How do those of you with significant others get the cash needed without raising suspicion?  In my case I have a lot of leeway making credit card purchases as I buy a lot of goods for home and work, but cash withdrawals are always seen by the S.O.  

Accounts. Easier to balance and we each pay parts of our monthly bills.  
     With your situation could you open a personal account maybe even in a different bank and have paperless statements, just direct deposit a portion or set amount each pay period. I can do it with my direct deposit at work.

If you say bank at well Fargo with your joint account, open your own personal account at say Bank of America with paperless statements. Set up direct deposit to deposit 75.00 a week or whatever you would like into it. Explain the change in your wells account by saying you either had a health insurance premium increase or you adjusted your tax with holdings, 401k deposit....  

Some might accept it; others may want to see the pay statement or be displeased the guy made the change without consulting her.

I travel a lot on expense accounts where I pay for the expenses and then submit an expense report for reimbursement.  The reimbursement check arrives several weeks after I've spent the money, and, when I cash them, I always hold out a C-note or two.  Sometimes, I simply cash the entire thing.  My wife doesn't check things that closely, but she WOULD notice a lot of cash withdrawals.  So, my method just described works for me.

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I have the same issues as the OP.  I have money...I just have a really hard time getting at it without arousing suspicion.  What I do is use my ATM when I get gas or go to places like Home Depot and I use the option to get cash back.  So I get $20 cash every time and I don't let the wife see the receipts for what I purchased.

I gave my spouse a separate brokerage account put a good chunk of our assets in it.  If I die of a car accident, I do not want her unable to get cash anyway.  She uses it for her expensive hobby.  I use mine for mine.  Good thing considering the size of the hobby bills

Honestly I hope she catches you.

Go to Barnes& Noble. The amazon recently browesd items might not look too friendly.

All the escorts you've seen? I can't imagine many civie women would even date someone who has been with many escorts

Thanks for the tips.  

Every $100 you spend in the hobby today, is $50 your SO would have gotten in the divorce had you not spent it.  So your future Ex is actually picking up half the bill when you hobby!

This has been my best way to hide my hobbying cash.  The SO and I will go gambling from time to time.  She thinks I'm the unluckiest guy on the planet because--as far as she knows--I almost always lose. The money I "lost" gambling usually goes into my hobby account. If I do happen to win, I'll pocket half of it and then split the remaining winnings with her. I had one big win that has funded this year's fun.  I don't know what I'm going to do when that runs out.

Yes, when I find someone to serious with then I'm out of the hobby business.

I was asking if you are Honest with any girlfriends about sleeping with escorts in the past....  
      You place your morality on married men not being honest but it's a bit hypocritical if you aren't honest with the civie women you date.  
         Also when you meet and date a civie girl do you stop using escorts until that relationship has run its course?  
 

No way in hell would i share my hobby experience with new person in my life.  Can't even compare what I'm doing verse someone who's already married and then start to hobby.  One is cheating and the other  is your past, apples and oranges.
 

I get your rational but past relationships and sexual partners do come up in long term relationships. So either you ll probably having to lie to them or tell the truth. Would you want to know her sexual history?  
       I agree cheating is cheating, some wives don't care, some turn a blind eye, some would rather someone else give the blow jobs but what ever the case judging someone solely because they are married can't fit all situations. Hell staying together for the children might be best even though the marriage was over years before...

I have friends (not clients)  who do the fake return retail store hustle.  I am not endorsing it ... but it is out there, if you need to get some extra money.

If she can prove it, then you deserve it!