Minnesota

Depends on where you were...
Chris244557rt 1 Reviews 2877 reads
posted
1 / 25

Just wanted to ask my fellow hobbyist and providers, I recently had a morning session with a  provider and she was dressed in sweatpants.  I'm not expecting a formal dress for a 10am appointment but is it too much to ask for a little more then sweatpants.  I like to see something appealing to the eye and I'm a sucker for yoga pants but is it I realistic to expect something nicer for a morning appointment?  I notice when I setup evening appointments the provider is much more likely to look really nice but the morning is different but I'm still paying the same for morning appointment compared to evening.  I just wonder do other hobbyist have the same experience?

knotsaway 38 Reviews 103 reads
posted
2 / 25

If so, that's understandable that you're disappointed.  

But if you didn't ask, then IMO sweatpants at 10 am are fine.  

jimmymack100 5 Reviews 98 reads
posted
3 / 25

Wouldn't matter cause they wouldn't be on that long, unless I had requested something

LobbytoHobby 119 reads
posted
4 / 25

Her place?  Seems too casual.
Your place?  It could be a good cover especially if you asked her for a session at your office at a gym.

Canmandoo 12 Reviews 103 reads
posted
5 / 25

If she advertises as an "upscale, elite, luxury, high class" for $$$+ with glamour shots in fashion lingerie than you should not be getting sweat pant unless requested or agreed upon before. It's part of the experience that was presented when you made the date. If you arranged a last minute date on BP with ghetto selfie then expect it.  

It's unfortunate but too common that this happens. We select partly based on an image portrayed in ads or website but get attire they wore to the mall. I wish I didn't have to ask.

cleavers 126 reads
posted
6 / 25

I have to agree with everybody so far, but I’m such a visual person, so I kind of expect her to be at her best when I see her. I would even love her in some denim jeans…a woman’s derrière in some denim will always get my motor running

I thought jimmymack100 post saying “Wouldn't matter cause they wouldn't be on that long” was a classic!

vorlon 119 Reviews 126 reads
posted
7 / 25

I rarely do though.  I'd like something better than sweatpants though but at 10AM I don't think I'd even notice so long as her hygiene is good.

SeductiveConcierge See my TER Reviews 101 reads
posted
8 / 25

For me....Never! Unless you booked something last minute. Also last minute is different to every lady. For me though, my go to last minute outfit is butt naked with a robe on. This usually occurs when someone I have seen before contacts me for an appointment within a couple of hours and I am out and about when they book.  

If this was a first time meeting she should have let you know in advanced that she would be wearing sweatpants. I personally have had to do this. When a gentleman wanted an outcall and I was out picking up dinner. The time constraints left me with only one choice. That choice was to go in the clothes I was in. I happen to be blessed for loving stylish sweatpants so my outfit was still pretty cute.  

Andrea

priyarainelle See my TER Reviews 123 reads
posted
9 / 25

My standard is a simple wrap dress and lingerie

If she is coming to your hotel room then it may be more acceptable but even then, there are better ways to present yourself. First impressions mean a lot.  

I want my client to be excited as soon as he sees me.

Vanner 18 Reviews 120 reads
posted
10 / 25

My provider had to meet me in the lobby to let me in ... in sweatpants and sweatshirt. I thought hmmm ... nice location, nice lady ... but sweatpants!?

When we got to the room she took off the sweats to reveal an eye-popping outfit and body. "I could not go into the lobby like this!" She explained. You can't always judge a book by its cover.

Drumsticks 90 Reviews 121 reads
posted
11 / 25

... I think a woman should always dress in a manner in which she feels sexy and wants to show off her beauty. I absolutely love it when I get to meet a woman in the lobby, looking hot as fuck and I get to take by the arm or hand and lead her to my room. I really enjoy the looks given by others as they ponder, "what is she doing with him!?" I'm a Rock Star, I'm a Movie Star, I'm a Billionaire Mogul maybe as far as they're concerned. In those cases, most nosy folks would dismiss it as privileged but acceptable. No hotel security staff would ever challenge a woman who's escorted by a gentleman while on hotel property and I always offer to walk a woman to her car after our date. So, in response to your question... I wouldn't want a woman to present herself in sweat pants. Jogging shorts would probably be OK if they were a size or two too small.  ;)

mister1derful 23 Reviews 74 reads
posted
12 / 25

The lazy, live-in girlfriend experience. But hey, some guys are into that. LOL

thruster2 24 Reviews 105 reads
posted
13 / 25

Lots of times I'll ask to see a lady wear just cut-offs, T-shirt bare beneath,  
barefoot, with little if any makeup. But that's me, and the key
here is, that's what I asked for. You should ask for what you'd like.

