of their lives (gen Y)

bluwoodsman 25 Reviews 1257 reads
posted
7 / 38
So what's new?

Not sure it has ever been any different?  Need to do your homework or live with the fact that you will TOFT once in awhile.  I might wonder if the providers think there are more bad customers these days as well.

jchan113 4 Reviews 961 reads
posted
8 / 38
Re: So what's new?

Who cares what they think? We pay our money....i am a sensitive man that fucking loves to cuddle...

I am kidding, ladies. I am sure the younger gents are not like the more aged. I see several statements about preferring older men. There must be a reason.

mariahlove 1115 reads
posted
9 / 38
Re: So what's new?

I don't think there are more bad then good, i have dealt with just a couple of bad clients compared to the good amount of gentlemen who have truly been such amazing men.

I just believe no one should ever get toooo comfortable when first meeting someone new. But at the same time just relax and have a amazing time together.  

As for age difference i do believe age is just a number, if the younger gal is mature and knows how to hold herself i don't think age should matter. But yes, i can see where you guys are coming from. Just read review's and enjoy your time, like stated everyone is a individual with said- experiences will definitely differ

Unfortunately its sad that your experiences have been negative with some younger lady's whom may not enjoy what she does. Thankfully there are wonderful young providers whom will rock your world, in a very nurturing way.  

CC, NC, VS, NA, KC and myself just to name a few, but I'm sure you guys already knew this. ;)  

 
 
Posted By: bluwoodsman
Not sure it has ever been any different?  Need to do your homework or live with the fact that you will TOFT once in awhile.  I might wonder if the providers think there are more bad customers these days as well.

Sailana 1132 reads
posted
10 / 38
I don't think it's some general generational thing.....

...... as I've had great experiences with providers ranging from early 20s to late 40s. We can blame it on some generalization on how we think generations behave, but I think it's about how each individual approaches the hobby.... both providers and hobbyists.  

A lot of it is I think how we treat providers. If a provider feels safe and comfortable with a guy, and he comes into the date with a positive attitude (e.g. not nitpicking the small stuff and not seeking more than the provider wishes to give), the odds are much higher he's going to have a good time. Likewise, if the provider has a positive attitude and understands it's her job to give her client the best session possible within their respective comfort zones, it's likely to be a positive experience for both of them.

I do think that there's some ladies who really shouldn't be in the hobby, based on their reviews. But I'd say the same for some of the guys, based on their reviews and posts in TER.

Cropduster1 1066 reads
posted
11 / 38
Re: As a new, young provider

Yes and thank for chiming in. I read a good number of reviews and there is a real trend that a high
percentage of providers trying this out really don't like it and its obvious. Some barely talk to the  
client. This is after all the most intimate of all customer service occupations.  I wish they would go
away and the guys who give them business WISE UP, but I am hoping for AVG winter temps as well....

Mindyzurgirl See my TER Reviews 1864 reads
posted
12 / 38
Re: So what's new?/ the best kind of meeting....

Is between friends,  
And a man who can treat you as the good friend you are during your time together is the right age man.  
How could anyone compare FS providers to
DIY's or body rub gals.... Do you expect the guy who makes your sandwiches at subway ( made your way) to spend time trying to connect with you on some level or thinking of you when you move on.... How silly, yes getting naked can be somewhat intimate but most everyone gets naked and or masturbates at some point in their life.
 (human nature) - as most people eat,
 as most people go to a doctor and That brings me to this point doctors get paid -depending on their speciality- sometimes those wages vary greatly. One expects their doctor to be there in the moment and fully tuned into them during the visits. Why because you may fall in love and get married? No because it's their job!!! You wouldn't second guess what's wrong with the world (economy) if your doctor seemed distracted & if it happens to much you move onto another doctor,you don't contemplate wether or not they care or just want the $.
you don't determine they have poor work ethic... I think you chalk it up to there are good doctors, there are bad, there are good body rub gals there's bad...and hey some subway workers are so damn efficient & attentive they should probably go into the body rub biz.
   
 I can tell you when someone takes the time to share their body space & parts with you THAT is an entire different thing....  

