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As for number 1) I'm with Vorlon on this one. As for number 2), my experience was one lady jealous that I was spending more time with the other lady.

According to various research, the incidence of bisexuality is difficult to nail down. I believe many of our lovely ladies consider being with another lady a part of their skill set and are not necessarily bisexual. That being said I know a couple of ladies who claim to be truely Bisexual and I believe them!
Posted By: vorlon
1)  Some of it is marketing; letting guys know what possibilities are out there  
   
 2)  IMHO, it is unlikely the are going to pay more attention to each other than to you; it is part of what you get with a threesome but not the whole package by any means.  At least in my experience,I have never felt left out.  
   
 3)  You can always ask that they focus on you.

semi-hard4483 reads

Is it just me?  When I see dialogue between two providers here that seem to indicate that they would rather be fucking each other than me, it turns me off.  Also, if I was in a threesome and the two gals seemed more interested in each other, it would turn me off.

It just seems to be poor marketing to be playing up to each other so much here instead of playing up to the guys. Maybe I'm jealous but I think not.  How would the girls like it if the guys were flirting with each other?

Hey Breadmaker, I'll bet your buns are warm, purrr.  Howdy hardyharhar, how hardrya? OK OK, that kind of disgusts me too but you see what I mean?

Posted By: semi-hard
Is it just me?  When I see dialogue between two providers here that seem to indicate that they would rather be fucking each other than me, it turns me off.  Also, if I was in a threesome and the two gals seemed more interested in each other, it would turn me off.  
   
 It just seems to be poor marketing to be playing up to each other so much here instead of playing up to the guys. Maybe I'm jealous but I think not.  How would the girls like it if the guys were flirting with each other?  
   
 Hey Breadmaker, I'll bet your buns are warm, purrr.  Howdy hardyharhar, how hardrya? OK OK, that kind of disgusts me too but you see what I mean?

If you're a gay then go ahead and flirt up other male handles.

If you're a bi-sexual service provider, it's always NICE to have a connection with the woman you are going to engage with.
God forbid I was asked to do a double with someone I was A. not attracted to. B. Someone I didn't want to kiss (either sets of lips).

I think if the two providers flirt on the board it is an indication they are 'into' each other.
I think that would be preferred to having a 3 some with two woman that don't like each other.

There are service providers that are not Bisexual. I remember Eros back in the day had Cassie and Cheryl and if I remember correctly they are not bisexual.
Further, I've done doubles with Sexxxy Sam, and she is not bisexual. We did not kiss or touch each other at all.
It's a completely different kind of date.
Some guys fantasize about two woman fighting over him and some guys want to watch a woman cum by another woman (mouth, finger, strap-on or toy).

I've done both. I prefer when the lady I am doing a double with likes me or is attracted to me.

So, I don't see your point. Cuz if you don't like it DON'T OPEN the posts on the thread where us ladies flirt with each other. It's pretty obvious which providers get lady boners for other providers.

So, do you see what I mean?
SG

ps Portia if you're reading this----I can't wait to make you cum all over my face!.....SOON.

Thank heaven for women who love women and men.  

Spending time with women who are really into each other and are having a ball is simply amazing

No it's probably not just you.  but if you're going to venture upon a doubles, you better be comfortable with a number of things.  you better know what you're interested in and be willing to express this to one or both of the ladies.  I've done a number of doubles with ladies who have flirted with other providers on this forum.  I know for a fact they are very bi.  but they're also very knowledgeable of the fact that I am a client.  but you have to be willing to say hey I want to get in the middle of that.   if you're not a doubles is probably not in the works for you.  you may be better off watching a porno.  Don't get me wrong there are some Damn good pornos.      But if it will make you happy....     Ladies, anyone interested in flirting with me?

I like that you understand "really bi". I've learned the difference between "ok I'll do it bi" and "REALLY" bi. I would not engage in a duos session with another lady if I knew she wasn't "really into it" as I am. What fun is that?  That sounds like more work than fun. Much better that the ladies of your choice are truly into you, and each other.  3 people clicking is an amazing experience. I recently played with lovely Victoria Sloan, and non-VIP's I will repeat!

