Over the years, I have seen a fair number of providers who refuse to see see black men? What's the deal? I don't really expect a provider to tell me why SHE doesn't see black clients, but perhaps you have heard through the grapevine what the "issue" with black men is. Thanks in advance

Many hobbyists would be pissed however if it was mandatory to book a BBW from time to time.  

It's just preference I'm sure. Your money works as well as from anyone else. If you think about who you yourself prefer to see and not see I'm sure you'll understand.

this topic comes up every once in awhile. See the link for one of the latest threads. You can search by topic on the GD board and regional boards for more threads

Please do a search of this and the GD board for the last 5 years.  This topic has come up only less often than the insufferable questions about rates.

These bullshit stats have as much legitimacy as the "Santa is white" argument. None of them survives the barest scrutiny.  Please spare us.

It's their personal preference. Some don't like guys under 30 and others over 55. I apparently have no personal preference but we pick and chose too.

Actually Santa being white has some basis as he is based on a real figure who was white...

I'm sure the fact that black women having a higher rate of single motherhood weighs heavily in providers preference. Really?  FYI while it sucks, when you stereotype based on race, it makes you a bigot.  I know, it sucks.  

http://blogs.wsj.com/ideas-market/2012/04/23/the-effects-of-race-on-sentencing

At least one of the many supposedly historical figures upon which old St. Nick was supposedly based was Turkish or Mediterranean.  Which would make him about as cherubic and Nordic as me.

I'll take your word for it FIDIOT. Nobody knows more about being a dick or has personal knowledge of others dicks, or is an authority on all things dick than you. Will your new handle be requesting threesomes with a cock to savor like your past username?

besides those stats are probably based on the general population if they were based on same income brackets the difference would be minimal.

Regardless of heritage as long as your respectful there is no problem..

I'm a fellow AA hobbyists.  So many great women out there that enjoy our company.  The worst experience would be spending 2 hours with a woman who takes your money but despises your company.

Just wanted to introduce myself. I certainly see black men.  

There is a danger of political incorrectness here, but one person touched on the point:  black men are perceived as having larger penises and being sexually more adept, on the average.  Honestly, I believe this to be true, just as I believe that there are other areas in which they are physically more impressive: they appear more well-muscled and physically stronger than men of other races, at least that's my impression.  Take any black guy and he looks better without his clothes on than I do!  I'm bald, and the only white guy who looks good with a shaved head is Bruce Willis.  I don't think the providers are implying anything about black men in a social way, nor are they afraid of them.  That's ridiculous.  But, if a provider says she doesn't see black men, then the implication to me is that she is probably tighter, smaller, maybe better for me (a skinny, older, averagely-endowed-at-best-on-a-good-day, white guy).  I think it's just marketing to the guys who look at themselves as not as impressive, well-endowed or sexually charged as we perceive black men to be.

to help this frustrated AA man. You continue the Mandela spirit.  
Mme. Patricia said it best. It's true gents that count.

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But Google Wilt Chamberlain. He claimed to have slept with 20,000 women. There must be plenty of women who are color blind.

i've seen ads for some providers who i'd love to see but they specify "no one over 60 years". so what about 65yr+ me??? how is that fair? well I don't dwell (sic pun intended) on it or cry over it. I just move along. Personally, I won't see anyone under 38 yrs. That's my preference.

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I will refuse to see dark men cause of drama.
Then he want to sell my phone back to me.
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If we all decided that a bad encounter with an individual summed up an entire race, no one would spend time with anyone.

This makes no sense to me at all, but it does imply black men are not favored among providers, which if it's the case then say so. However don't correlate bbw women along side black men there is no correlation at all!!  Why would hobbyist  be pissed?  You as a provider are discussing your list of clients to hobbyist now? Why is that their business in the first place? I would think they would be bothered at the fact you have several clients in numbers vs race.

I recall that post, when you got ripped off. Was sorry to hear about that. Hope you have gotten over the emotional shock of being ripped off. Feel for you.

Don't have a past username.  I communicate here to Providers.  NOT  YOU!!!