What are your current experiences with Minneapolis/St Paul clubs? Booze is not a must for me, but being entertained is. I'm looking ladies for good attitude toward their work and the customers, cute, provide value, and off course if a dancer is flexible about touching or extras (of any level, or if some can be seen outside the club for various endevours)
This is going to sound corny, I'm looking to build my comfort level and exposure to talking to attractive women, 7s,8s,9s,10s. Yeah I know there's money involved and it's not 'real, but it's about building up familiarity so that when money is not involved and I see somebody I like in life it doesnt feel like suddenly trying to chat up somebody I've only seen on tv. It's cheaper than an escort right?
I hit Deja Vu last week during a snow storm and found more dancers than customers at times. I got my face between titties for $2 on a couple occasions at the tip rail, which I don't remember being common 15 years ago when I was last there.
I had a topless contact dance with Lita and found it to be pretty hot. I was surprised because when I was last there I remember it was a choice between nude or contact but I got some of both.
She offered VIP but I declined and soon had to split to get home
haven't been to a club in decades. but they have a special place in my heart. I miss the peep shows in the late 90's you could go see downtown. damn. if anyone has anything to mention to this here OP i for one am also listening.
Rates are $20 topless, $40 nude with some rubbing, $60 for nude with insertion masturbating and $80 toy penatration
Avoid 3:30-4:30 when shift change or there may not be anybody there.
What was the other downtown Mpls place that was upstairs with the peep shows? What a great value as I recall. Way WAY less than Sexworld.
And who of us old timers can forget the wonderful intersection of University and Dale. Two peep show venues and a titty bar to boot (although unfortunately I was not in attendance when the 16yo got busted for dancing).
Off of peep shows to out-state titty bars: Mettlers in Mankato was a frequent haunt of mine when I lived in the area several years ago; think its closed now. Talent could be so-so but I had a crush on a few that came through on a regular basis. Remember $5 dances back in the '90s?
Other than once in a while early in the evening - when the buck beers pour - doing KoD is about it for me since I discovered hobbying.
Seems to me when one calculates the cost of a titty bar, and that its most all visual with almost no touching, and that my nut leaves the club with me, I'll take a quality FBSM provider any day.
Peep still available at SexWorld. It's an interesting 1-1 experience. I've only had a show with Mia who had a fun attitude and a pussy I wish wasn't behind glass.
Rates are $20 topless, $40 nude with some rubbing, $60 for nude with insertion masturbating and $80 toy penatration
Avoid 3:30-4:30 when shift change or there may not be anybody there.
Are you talking about the peep show place upstairs from the military surplus store on 1st ave back in the mid 90's. I loved that place. It was the old school peep show with a huge enclosed stage with booths surrounding with those windows with the gates that would close on your ass when your time was up. There as a booth for buying tokens as you entered once you climbed that long set of stairs. Place reeked of neglect and desperation. I loved the vibe. They didn't clean those booths worth a shit either. Seedy as hell and there is no entertainment like that available here anymore. It's a shame. If I recall there was a fire in there and it was gone.
The other place I had fun a few times was around the same time period. There was a peep show and sex toy area in an adjacent building to Dreamgirls. I painted the glass more than a few times at that joint too. It was a fun cheap diversion for a single drunk guy stumbling around downtown with nothing better to do.
I really liked King of Diamonds the one time I went, if you don't mind driving all the way out to inver grove
Kod is always a good time although I will admit that I am not a VIP room guy, if I want that type of service there are plenty of great SM & FS providers available.
Wong go north and hit up some of them clubs. New friends to be had.
I understand your feelings of apprehension around beautiful women because I felt the same way too. Paying women will not help you get over it because it will still condition your worthiness. You are worthy of their time and attention and do not need anything else to talk to beautiful women. There is nothing wrong with you. It took guts to be this vulnerable on this board, so you already have proven you have what it takes to talk with beautiful women.
I'll probably try some VIP, likely at Deja Vu or KOD. What's a good approach for having the dance be more than just sitting on my hands? Tip upfront, see if touch on lower leg and forearms are rebuffed, and go from there? Not looking to even get a handjob but feeling some feminine soft skin would add to the visuals
I'll try to provide you a useful answer, but my posts tend to get pulled at some point so I hope you see it.
The best resource on how to talk with a stripper is a stripper / exotic dancer. I was told by my massage provider friend that Sayda was also a stripper. A sensual massage is a great way to do some q&a. I don't hobby much anymore, so I don't know if she is still around.
I hope this helps.