I love men, and I am flirtatious with ladies because I like girls, too. Purr.

MsChayse2062 reads

More often than not gents complain to me about gals faking it. Yes they can tell. Bottom line is to each their own. If you do chose to explore a threesome make sure you clarify exactly what you expect.

Unfortunately, this boy needs a little more recovery time than I use to.   Oh do tell what you ladies would do whilst I catch my breath.   Ain't nothin that gets Junior revived like a live g on g action.

I think the only thing more appealing than an attractive woman is an attractive woman with no clothing on.  If a woman kissing and petting another woman would be one more step up.  I do not feel the same way about men, guys are ugly.  So cover me in chochlate and throw me to the lesbians.... please.

Your question is worth asking. If a large number of guys chime in to agree with you, it may be something the ladies need to consider. However, ...  

My first threesome was booked in the mistaken belief the ladies knew each other. It was fun, but I sort of felt like I was the one making things happen all through the session. Since then, I've been careful to only book threesomes with women I've already met, and who already know each other and have chemistry together. I'm not an energizer bunny who can just keep going and going for 60 or 90 minutes, but if I'm going to pay the cost of a threesome I pretty much want non-stop stimulation of some sort. It's just fine with me if the ladies, when they have reduced me to a quivering lump, turn without hesitation upon each other and provide me with visual stimulation while I recuperate. When I catch my breath, it's easy enough to reinsert myself (as it were) into the proceedings. They know who brought them together, and are not going to push me away just because they are having fun with each other.    

So as far as flirting on the boards goes, given what I said above I view it as advertising. If I was considering a threesome, I would be encouraged if the two ladies had let it be known that they are comfortable together. And if it's flirting between women I've already met with together, that's as good as pornography.

ezalias2170 reads

Got me thinking.  Who are some of the best bi duos?  Who who would you like to see team up who have never been together before?  Ladies who would you like to do a duo with?  Maybe some have been too shy to speak up.

Well...
I've been with Portia, Poppy, and Whitney.  I can tell you what I love about each one of them.  My time with Elan, boys, is still ours and not ready for the publishing.  I would definitely play with all of them again.

Of the girls I have not done doubles with:
Totally want to 'turn' Victoria... :P  A girl can dream.
I've had my eye on MelissaGFE for a long time, because her creativity just makes me want to drool at her feet.
Samantha Good is a total hot tamale that I could kiss and then some for hours!  Damn!

The one I've wanted for the LONGEST amount of time that I've never had is my lady ASTRID...  Mmmm...  Hot stuff, that girl!

So I like to like pussy... sue me.  I also like to demonstrate what I like to do to a woman... on a man.  Oh, my tongue is feeling restless tonight ;)

Ciao boys,
Trinity

Posted By: TrinityLake
Well...  
 I've been with Portia, Poppy, and Whitney.  I can tell you what I love about each one of them.  My time with Elan, boys, is still ours and not ready for the publishing.  I would definitely play with all of them again.  
   
 Of the girls I have not done doubles with:  
 Totally want to 'turn' Victoria... :P  A girl can dream.  
 I've had my eye on MelissaGFE for a long time, because her creativity just makes me want to drool at her feet.  
 Samantha Good is a total hot tamale that I could kiss and then some for hours!  Damn!  
   
 The one I've wanted for the LONGEST amount of time that I've never had is my lady ASTRID...  Mmmm...  Hot stuff, that girl!  
   
 So I like to like pussy... sue me.  I also like to demonstrate what I like to do to a woman... on a man.  Oh, my tongue is feeling restless tonight ;)  
   
 Ciao boys,  
 Trinity
Is it still restless today???
Curious and eager minds want to know!  
It might be a good time to finally step up to the plate for moi!  ;)

i would say tara and i are the best duos and fun i've ever had with another provider and i've teamed up with quite a few we have been having fun together ona and off for five years now and let me say it gets hot and steamy! this is the first time i've been able to convince her to come west with me usually she is solely a boston girl and it's been total amazing bringing her over to 'my neck of the woods' so to speak!

