Let's face it, folks:  this secret little world of our has changed.  I'm amused by the number of postings, mainly from providers, who want to believe that it's 'business as usual' out here.  Wake up!  I want to see the providers continue to eat, but I'm more concerned about whether I'll be living in my own house in a month--a house that I worked hard to get.  My heart goes out to those providers with kids to feed-perhaps you should find a legal career at this point.  Still, I don't want to hear a "twenty-something" provider lament that her business has diminished when we are only trying to salvage what we can of lives that have taken years to build.  And, yes, guys, we probably should have walked away years ago, but that's on us.

If you let it eat you alive it will.

good thing like this hobby and try to be "good guy" pimps instead of just another guy looking to get laid.

WTF is that?  Did they really need the free pussy that much?  Was it an escalation of the thrill of getting laid by also being part of the business instead of just a consumer. Whatever it was, it sure did fuck everything up around here.

Fucking morons.

I am not scared, simply for the fact that I know I am NOT doing anything illegal...
So if I met a guy at the bar and he bought me drinks and we went to his place and had sex, that would be "prostitution"???
I am a high class escort who provides COMPANIONSHIP ONLY, and everything else happens when we hit it off and I get turned on... So I suggest that the men stick to their regulars, but whoever was a part of mfp is now a "suspect"... get it? I'm sure there are hobbyists and providers that are bribed to catch someone in the "act"...

no.
In retrospect MFP and such services were bad ideas.  Papertrails and databases are things to stay away from.

oh geez........put your shit kickers on folks, it's piling up.

If you cannot see the difference between wanting to have sex with someone, and having sex with someone for the sole purpose of money, then you are sorely deluded.

You're a hooker lady, plain and simple.

I'm not and never was a member of any of those sites I use another means to keep safe.
I'm not scared either.
LOW KEY IS KEY anytime.

It was a good idea (MFP and others) apparently when it did what it was supposed to do. No one forseen what has come about. Here I am posting on TER. Is that going to bite me in the ass down the line? I guess its like buying a new car only to find out later that the steering wheel burst into flames under certain conditions. How was I to know?

Its been so long since I started my profile on TER that I don't remember how much info I put in about myself. I'm sure its not as detailed as MFP (I was never a member) but now i wonder.

The bottom line is, and I sure can't make an assumption regarding the database of MFP, if I contact a girl, we agree to spend time together, and I just happen to lay down a few items such as my watch, coat, an envelope, a lighter, and my cell phone when we meet and I pick everything back up when i leave and walk out the door someone is going to have to PROVE that something illegal happened during the time I was there. Oh, I left my lighter? Does that prove that anything illegal occurred during my visit with her? Maybe I left my cell phone. Does that prove anyting in the court of law? It proves that I may be a senile forgetfull dumbasss but nothing else.
The only thing that anyone has on anyone else is what is provided to them. STFU and they have NOTHING.
Absolutely NOTHING!
So a database says you signed up to be a member. What does that prove? I could be living in Antartica and be a member of MFP. Prove to a jury that i did something unlawful.
Its not on the people to prove their innocent; its the burden of the prosecutor that those people did a crime. Whats he going to do...say to a jury "this person was a member of a certain website, therefore you have to find him guilty"? Is that going to hold water?

Look at it this way: if they said that kissing someone's cheek was illegal, and both you and the other person whom you were supposed to have kissed on the cheek deny it during trial, and there was no video, tape, pictures, or anything else to prove otherwise, how far do you think it would get?  
You don't have to prove your innocence. They have to prove your guilt. And just because you are a member of a certain website doesn't mean that anything actually happened. The burden of proof is on them to say it actually happened. Its not on you to prove that it didn't.

And something to remember is: if they thought they had a case against anyone, we would be hearing about people being taken in by now. They wouldn't hesitate on making that move ASAP. Why isn't it happening? Because they know that all they have is flimsy crap. No one is going to get taken in unless they know that the prosecution actually has a case.
Just because someone is a member of a certain website doesn't prove a damn thing. The prosecution knows that just because they present to a jury the fact that a person was a member of a certain website it doesn't mean they did anything illegal.
Bottom line: if you aren't arrested yet: they don't have a case against you.

