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ss_jenz 1635 reads
posted
1 / 19

What are your current experiences with Minneapolis/St Paul clubs? Booze is not a must for me, but being entertained is. I'm looking ladies for good attitude toward their work and the customers, cute, provide value, and off course if a dancer is flexible about touching or extras (of any level, or if some can be seen outside the club for various endevours)  

This is going to sound corny, I'm looking to build my comfort level and exposure to talking to attractive women, 7s,8s,9s,10s. Yeah I know there's money involved and it's not 'real, but it's about building up familiarity so that when money is not involved and I see somebody I like in life it doesnt feel like suddenly trying to chat up somebody I've only seen on tv. It's cheaper than an escort right?

 
I hit Deja Vu last week during a snow storm and found more dancers than customers at times. I got my face between titties for $2 on a couple occasions at the tip rail, which I don't remember being common 15 years ago when I was last there.
I had a topless contact dance with Lita and found it to be pretty hot. I was surprised because when I was last there I remember it was a choice between nude or contact but I got some of both.  

She offered VIP but I declined and soon had to split to get home

Wongbater 40 Reviews 710 reads
posted
2 / 19

haven't been to a club in decades.  but they have a special place in my heart.  I miss the peep shows in the late 90's you could go see downtown.  damn.  if anyone has anything to mention to this here OP i for one am also listening.

PwrLftngGuy 17 Reviews 860 reads
posted
3 / 19

I really liked King of Diamonds the one time I went, if you don't mind driving all the way out to inver grove

Wongbater 40 Reviews 795 reads
posted
4 / 19

Wong go north and hit up some of them clubs.  New friends to be had.

jchan113 4 Reviews 685 reads
posted
5 / 19

I understand your feelings of apprehension around beautiful women because I felt the same way too. Paying women will not help you get over it because it will still condition your worthiness. You are worthy of their time and attention and do not need anything else to talk to beautiful women. There is nothing wrong with you. It took guts to be this vulnerable on this board, so you already have proven you have what it takes to talk with beautiful women.

mrhuck 15 Reviews 584 reads
posted
7 / 19

Kod is always a good time although I will admit that I am not a VIP room guy, if I want that type of service there are plenty of great SM & FS providers available.

2late 180 Reviews 482 reads
posted
8 / 19

My experiences at the Paradise in Austin have been terrible.  I've stopped there 3 or 4 times in the last couple of years.  

Aragon in Albert Lea is hit and miss.  Again, I've been there 4 or 5 times in the last couple of years and twice it was pretty good.  I haven't been lucky there yet but then I can't stay up past than 9:)  I did get a couple of phone numbers but nothing has come of that yet either.
Posted By: TwinCitiesGuy
Was at both in October...don't think you want to take out anything there!

Wongbater 40 Reviews 436 reads
posted
9 / 19

let's do a road trip.  Gas...grass...or ass if you are in providers or clients we shall figure out the details.  Imagine inundating a strip club with a bunch of horny TC hobby folk in the middle of nowhere.  Legendary as they call in the part timers...

53merc 2 Reviews 376 reads
posted
11 / 19

I get to the Aragon 1 or 2 times a month if you get a number there it's just to let you know when they will be back in town so you can come back and give them money for private dances.I get to the Paradise 4 or 5 time a year and have been propositioned more than half the time I'm there and I have taken advantage of the situation more than a few times.Last summer I made a trip down to Milford Iowa and it was well worth it.I showed up a little late in the evening on a quite nite,there were about 7 girls there and I kinda waited for the one that I thought was the hottest and got a private dance from her.Now let me go back about a year,I was on this site and asked you guys what do you do when they stick there V in your face and pull the g string aside,do you lick or not?Well one of you said just ask,so I did,and her answer was try it and find out,so I did,well I ended up in her hotel room that night,and it was a very good time.She has my number and let's me know when she's in the area and let's just say I had a very merry Christmas,lol

OldTimerB 45 Reviews 364 reads
posted
12 / 19

I remember that post and that answer and try to follow that advice whenever I get the chance but my successes or failures are my business in that world. In this world I share lol.

Posted By: 53merc
I get to the Aragon 1 or 2 times a month if you get a number there it's just to let you know when they will be back in town so you can come back and give them money for private dances.I get to the Paradise 4 or 5 time a year and have been propositioned more than half the time I'm there and I have taken advantage of the situation more than a few times.Last summer I made a trip down to Milford Iowa and it was well worth it.I showed up a little late in the evening on a quite nite,there were about 7 girls there and I kinda waited for the one that I thought was the hottest and got a private dance from her.Now let me go back about a year,I was on this site and asked you guys what do you do when they stick there V in your face and pull the g string aside,do you lick or not?Well one of you said just ask,so I did,and her answer was try it and find out,so I did,well I ended up in her hotel room that night,and it was a very good time.She has my number and let's me know when she's in the area and let's just say I had a very merry Christmas,lol

ss_jenz 599 reads
posted
13 / 19

Posted By: Wongbater
haven't been to a club in decades.  but they have a special place in my heart.  I miss the peep shows in the late 90's you could go see downtown.  damn.  if anyone has anything to mention to this here OP i for one am also listening.
Peep still available at SexWorld. It's an interesting 1-1 experience. I've only had a show with Mia who had a fun attitude and a pussy I wish wasn't behind glass.