If it turns you off, my experience says your opinion may be the minority. There is nothing right or wrong about your opinion but in the fantasies of men, I'll bet an experience with 2 or more women is near the top of the list.  

For me, it's not marketing. I like girls with all their softness, curves, and sensuality.  Like you, I like boobies.  So much in fact that I do one on one sessions with women.  

We are adventurous and in touch with our sexuality and willing to express it. It doesn't mean you have to like it, but we sure aren't trying to turn you off. And Breadmaker's buns are warm. ;)

Posted By: semi-hard
Is it just me?  When I see dialogue between two providers here that seem to indicate that they would rather be fucking each other than me, it turns me off.  Also, if I was in a threesome and the two gals seemed more interested in each other, it would turn me off.  
   
 It just seems to be poor marketing to be playing up to each other so much here instead of playing up to the guys. Maybe I'm jealous but I think not.  How would the girls like it if the guys were flirting with each other?  
   
 Hey Breadmaker, I'll bet your buns are warm, purrr.  Howdy hardyharhar, how hardrya? OK OK, that kind of disgusts me too but you see what I mean?

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Thanks for your response Astrid.  It doesn't turn me off as much as it makes me wonder why it's so much more acceptable for the girl on girl flirting here than I suspect it would be if the men did the same. My own fantasy would include two heterosexual women and me. Less competition that way:)

I don't think I'm homophobic, but frankly I do think man love is disgusting.  I can't help it and no offense intended.  Are there women providers that would admit they think lesbian love is disgusting?  

Posted By: LadyAstrid
If it turns you off, my experience says your opinion may be the minority. There is nothing right or wrong about your opinion but in the fantasies of men, I'll bet an experience with 2 or more women is near the top of the list.  
   
 For me, it's not marketing. I like girls with all their softness, curves, and sensuality.  Like you, I like boobies.  So much in fact that I do one on one sessions with women.  
   
 We are adventurous and in touch with our sexuality and willing to express it. It doesn't mean you have to like it, but we sure aren't trying to turn you off. And Breadmaker's buns are warm. ;)  
   
Posted By: semi-hard
Is it just me?  When I see dialogue between two providers here that seem to indicate that they would rather be fucking each other than me, it turns me off.  Also, if I was in a threesome and the two gals seemed more interested in each other, it would turn me off.  
     
  It just seems to be poor marketing to be playing up to each other so much here instead of playing up to the guys. Maybe I'm jealous but I think not.  How would the girls like it if the guys were flirting with each other?  
     
  Hey Breadmaker, I'll bet your buns are warm, purrr.  Howdy hardyharhar, how hardrya? OK OK, that kind of disgusts me too but you see what I mean?

SH, I believe it's more acceptable for the very reason of your OP- my opinion is that the majority of men really get their crank turned by girl on girl. There's something for everyone, and no shame in being in the minority. If we were all the same it would be a dull world. One thought on the 2 heterosexual woman scenario. These ladies would still need to be open-minded to embrace this, as well as have the ability to be very comfortable being around another  straight woman in a play environment.  If one of these heterosexual ladies is uncomfortable, it's very likely it would not be ideal as initially planned. It's always your option to make requests of the providers you see; with planning and good communication you could end up having an even better time than expected. Just because 2 ladies of your choice may be bisexual does not mean they would be more into each other. It does mean that being comfortable around one another is a non-issue.  

I can only speak for myself- it is never my intention to offend or repel a man by being flirtatious with another lady.  It is simply fun for me, and I find it a welcome activity that is light hearted in nature. Much more enjoyable than being too serious! All in all, a welcome diversion from the argumentative.

Your OP made for a very interesting thread- thank you for that.

Peace,

Astrid

semi-hard1797 reads

I like you Astrid.  I like the way you gave your opinion without belittling mine.  I doubt, if the roles were reversed, I would have handled it so well.  

You also make a very good point regarding my two hetero women scenario.