If they do want to talk to you its for one reason only: to get evidence against you.

if you don't talk, that leaves them with the problem of not getting enough evidence to convict you. Its your right not to say anything no matter how much they want you to talk. Whenever they want you to talk to them it just means one thing: they want to gather evidence against you.
They may say its in your own best interest and whatever else. They will say whatever they have to to make you open up. But the bottom line is, unless you've ever been caught on camera doing something you shouldn't be doing, there is no way they can prove your guilt as long as both parties deny it. She denies it, you deny it...what else does the jury have to go by? The prosecuters accusations?

They know this shit. they expect you to get scared. They want you to get scared. They want you to feel that you will lose a lot if you don't cooperate, and that you won't lose anyting if you do.
Its a lie. if You do cooperate you will find yourself on a stand and your family wondering why your there. If you don't cooperate, they will tell you that it will come down all that harder. But thats a scare tactic.
If you don't cooperate, you are worthless to them. They can't use you for anything. Its over. You can simply walk away. They don't want you to know that but its true. Remember the scene in the movie "River's Edge" when the kid was being questioned. What did he ask?

"Am I under arrest?"

"no"

"Ok, See ya!"

You have every right to simply get up and walk out and go home if you aren't under arrest! (This just doesn't apply to the subject here)

and if you are, don't answer questions unless you have a lawyer there and he knows the story. Any convictions that ever happen with this shit is going to be based on testimony and nothing else. What else do they have? The database? Like i said, a guy from Antartica could be a member; that doesn't mean anyone trekked down there and had a session with him. Anyone could make themslves a member and say what they want. The prosecuter will have a helluva time trying to convince the jury that an illegal act happened with a MFP member and a provider no matter what a webpage says. A certain webpage says that an elite race of lizard people disguised as humans have occupied the White House for decades, now.  

Yeah, lets see how far he gets on a database alone.


thats all I have to say

For those who are worried about being on the MFP list.  Just KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT!  You should already have a lawyer number memorized just in case and if a cop should get in touch with you, say your name & ask for a lawyer.  NOTHING ELSE!  Be smart and chances are things will be fine.  MFP wasn't an agency.  There were no records of you meeting anyone (because of course.. no one ever met from that site and how can they prove otherwise).

1. ter has servers in the netherlands, not in florida.

2. ter makes it clear that the reviews are fantasy and discussion about illegal activities are not allowed on the boards.

since mfp was considered a "safe" site by its members, im willing to bet they have alot of posts made by men, under a handle attached to all their personal information, describing in all kinds of glorious explicit juicy detail just how they broke the law, how often and how good it felt.

i've seen them do it on other public forums so i have no doubt.

ask yourself, where's the "safe" site for bank robbers, or drug dealers to talk about all their illegal activity ?

WHERE ?

if you're going to engage in illegal activity, it's not wise to post a written confession with all the details on the internet, under a user handle attached to all your personal information.

HELLLLOOOOOO ???

an offshore hosting company and a fantasy disclaimer wouldve taken all of about 10 minutes to put together.

ter has a legal team to make sure its in compliance with the law and THAT'S why its the longest standing escort review site on the internet. ... a couple of brain cells can do wonders.

greed is what took these people down.. in this industry, you need to understand that just because you "can" doesnt mean you "should".

the greedy always wind up in jail.

the big fuckup was involving people from out of state and out of the country and breaking federal law in the process

the local pussy who stayed off MFP has nothing to fear other then the occasional random enforcement

I don't know the last time you checked, but I am by no means a "hooker"... I am simply an escort as all the other ladies are who provides COMPANIONSHIP ONLY.
If I were a hooker I would've been a member of mfp and other "pimp" sites...
LE cannot arrest you unless you say "i charge this much for sex"... TER is not at all like mfp, this is simply for amusement and fantasy...

And unless you were part of or had info on The Nice Guys Group I dont believe LE is even interested in anymore MFP members.

We all saw the news, we all know how wrong they got it. According to the news LE thought MFP was some kind of escort agency. I'm sure LE thought Nice Guys and MFP were connected, by now they gotta know they were'nt anymore connected then TER, Craigslist, or any other website.

Thanks for your input honey, but with boobs like yours perhaps you should stick to what you do best.

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I really dont think that "anything else that happens" disclaimer makes you untouchable, in fact it suggests that something "may" happen if I hired you for a date.

If something were to happen on your own time then great! If something were to happen during a paid date, well good luck arguing that one to a jury. But hay, Ive been told I look like Brad Pitt, so maybe.



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