Going on a dinner date is another matter altogether, as is  
sex on the beach :-)

Chris244557rt 1 Reviews 76 reads
posted
14 / 25

I wouldn’t mind sweatpants in that situation for sure lol

LondonJames See my TER Reviews 123 reads
posted
15 / 25

This is why I have that as part of my booking form. It makes it easier for the potential client because then we don't have to go back and forth about it and it makes it so much easier to plan. Although, I typically stick to a dress & heels or a business casual outfit (skirt/blouse or pants/blouse) if I'm coming from work.  

LJ, xx

Chris244557rt 1 Reviews 73 reads
posted
16 / 25

I have no problem asking for what I want and I didn’t ask for anything special in this situation.  I was posting the question because I was interested in other providers and hobbyist experiences.  Actually it’s intriguing to see the different opinions and perspectives.

You are a very beautiful woman so I’m sure you would look great in anything.

LondonJames See my TER Reviews 76 reads
posted
17 / 25

Oh! I apologize if it came off as though you weren't asserting yourself. Not my intent. Also, thank you for your compliment. Maybe one day I'll meet you in the flesh!

LJ, xx

mrhuck 15 Reviews 86 reads
posted
18 / 25

...With any provider that I am meeting my request is to be fresh from the shower & comfortably dressed in clothing that is easily removed, or J-bird naked.

Makwa 18 Reviews 69 reads
posted
19 / 25

Sweatpants should be a big no no.  I'm not very fussy, but she should look nice.  

Cropduster1 89 reads
posted
20 / 25
jimmymack100 5 Reviews 37 reads
posted
21 / 25

Laundry, speaking of which a provider I know use to change the comforter between clients and had the dryer on a timer,so when the comforter was done it would set off a very quite alarm and she knew time was just about up and we were done.Took me awhile to figure that out. She would also when we were done go open the shades and look out the window to signal here lookout that she was done and send in the next how romantic. For the longest time I thought she wasn't a clock watcher, ah yes the good old lake street days.,

TrulyMsMocha See my TER Reviews 100 reads
posted
22 / 25

...unless they were requested.
Unless she has yoga pants or sweatpants pics in any of her portfolios she probably shouldn't be surprising clients (esp new ones) that way.

Gemma Coreana See my TER Reviews 82 reads
posted
23 / 25

Acceptable even if it's 10am... He's buying a service, if he wanted sweatpants he could of stayed home with his wife.    I totally disagree on it's okay to be in sweatpants unless it's a client request-which  I've had clients request yoga pants it workout gear..  but other then a request it's unacceptable!!

Vivianday10 See my TER Reviews 84 reads
posted
24 / 25

A present is a little nicer to open if its wrapped with care and attention to detail in the finest wrapping paper and tied perfectly with a ribbon and bow. You can just smell and feel the specialness of the present sometimes in the feel of the paper and how its wrapped.  When you first make eye contact with a present in your hand its meaningful. We all know the point is the present inside, but how its presented in very important. And its a reflection of the person giving it rather than the receiver. When I give a present I usually spend just as much time wrapping it beforehand (if not more)  in as much perfection as I can find- as in what I hope to be the enjoyment of the actual present! Not everyone appreciates the wrapping or even notices- but its nice when they do!

AlexandraMilw See my TER Reviews 99 reads
posted
25 / 25

I can't say anything about how she is or what she thought...

All I know is that I am mainly casual and sweat pants would never be something I'd answer the door to.

I'd at least answer in tight jeans and tight sweater. That's just me.  

If she was coming to you, maybe she thought she'd keep it very lowkey? If you came to her, maybe she thought it wouldn't matter since she was getting out of the clothes quickly? Whoever knows.

As far as the few times I was a client, I'd be fine with a gal showing up at my door like that. I only care about our time together and yes, I do like a more casual dress. In theory I wouldn't be ok with sweatpants.... but the gals I have met, I'd be hot for regardless.

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