Posted By: LadyAstrid
SH, I believe it's more acceptable for the very reason of your OP- my opinion is that the majority of men really get their crank turned by girl on girl. There's something for everyone, and no shame in being in the minority. If we were all the same it would be a dull world. One thought on the 2 heterosexual woman scenario. These ladies would still need to be open-minded to embrace this, as well as have the ability to be very comfortable being around another  straight woman in a play environment.  If one of these heterosexual ladies is uncomfortable, it's very likely it would not be ideal as initially planned. It's always your option to make requests of the providers you see; with planning and good communication you could end up having an even better time than expected. Just because 2 ladies of your choice may be bisexual does not mean they would be more into each other. It does mean that being comfortable around one another is a non-issue.  
   
 I can only speak for myself- it is never my intention to offend or repel a man by being flirtatious with another lady.  It is simply fun for me, and I find it a welcome activity that is light hearted in nature. Much more enjoyable than being too serious! All in all, a welcome diversion from the argumentative.  
   
 Your OP made for a very interesting thread- thank you for that.  
   
 Peace,  
   
 Astrid

Posted By: semi-hard
Thanks for your response Astrid.  It doesn't turn me off as much as it makes me wonder why it's so much more acceptable for the girl on girl flirting here than I suspect it would be if the men did the same. My own fantasy would include two heterosexual women and me. Less competition that way:)  
   
 I don't think I'm homophobic, but frankly I do think man love is disgusting.  I can't help it and no offense intended.  Are there women providers that would admit they think lesbian love is disgusting?  
   
Posted By: LadyAstrid
If it turns you off, my experience says your opinion may be the minority. There is nothing right or wrong about your opinion but in the fantasies of men, I'll bet an experience with 2 or more women is near the top of the list.    
     
  For me, it's not marketing. I like girls with all their softness, curves, and sensuality.  Like you, I like boobies.  So much in fact that I do one on one sessions with women.    
     
  We are adventurous and in touch with our sexuality and willing to express it. It doesn't mean you have to like it, but we sure aren't trying to turn you off. And Breadmaker's buns are warm. ;)  
     
Posted By: semi-hard
Is it just me?  When I see dialogue between two providers here that seem to indicate that they would rather be fucking each other than me, it turns me off.  Also, if I was in a threesome and the two gals seemed more interested in each other, it would turn me off.    
       
   It just seems to be poor marketing to be playing up to each other so much here instead of playing up to the guys. Maybe I'm jealous but I think not.  How would the girls like it if the guys were flirting with each other?    
       
   Hey Breadmaker, I'll bet your buns are warm, purrr.  Howdy hardyharhar, how hardrya? OK OK, that kind of disgusts me too but you see what I mean?
Unfortunately, by simply expressing your thoughts on this subject, in todays ultra-sensitive society, you will be labeled as such.  I too find absolutely nothing to like about 2 guys being together.  I don't care if they chose to be together, I just have absolutely no interest in it and that doesn't make me a {insert derogatory label here} jerk...just my personal preference.  You are already being skewered for it...lol...on the other hand, I can see what a lady sees in another lady.  What's not to like?  But I can live without the ladies saying they'd like to "F" eachother...maybe I'm just old fashioned in some ways...a lady that is truly a lady is an amazing thing to behold.  :)

In the one three-some I have had with two providers, looking back I wished they were much more into each other.  It was still quite a thrill having both of them give me all the attention essentially the entire time, but to see them go down on each other with me still involved would have been even better.

When I see Portia and Trinity lake flirt (in ads and just playing around), I think it is great and something I would love to try and arrange to be a part of if I ever get the chance.  When I read a duo review about Poppy and Trinity Lake, WOW... I wish I had been there to see it.

Wow is right!!!!!

You can't go wrong with Trinity Lake and Poppy
 
Or

Trinity Lake and Portia!!!

You will not regret it.    Pull the trigger.   In fact, I have to reload my six shooter very soon.  OK, maybe it ain't a six shooter.