The person is opening themselves up to you in a very real, very intimate moment, as one usually pays one way or another for anything they come to enjoy in life, rates are usually a small price to keep the lines drawn.  
I think everyone should stop comparing any other service to the "oldest profession" because there is simply NOTHING in the world like it, there are moral & ethical struggles- there is the curtain of shame imposed by our conflicted laws, there is laughter, joy and bliss beyond the hum drum of mainstream life, and it should be noted that women who decide to have such agreements know full well the difference between a job and a friendly agreement. As does any man that's in the hobby with the right frame of mind...no matter what his age is.  
       So yes I went off on a rant there, but I'm the first to say these are only my opinions...everyone has their own outlook. I don't mind any debate or disagreement anyone may offer, & anyone who actually read all of this -thank you I'm flattered that you would read about what goes on in my mind.  
I hope everyone has a relaxing Sunday =)
Keep smiling,
~Mindy

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DrTabulaRasa 3 Reviews 1360 reads
posted
13 / 38
Youth is not the problem...

With every generation and every age there exist members of the cohort that lack a sense of maturity. In order to participate in the hobby as a provider or hobbyist one must be able to perceive the other person in the room as being something other than an achievable objective.  

The role of the provider can be numerous and falls far beyond the realm of a sexual entity. If that was all us hobbyists wanted from them, their ads/websites would look more parallel to porn websites. In addition to living a sexual life, providers live a life of vicarious adventure. Each hobbyist likely brings a story, or introduction to each session, which the provider asks about. In a way they are acting as Socrates and moving the conversation in manner that eases the client and gets answers they want. The providers get to live through us. But we are not rating these attributes.

I have only seen one provider younger than myself and she was wonderful. I have seen providers that are a decade older than myself and wondered if they were trying to act immature or they really were. As I am limited to rating them on LOOKS and PERFORMANCE which would be to say they looked and fucked good/offered services. However, they lacked the ability to connect with me before my pants got off, which I cannot rate.  

So, to answer your question, if what you state is true that more younger/newer providers are getting bad scores than getting good score. Then maybe younger/newer don’t look as good and they do not know how to fuck as well/offer less services. They really want to be there and want to connect but lack the components at which are rating. It may have nothing to do being engaged at all. Unless I perceive the ratings scales wrong. Being as I have not seen any of the newer providers I do not have any anecdotes to provide any counter argument. It is more likely that you are just now looking for newer providers and have an eye for noticing bad reviews. Like when you drive down the road and someone says "look at all the dodge Caravans" and suddenly to notice tons of these cars. They have always existed on the road, just like newer providers with bad reviews have always existed

vorlon 119 Reviews 965 reads
posted
14 / 38
Newcomers

There have always been some providers like that.  For some, this is not a good choice and they drop out.  Others manage to hang around for a while (sometimes a long while) ripping off guys by frequent name changes, etc.  Some improve enough to provide a fair service and a few even become quality providers.  Are there more bad newcomers now?  Perhaps but there is always going to be some random fluctuation in the talent level of newcomers.

comet228 29 Reviews 1307 reads
posted
15 / 38
I am interested in you mind and body!

Heck you just plain..interest...intrigue and turn me on!

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Derpdydoo 78 Reviews 1153 reads
posted
16 / 38
This came to mind in a session I had this evening.

I had a session at an AMP this evening.  Get in the room and the lady Mamasan sent in wasnt a MILF but a shrug of the shoulders and a port in the storm.  Typical session, Massage, Table Shower, then it's time to switch gears.  Now, mind you, I have little to no real interest in this woman.  She hops on my back, starts licking and kissing everywhere and then begins tossing my salad and trying to get a taste of the Snickers I ate last Thursday.  I was as aroused as can be, and probably more so then a typical 20 something provider who lacks experience and thinks just her mere youth and presence should be enough.

This is when it dawned on me about experience and how far an older woman will typically go.  This isn't really a generational thing, more just a youth and inexperience thing in most cases.  That doesn't mean I won't be lining up sessions with our younger new talent.

cheyen 74 Reviews 1048 reads
posted
17 / 38
serious question to all

some are just more honest about it.  Serious question to all guys and a similar question for the ladies

Guys would you ever respond to an ad like this?  

From a ladies perspective "what reaction would you expect from an add like this;

http://minneapolis.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/you-wanna-see-some-i-wanna-see-some-cash-tasha-25/11603869

brilove See my TER Reviews 1024 reads
posted
18 / 38
Re: serious question to all

I think it speaks volumes!

elanmontage See my TER Reviews 1130 reads
posted
19 / 38
Intimacy is not always about fucking.... that's why

Massage can be just as intimate or more-so or less-so depending on the provider and the client.  

