Is it just me?  When I see dialogue between two providers here that seem to indicate that they would rather be fucking each other than me, it turns me off.  Also, if I was in a threesome and the two gals seemed more interested in each other, it would turn me off.

If you're a gay then go ahead and flirt up other male handles.

If you're a bi-sexual service provider, it's always NICE to have a connection with the woman you are going to engage with.
God forbid I was asked to do a double with someone I was A. not attracted to. B. Someone I didn't want to kiss (either sets of lips).

I think if the two providers flirt on the board it is an indication they are 'into' each other.
I think that would be preferred to having a 3 some with two woman that don't like each other.

There are service providers that are not Bisexual. I remember Eros back in the day had Cassie and Cheryl and if I remember correctly they are not bisexual.
Further, I've done doubles with Sexxxy Sam, and she is not bisexual. We did not kiss or touch each other at all.
It's a completely different kind of date.
Some guys fantasize about two woman fighting over him and some guys want to watch a woman cum by another woman (mouth, finger, strap-on or toy).

I've done both. I prefer when the lady I am doing a double with likes me or is attracted to me.

So, I don't see your point. Cuz if you don't like it DON'T OPEN the posts on the thread where us ladies flirt with each other. It's pretty obvious which providers get lady boners for other providers.

So, do you see what I mean?
SG

ps Portia if you're reading this----I can't wait to make you cum all over my face!.....SOON.

No it's probably not just you.  but if you're going to venture upon a doubles, you better be comfortable with a number of things.  you better know what you're interested in and be willing to express this to one or both of the ladies.  I've done a number of doubles with ladies who have flirted with other providers on this forum.  I know for a fact they are very bi.  but they're also very knowledgeable of the fact that I am a client.  but you have to be willing to say hey I want to get in the middle of that.   if you're not a doubles is probably not in the works for you.  you may be better off watching a porno.  Don't get me wrong there are some Damn good pornos.      But if it will make you happy....     Ladies, anyone interested in flirting with me?

I think the only thing more appealing than an attractive woman is an attractive woman with no clothing on.  If a woman kissing and petting another woman would be one more step up.  I do not feel the same way about men, guys are ugly.  So cover me in chochlate and throw me to the lesbians.... please.

Your question is worth asking. If a large number of guys chime in to agree with you, it may be something the ladies need to consider. However, ...  

I like that you understand "really bi". I've learned the difference between "ok I'll do it bi" and "REALLY" bi. I would not engage in a duos session with another lady if I knew she wasn't "really into it" as I am. What fun is that?  That sounds like more work than fun. Much better that the ladies of your choice are truly into you, and each other.  3 people clicking is an amazing experience. I recently played with lovely Victoria Sloan, and non-VIP's I will repeat!

Got me thinking.  Who are some of the best bi duos?  Who who would you like to see team up who have never been together before?  Ladies who would you like to do a duo with?  Maybe some have been too shy to speak up.

If it turns you off, my experience says your opinion may be the minority. There is nothing right or wrong about your opinion but in the fantasies of men, I'll bet an experience with 2 or more women is near the top of the list.  

More often than not gents complain to me about gals faking it. Yes they can tell. Bottom line is to each their own. If you do chose to explore a threesome make sure you clarify exactly what you expect.

In the one three-some I have had with two providers, looking back I wished they were much more into each other.  It was still quite a thrill having both of them give me all the attention essentially the entire time, but to see them go down on each other with me still involved would have been even better.

Wow is right!!!!!

Thanks for your response Astrid.  It doesn't turn me off as much as it makes me wonder why it's so much more acceptable for the girl on girl flirting here than I suspect it would be if the men did the same. My own fantasy would include two heterosexual women and me. Less competition that way

Posted By: LadyAstrid

If it turns you off, my experience says your opinion may be the minority. There is nothing right or wrong about your opinion but in the fantasies of men, I'll bet an experience with 2 or more women is near the top of the list.  
   
 For me, it's not marketing. I like girls with all their softness, curves, and sensuality.  Like you, I like boobies.  So much in fact that I do one on one sessions with women.  
   
 We are adventurous and in touch with our sexuality and willing to express it. It doesn't mean you have to like it, but we sure aren't trying to turn you off. And Breadmaker's buns are warm.  
   

