Yikes, looks like a part my comment got all screwed up, oh well i think you guys get my point.

experiences with providers in their early twenties ... a couple of them I've reviewed. Although I think Mr. Duster makes a valid point, my theory is that some of the bad sessions that I had, were because of the significant age difference between myself and the younger provider. Possibly a case or two of YMMV. Now I almost always look for providers over the age of 30.

The same generational difference phenomenon that exists in the corporate world probably also exists in this profession.  And that is, there are significant differences in what each generation wants out of work and what they expect to put into it.  Generally speaking (and this is general, every individual is different), the older generations exhibit more work ethic and pride in what they do (baby-boomers, Gen-X).  Whereas the younger generations have a more 'what's in it for me' approach and do not view work as an important or integral part of their lives (gen Y)

Not sure it has ever been any different?  Need to do your homework or live with the fact that you will TOFT once in awhile.  I might wonder if the providers think there are more bad customers these days as well.

Who cares what they think? We pay our money....i am a sensitive man that fucking loves to cuddle...

I don't think there are more bad then good, i have dealt with just a couple of bad clients compared to the good amount of gentlemen who have truly been such amazing men.

...... as I've had great experiences with providers ranging from early 20s to late 40s. We can blame it on some generalization on how we think generations behave, but I think it's about how each individual approaches the hobby.... both providers and hobbyists.  

Yes and thank for chiming in. I read a good number of reviews and there is a real trend that a high
percentage of providers trying this out really don't like it and its obvious. Some barely talk to the  
client. This is after all the most intimate of all customer service occupations.  I wish they would go
away and the guys who give them business WISE UP, but I am hoping for AVG winter temps as well....

Is between friends,  
And a man who can treat you as the good friend you are during your time together is the right age man.  
How could anyone compare FS providers to
DIY's or body rub gals.... Do you expect the guy who makes your sandwiches at subway ( made your way) to spend time trying to connect with you on some level or thinking of you when you move on.... How silly, yes getting naked can be somewhat intimate but most everyone gets naked and or masturbates at some point in their life.
 (human nature) - as most people eat,
 as most people go to a doctor and That brings me to this point doctors get paid -depending on their speciality- sometimes those wages vary greatly. One expects their doctor to be there in the moment and fully tuned into them during the visits. Why because you may fall in love and get married? No because it's their job!!! You wouldn't second guess what's wrong with the world (economy) if your doctor seemed distracted & if it happens to much you move onto another doctor,you don't contemplate wether or not they care or just want the $.
you don't determine they have poor work ethic... I think you chalk it up to there are good doctors, there are bad, there are good body rub gals there's bad...and hey some subway workers are so damn efficient & attentive they should probably go into the body rub biz.
   
 I can tell you when someone takes the time to share their body space & parts with you THAT is an entire different thing....  

With every generation and every age there exist members of the cohort that lack a sense of maturity. In order to participate in the hobby as a provider or hobbyist one must be able to perceive the other person in the room as being something other than an achievable objective.  

There have always been some providers like that.  For some, this is not a good choice and they drop out.  Others manage to hang around for a while (sometimes a long while) ripping off guys by frequent name changes, etc.  Some improve enough to provide a fair service and a few even become quality providers.  Are there more bad newcomers now?  Perhaps but there is always going to be some random fluctuation in the talent level of newcomers.

Heck you just plain..interest...intrigue and turn me on!

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I had a session at an AMP this evening.  Get in the room and the lady Mamasan sent in wasnt a MILF but a shrug of the shoulders and a port in the storm.  Typical session, Massage, Table Shower, then it's time to switch gears.  Now, mind you, I have little to no real interest in this woman.  She hops on my back, starts licking and kissing everywhere and then begins tossing my salad and trying to get a taste of the Snickers I ate last Thursday.  I was as aroused as can be, and probably more so then a typical 20 something provider who lacks experience and thinks just her mere youth and presence should be enough.

some are just more honest about it.  Serious question to all guys and a similar question for the ladies

I think it speaks volumes!

Massage can be just as intimate or more-so or less-so depending on the provider and the client.  

No. I prefer a provider that is not going to say "look no hands" durning the date and she means it as something awesome.

Fortunately those types of men are in the minority. Among the intimate company I've had the advantage to entertain anyway. I doubt I just got lucky.