If so, that's understandable that you're disappointed.
But if you didn't ask, then IMO sweatpants at 10 am are fine.
Wouldn't matter cause they wouldn't be on that long, unless I had requested something
...With any provider that I am meeting my request is to be fresh from the shower & comfortably dressed in clothing that is easily removed, or J-bird naked.
Acceptable even if it's 10am... He's buying a service, if he wanted sweatpants he could of stayed home with his wife. I totally disagree on it's okay to be in sweatpants unless it's a client request-which I've had clients request yoga pants it workout gear.. but other then a request it's unacceptable!!
Her place? Seems too casual.
Your place? It could be a good cover especially if you asked her for a session at your office at a gym.
If she advertises as an "upscale, elite, luxury, high class" for $$$+ with glamour shots in fashion lingerie than you should not be getting sweat pant unless requested or agreed upon before. It's part of the experience that was presented when you made the date. If you arranged a last minute date on BP with ghetto selfie then expect it.
It's unfortunate but too common that this happens. We select partly based on an image portrayed in ads or website but get attire they wore to the mall. I wish I didn't have to ask.
I have to agree with everybody so far, but I’m such a visual person, so I kind of expect her to be at her best when I see her. I would even love her in some denim jeans…a woman’s derrière in some denim will always get my motor running
I thought jimmymack100 post saying “Wouldn't matter cause they wouldn't be on that long” was a classic!
I rarely do though. I'd like something better than sweatpants though but at 10AM I don't think I'd even notice so long as her hygiene is good.
For me....Never! Unless you booked something last minute. Also last minute is different to every lady. For me though, my go to last minute outfit is butt naked with a robe on. This usually occurs when someone I have seen before contacts me for an appointment within a couple of hours and I am out and about when they book.
If this was a first time meeting she should have let you know in advanced that she would be wearing sweatpants. I personally have had to do this. When a gentleman wanted an outcall and I was out picking up dinner. The time constraints left me with only one choice. That choice was to go in the clothes I was in. I happen to be blessed for loving stylish sweatpants so my outfit was still pretty cute.
Andrea
My standard is a simple wrap dress and lingerie
If she is coming to your hotel room then it may be more acceptable but even then, there are better ways to present yourself. First impressions mean a lot.
I want my client to be excited as soon as he sees me.
... I think a woman should always dress in a manner in which she feels sexy and wants to show off her beauty. I absolutely love it when I get to meet a woman in the lobby, looking hot as fuck and I get to take by the arm or hand and lead her to my room. I really enjoy the looks given by others as they ponder, "what is she doing with him!?" I'm a Rock Star, I'm a Movie Star, I'm a Billionaire Mogul maybe as far as they're concerned. In those cases, most nosy folks would dismiss it as privileged but acceptable. No hotel security staff would ever challenge a woman who's escorted by a gentleman while on hotel property and I always offer to walk a woman to her car after our date. So, in response to your question... I wouldn't want a woman to present herself in sweat pants. Jogging shorts would probably be OK if they were a size or two too small. 
My provider had to meet me in the lobby to let me in ... in sweatpants and sweatshirt. I thought hmmm ... nice location, nice lady ... but sweatpants!?
When we got to the room she took off the sweats to reveal an eye-popping outfit and body. "I could not go into the lobby like this!" She explained. You can't always judge a book by its cover.
I wouldn’t mind sweatpants in that situation for sure lol
The lazy, live-in girlfriend experience. But hey, some guys are into that. LOL
Lots of times I'll ask to see a lady wear just cut-offs, T-shirt bare beneath,
barefoot, with little if any makeup. But that's me, and the key
here is, that's what I asked for. You should ask for what you'd like.
Going on a dinner date is another matter altogether, as is
sex on the beach 
This is why I have that as part of my booking form. It makes it easier for the potential client because then we don't have to go back and forth about it and it makes it so much easier to plan. Although, I typically stick to a dress & heels or a business casual outfit (skirt/blouse or pants/blouse) if I'm coming from work.
LJ, xx
I have no problem asking for what I want and I didn’t ask for anything special in this situation. I was posting the question because I was interested in other providers and hobbyist experiences. Actually it’s intriguing to see the different opinions and perspectives.
You are a very beautiful woman so I’m sure you would look great in anything.
Oh! I apologize if it came off as though you weren't asserting yourself. Not my intent. Also, thank you for your compliment. Maybe one day I'll meet you in the flesh!
LJ, xx
Sweatpants should be a big no no. I'm not very fussy, but she should look nice.
...unless they were requested.
Unless she has yoga pants or sweatpants pics in any of her portfolios she probably shouldn't be surprising clients (esp new ones) that way.
A present is a little nicer to open if its wrapped with care and attention to detail in the finest wrapping paper and tied perfectly with a ribbon and bow. You can just smell and feel the specialness of the present sometimes in the feel of the paper and how its wrapped. When you first make eye contact with a present in your hand its meaningful. We all know the point is the present inside, but how its presented in very important. And its a reflection of the person giving it rather than the receiver. When I give a present I usually spend just as much time wrapping it beforehand (if not more) in as much perfection as I can find- as in what I hope to be the enjoyment of the actual present! Not everyone appreciates the wrapping or even notices- but its nice when they do!
I can't say anything about how she is or what she thought...
All I know is that I am mainly casual and sweat pants would never be something I'd answer the door to.
I'd at least answer in tight jeans and tight sweater. That's just me.
If she was coming to you, maybe she thought she'd keep it very lowkey? If you came to her, maybe she thought it wouldn't matter since she was getting out of the clothes quickly? Whoever knows.
As far as the few times I was a client, I'd be fine with a gal showing up at my door like that. I only care about our time together and yes, I do like a more casual dress. In theory I wouldn't be ok with sweatpants.... but the gals I have met, I'd be hot for regardless.