Rates are $20 topless, $40 nude with some rubbing, $60 for nude with insertion masturbating and $80 toy penatration

Avoid 3:30-4:30 when shift change or there may not be anybody there.

ss_jenz 474 reads
posted
14 / 19

Posted By: jchan113
I understand your feelings of apprehension around beautiful women because I felt the same way too. Paying women will not help you get over it because it will still condition your worthiness. You are worthy of their time and attention and do not need anything else to talk to beautiful women. There is nothing wrong with you. It took guts to be this vulnerable on this board, so you already have proven you have what it takes to talk with beautiful women.
I appreciate your comments. I realize that money doesn't make it real and it's not a substitute for a real woman. I'm not horrible looking, I've just never been strong in the conversation area or in striking up a conversation and showing interest in someone when opportunity presents itself. I look at it as sort of a warm up for the tight rope but with a net (maybe a terrible analogy). There's always some girls at clubs who sit with and chat up guys for more than a few minutes. I never know if that guys made an arrangement with them, is a regular, just strikes up a conversation or what the story is.

I'll probably try some VIP, likely at Deja Vu or KOD. What's a good approach for having the dance be more than just sitting on my hands? Tip upfront, see if touch on lower leg and forearms are rebuffed, and go from there?  Not looking to even get a handjob but feeling some feminine soft skin would add to the visuals

Wongbater 40 Reviews 221 reads
posted
15 / 19
Wongbater 40 Reviews 352 reads
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16 / 19
jchan113 4 Reviews 362 reads
posted
17 / 19

I'll try to provide you a useful answer, but my posts tend to get pulled at some point so I hope you see it.  

The best resource on how to talk with a stripper is a stripper / exotic dancer. I was told by my massage provider friend that Sayda was also a stripper. A sensual massage is a great way to do some q&a. I don't hobby much anymore, so I don't know if she is still around.  

I hope this helps.

mncold1 21 Reviews 460 reads
posted
18 / 19

What was the other downtown Mpls place that was upstairs with the peep shows? What a great value as I recall. Way WAY less than Sexworld.

And who of us old timers can forget the wonderful intersection of University and Dale. Two peep show venues and a titty bar to boot (although unfortunately I was not in attendance when the 16yo got busted for dancing).

Off of peep shows to out-state titty bars: Mettlers in Mankato was a frequent haunt of mine when I lived in the area several years ago; think its closed now. Talent could be so-so but I had a crush on a few that came through on a regular basis. Remember $5 dances back in the '90s?

Other than once in a while early in the evening - when the buck beers pour - doing KoD is about it for me since I discovered hobbying.  

Seems to me when one calculates the cost of a titty bar, and that its most all visual with almost no touching, and that my nut leaves the club with me, I'll take a quality FBSM provider any day.
 
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Posted By: Wongbater
haven't been to a club in decades.  but they have a special place in my heart.  I miss the peep shows in the late 90's you could go see downtown.  damn.  if anyone has anything to mention to this here OP i for one am also listening.
   
 Peep still available at SexWorld. It's an interesting 1-1 experience. I've only had a show with Mia who had a fun attitude and a pussy I wish wasn't behind glass.  
   
 Rates are $20 topless, $40 nude with some rubbing, $60 for nude with insertion masturbating and $80 toy penatration  
   
 Avoid 3:30-4:30 when shift change or there may not be anybody there.

Wongbater 40 Reviews 327 reads
posted
19 / 19

Are you talking about the peep show place upstairs from the military surplus store on 1st ave back in the mid 90's.  I loved that place.  It was the old school peep show with a huge enclosed stage with booths surrounding with those windows with the gates that would close on your ass when your time was up.  There as a booth for buying tokens as you entered once you climbed that long set of stairs.  Place reeked of neglect and desperation.  I loved the vibe.  They didn't clean those booths worth a shit either.  Seedy as hell and there is no entertainment like that available here anymore.  It's a shame.  If I recall there was a fire in there and it was gone.  

The other place I had fun a few times was around the same time period.  There was a peep show and sex toy area in an adjacent building to Dreamgirls.  I painted the glass more than a few times at that joint too.  It was a fun cheap diversion for a single drunk guy stumbling around downtown with nothing better to do.

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