Just read the men who call FS just another wet hole... that is not friendship nor intimacy and is a matter of perspective.

It is all about who you really are and the chemistry.  Sex is not always literal and is very subjective and that is the beauty and subtlety of play!

DrTabulaRasa 3 Reviews 1148 reads
posted
20 / 38
The Hustle, Make It Rain...

No. I prefer a provider that is not going to say "look no hands" durning the date and she means it as something awesome.

MsChayse 1143 reads
posted
21 / 38
Re: Intimacy is not always about fucking.... that's why

Fortunately those types of men are in the minority. Among the intimate company I've had the advantage to entertain anyway. I doubt I just got lucky.

Posted By: elanmontage
 
   
 Just read the men who call FS just another wet hole... that is not friendship nor intimacy and is a matter of perspective.  
   

 
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OldTimerB 45 Reviews 1125 reads
posted
22 / 38
I bet Dirty Jesus already has! eom

Posted By: brilove
I think it speaks volumes!

Mindyzurgirl See my TER Reviews 1181 reads
posted
23 / 38
Re: Intimacy is not always about fucking.... that's why

This comment makes me correct myself, anything sexual BESIDES a DIY is about sharing part of yourself. Thank you Élan  for pointing out what I completely forgot about and that is exactly everything you just said, I completely agree  
 FS doesn't have to be part of the menu for what I was saying but mutual sexual touching of SNY kind is on a different level then the influx of DIY's  
     And I'm very sorry to great gals like Trinity & Élan that I left out (of my 2cents the first time I chimed in)
 The fact there are sexy, hot, awesome gals that are SO damn good at what they do ~ & even when they chose to only indulge "al cart"
 And make every minute just as exciting (or more so) as any FS.  
        I just want to be clear with everyone on my thoughts on that. =)
~Mindy

DJ1985 21 Reviews 1014 reads
posted
24 / 38
Re: Intimacy is not always about fucking.... that's why

Intimacy can be like the slowest waltz or the hottest, steamiest tango. The building of a passion that can lead wherever two people want it to go, a loving caress and embrace to a no holes barred marathon session of fucking until you both collapse into a sweaty heap, with a mutual respect and appreciation for each other in the end

vorlon 119 Reviews 1116 reads
posted
25 / 38
Not discreet at all

If nothing else I would be suspicious the ad was being run by LE.

Mindyzurgirl See my TER Reviews 1369 reads
posted
26 / 38
Re: Not discreet at all/my thought exactly -eom-


END OF MESSAGE

Derpdydoo 78 Reviews 1113 reads
posted
27 / 38
I have friends that say those very same things.

Then can't realize why all they get is firmly planted in the friend zone

elanmontage See my TER Reviews 1289 reads
posted
28 / 38
Oh the things I do here I certainlhy don't offer my "friends" in the friend zone -eom


END OF MESSAGE

elanmontage See my TER Reviews 1713 reads
posted
29 / 38
The Cock Tug-o-War

Hey Mindy,  thanks for the correction and for remembering us!  You yourself, I understand, was once a massage gal!  

I have heard only wonderful things about Tawni, Milan, Lexi, Kimmy ... they rock it out in massage too, and indeed Victoria and Trinity and I rock it out on a whole other level.  

I love hearing all about both sides of the talent whether it is sensual massage talent or FS talent just the stories and feedback I hear from both the men and the women.  

My favorite times have been threesomes and I've done both kinds of two massage gals or me and an FS gal.... it is all very interesting and erotic and just plain fortunate to get to play in this field where we all get to get down to it.

My favorite times with clients is when they laugh so hard in disbelief and they can't stop laughing right after they come.  This doesn't happen every time but the "disbelief" happens allot... the double take of "what the hell just happened?" "Really?" This sentiment.  I'd never get this response from FS... the trick is to get this from some other circuitous route.  

But I want this very "really" and utter disbelief response from fucking and I am working on it with my smart balls.  I want my pussy so tight that I can play tug of war with a hard cock and win!!!!  HA!!!  True!   I'm not there yet, but I am working on it!  