Posted By: semi-hard

Is it just me?  When I see dialogue between two providers here that seem to indicate that they would rather be fucking each other than me, it turns me off.  Also, if I was in a threesome and the two gals seemed more interested in each other, it would turn me off.  
     
  It just seems to be poor marketing to be playing up to each other so much here instead of playing up to the guys. Maybe I'm jealous but I think not.  How would the girls like it if the guys were flirting with each other?  
     
  Hey Breadmaker, I'll bet your buns are warm, purrr.  Howdy hardyharhar, how hardrya? OK OK, that kind of disgusts me too but you see what I mean?

Is it the homosexuality that bothers you?  Or is it that no ones paying attention to you ?  Ya know you DON'T have to read those posts.  
Oh and BTW for a matter of fact I'll fuck, lick & suck whomever I please thank you very much
 personally I'd think it's cute when guys flirt with each other , I mean my best friend is a happily married gay man.  

Thank heaven for women who love women and men.  

Unfortunately, this boy needs a little more recovery time than I use to.   Oh do tell what you ladies would do whilst I catch my breath.   Ain't nothin that gets Junior revived like a live g on g action.

To each there own but two hot ladies that want to be together while I am part of the fun - this is what contributes to the spice of life. It is a great day to be alive!

Ok.   I'm a 99.8% straight guy.   I' ll flirt with girls.  I'll flirt with guys.  I'll flirt with those that haven't figured out what they are.  What difference does it make?   I know who I am.   If I can give someone else a turnon, well the better for them.  Have fun enjoy life.

... this whole subject deserves some rigorous, in depth analising, er... I mean analysis.
For the good of all involved in this discussion I will make the sacrifice and subject myself to multiple duo partners, ladies who are very into each other and ladies who prefer to just take a break and watch The Voice while the other is taking care of business. I shall return and report my findings.

Still savoring the memories...

I have had one client tell me he was jealous of my connection with another gal in a threesome.  I believe he had chosen the two of us because we were attracted to one another and regular playmates but then I think he felt as though the fantasy was more fulfilling than having to share his favorite girls.  

I'll second that!!

Well...
I've been with Portia, Poppy, and Whitney.  I can tell you what I love about each one of them.  My time with Elan, boys, is still ours and not ready for the publishing.  I would definitely play with all of them again.

1)  Some of it is marketing; letting guys know what possibilities are out there

FU Gwendolyn:

So much anger. Maybe you should just quit this hobby. With a statement like that, it confirms my suspicions about you Gwendolyn. A male hiding under an alias with a woman's name. How pathetic

As for number 1) I'm with Vorlon on this one. As for number 2), my experience was one lady jealous that I was spending more time with the other lady.

No worries, I'm really good with one on one!

SH, I believe it's more acceptable for the very reason of your OP- my opinion is that the majority of men really get their crank turned by girl on girl. There's something for everyone, and no shame in being in the minority. If we were all the same it would be a dull world. One thought on the 2 heterosexual woman scenario. These ladies would still need to be open-minded to embrace this, as well as have the ability to be very comfortable being around another  straight woman in a play environment.  If one of these heterosexual ladies is uncomfortable, it's very likely it would not be ideal as initially planned. It's always your option to make requests of the providers you see; with planning and good communication you could end up having an even better time than expected. Just because 2 ladies of your choice may be bisexual does not mean they would be more into each other. It does mean that being comfortable around one another is a non-issue.  

I like you Astrid.  I like the way you gave your opinion without belittling mine.  I doubt, if the roles were reversed, I would have handled it so well.  

what can i say we prefer the real thing three is just our magic number .

i would say tara and i are the best duos and fun i've ever had with another provider and i've teamed up with quite a few we have been having fun together ona and off for five years now and let me say it gets hot and steamy! this is the first time i've been able to convince her to come west with me usually she is solely a boston girl and it's been total amazing bringing her over to 'my neck of the woods' so to speak!

It means to have an initial psychological discomfort. It's a great word and I think is really what the poster is trying to convey. His initial response when he see's two ladies flirting is a squick. Everyone has something they squick about, because we are all wired differently.

If you want a girlfriend, go to match.com! Hate to break it to you, but until you PAY, providers don't have to "act like they like your ass." Next...