Is it the homosexuality that bothers you?  Or is it that no ones paying attention to you ?  Ya know you DON'T have to read those posts.  
Oh and BTW for a matter of fact I'll fuck, lick & suck whomever I please thank you very much :D
 personally I'd think it's cute when guys flirt with each other , I mean my best friend is a happily married gay man.  

Posted By: semi-hard
Is it just me?  When I see dialogue between two providers here that seem to indicate that they would rather be fucking each other than me, it turns me off.  Also, if I was in a threesome and the two gals seemed more interested in each other, it would turn me off.  
   
 It just seems to be poor marketing to be playing up to each other so much here instead of playing up to the guys. Maybe I'm jealous but I think not.  How would the girls like it if the guys were flirting with each other?  
   
 Hey Breadmaker, I'll bet your buns are warm, purrr.  Howdy hardyharhar, how hardrya? OK OK, that kind of disgusts me too but you see what I mean?

Ok.   I'm a 99.8% straight guy.   I' ll flirt with girls.  I'll flirt with guys.  I'll flirt with those that haven't figured out what they are.  What difference does it make?   I know who I am.   If I can give someone else a turnon, well the better for them.  Have fun enjoy life.

To each there own but two hot ladies that want to be together while I am part of the fun - this is what contributes to the spice of life. It is a great day to be alive!

rustyagain2086 reads

... this whole subject deserves some rigorous, in depth analising, er... I mean analysis.
For the good of all involved in this discussion I will make the sacrifice and subject myself to multiple duo partners, ladies who are very into each other and ladies who prefer to just take a break and watch The Voice while the other is taking care of business. I shall return and report my findings.

I have had one client tell me he was jealous of my connection with another gal in a threesome.  I believe he had chosen the two of us because we were attracted to one another and regular playmates but then I think he felt as though the fantasy was more fulfilling than having to share his favorite girls.  

So I have heard what you're talking about from a gent before but that was one out of many many threesomes I've had.  That makes me feel that you're, sadly, in the minority.

1)  Some of it is marketing; letting guys know what possibilities are out there

2)  IMHO, it is unlikely the are going to pay more attention to each other than to you; it is part of what you get with a threesome but not the whole package by any means.  At least in my experience,I have never felt left out.

3)  You can always ask that they focus on you.

As for number 1) I'm with Vorlon on this one. As for number 2), my experience was one lady jealous that I was spending more time with the other lady.

According to various research, the incidence of bisexuality is difficult to nail down. I believe many of our lovely ladies consider being with another lady a part of their skill set and are not necessarily bisexual. That being said I know a couple of ladies who claim to be truely Bisexual and I believe them!

Posted By: vorlon
1)  Some of it is marketing; letting guys know what possibilities are out there  
   
 2)  IMHO, it is unlikely the are going to pay more attention to each other than to you; it is part of what you get with a threesome but not the whole package by any means.  At least in my experience,I have never felt left out.  
   
 3)  You can always ask that they focus on you.

Posted By: semi-hard
Is it just me?  When I see dialogue between two providers here that seem to indicate that they would rather be fucking each other than me, it turns me off.  Also, if I was in a threesome and the two gals seemed more interested in each other, it would turn me off.  
   
 It just seems to be poor marketing to be playing up to each other so much here instead of playing up to the guys. Maybe I'm jealous but I think not.  How would the girls like it if the guys were flirting with each other?  
   
 Hey Breadmaker, I'll bet your buns are warm, purrr.  Howdy hardyharhar, how hardrya? OK OK, that kind of disgusts me too but you see what I mean?
I do not find two girl action exciting in any way. Luckily many do, so you see a lot of posts.
Having said that, Trinity's so damn sexy about it I enjoy her comments, but I would never book a FMF session

No worries, I'm really good with one on one!

It means to have an initial psychological discomfort. It's a great word and I think is really what the poster is trying to convey. His initial response when he see's two ladies flirting is a squick. Everyone has something they squick about, because we are all wired differently.

For me it is water chestnuts. They are nature's Styrofoam.

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