That is what I am after... this incredible surprise and unexpectable inexplicable pleasure. I arrive here and want to find more ways to arrive here both sensually, sexually, FS and non... massage has more avenues to this utter suspension of disbelief.  Granted most gals don't aim this high... most gals won't do smart balls for years to tighten that tight either.  I am an oddball obsessed with winning the cock tug-o-war.  That will be a grand present to my lover some day and I will love seeing the surprise on his face.  Then and only then, when this talent is all perfected, would I ever consider becoming FS if that is alright with my lover, that is.  May that day come.

Oh dear, I did meander again, didn't I?

~Élan


-- Modified on 2/4/2014 10:45:01 AM

elanmontage See my TER Reviews 921 reads
posted
30 / 38
Re: serious question to all

surd levels of stupidity abound.   But then again I do appreciate DirtyJesus and wonder his thoughts on this one!  Thank you Cheyen for finding this treasure of the absurd.  If I were a man kindred to DirtyJesus, perhaps that's why I'd want to fuck her.... to relish in the absurd and just not take fucking fucking seriously at all and laugh my ass off and laugh her ass off hysterically.

BrunoBraun 1135 reads
posted
31 / 38
Re: serious question to all

Not my cup of tea.

jchan113 4 Reviews 888 reads
posted
32 / 38
Re: The Cock Tug-o-War

If you can't see this far in the back, I have my hand raised to volunteer for your FS beta testing.  
My last GF was like a vise if she wanted to be. I always wondered if it qualified as bondage when she did that. She was kind enough to let go and return my penis to me when she was done with it. Never before and never since.

MsChayse 937 reads
posted
33 / 38
Re: The Cock Tug-o-War

Posted By: jchan113
If you can't see this far in the back, I have my hand raised to volunteer for your FS beta testing.  
 My last GF was like a vise if she wanted to be. I always wondered if it qualified as bondage when she did that. She was kind enough to let go and return my penis to me when she was done with it. Never before and never since.
Keggles are awesome during intercourse! I love just having the gent lie still & just working his cock with those muscles & ohhhh... the look on his face when he cums is absolutely priceless!

elanmontage See my TER Reviews 912 reads
posted
34 / 38
mmmmm.... you're in the fortunate few!

ve to hear about it in more detail... and should events ever turn in that direction I'll look you up for the beta testing, certainly, but don't hold your breath, as it would take a very special sort of lover to be my lover and then even more special to want for me to share.... and so would my pussy have to be in a very special place to want to share too... it would have to benefit from this added frequent exercise that might get fulfilled from the gym of just one.  I'd love to interview this woman you were with, as I am curious what she'd have to say.

DJ1985 21 Reviews 1084 reads
posted
35 / 38
Re: The Cock Tug-o-War

Cock Tug-O-war sounds like great fun! Sign me up for that!

v219323h 5 Reviews 981 reads
posted
36 / 38
Re: The Cock Tug-o-War

Gotta love those kegels - several reviews (maybe guys in general) talk about a tight young pussy. C'mon guys - fitness is not owned by 18-year-olds!

My ex used to give me a nice squeeze - if I remember, that is - it was 30 years ago, after all :) It was amazing - and I have this idea that you women can help control when we let go by holding us tight - and that'd be even better than a manual squeeze like I have to do sometimes - sigh!

So another cock raised to be a practice dummy! Once a lady gets to know me, that is!
Posted By: LeannluvsU
 
   
 Keggles are awesome during intercourse! I love just having the gent lie still & just working his cock with those muscles & ohhhh... the look on his face when he cums is absolutely priceless!

v219323h 5 Reviews 1210 reads
posted
37 / 38
Cautious newbie hobbyist

I actually saw this one - and even being a "desperate newbie" (heh) I wouldn't come close until I'd seen several good reviews.

At the same time, it did make me laugh - so direct, so blatant - had to love it!
Posted By: elanmontage
 
 Absurd levels of stupidity abound.   But then again I do appreciate DirtyJesus and wonder his thoughts on this one!  Thank you Cheyen for finding this treasure of the absurd.  If I were a man kindred to DirtyJesus, perhaps that's why I'd want to fuck her.... to relish in the absurd and just not take fucking fucking seriously at all and laugh my ass off and laugh her ass off hysterically.  

DirtyJesus 993 reads
posted
38 / 38
Noooo! Too "thick" for my tastes! Also she's 25yo

Occasionally I can deal with that age asl ling as she looks and acts younger, but I cant deal with the "thickness", under any circumstances! YUCK!  

Posted By: OldTimerB
 
   
Posted By: brilove
I think it speaks volumes!

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