The fact is, we all crave variety, so of course I am always tempted to see a new girl.  I saw one recently that was pretty amazing, and I will be seeing her again and again.  So sometimes one choice ends up being the other choice, too (seeing a girl turned her into someone I will see again because we have great chemistry).

Different girls do different things for me.  My current ATF is someone that I have an amazing connection with.  She still works and sees other guys, but I understand it's work, and she understands I see other girls.  But when I see her, it's like a comfortable pair of old jeans that you have worn for a decade (well, okay, let's suspend reality for a second, because no way I could fit into shit that was 10 years old and 20+ pounds ago).

With the ATF, I am happy to spend time with her and not have sex, because we have an amazing connection and because the amount she charges me is so laughably low that it's a token of appreciation more than a session fee (if I told you the amount you would agree).

On the other hand, seeing a new girl that has a great set of pics and a personality or body that I think would fit me is always a temptation.

So...is it "better" one way or the other?  Not sure.

Great question, though!

What do you prefer?

I have always enjoyed finding someone that I have great chemistry with and  then seeing how much better it gets as  you get  to know one another. I like the excitement that builds when you are going to see her again and you know how good it will be.

That is why I have been seeing both of my ATF's for several years....because it keeps getting better.

Although the thrill & anticipation of meeting someone new is indeed inciting, I've have GREAT chemistry & connection with 2 ladies who are at the top of my AFT list & who I have seen a combined 25 to 30 times since Oct 2011.  As you can see, I prefer seeing someone I know & who knows me.

The thrill of the unexpected from someone new is energetic.  The excursion is in search for proper chemistry to make fantasies, surreal.

I am pretty new to this hobby.  So I consider myself happy with my ATF.  But I do keep an open mind when I book another provider.  I don't expect them to know what I like and dislikes, but I do expect them to be personable and not treat it as "business".  I need the illusion of GFE, I feel it adds to the experience.  I have had experience of a session void of "passion".  While I don't hold it against that provider, my experience should have been better.

   With my ATF, we have a great time.  It's not so much what happens between the sheets that keeps me going back.  It is her attitude and demeanor that has got a hold of me.  She's very upbeat and positive and doesn't come-off to be business like.  We have such a good time, she has forgotten numerous items behind that she has comeback to pickup (last time it was a lingerie set I had bought for her).  I guess we have such a good time talking, we lose track of what's going on around us.  My ATF is in another state I might add, so I'm not sure if that's a good thing or a bad thing.

  In closing, I think people need to keep an open mind if they want to meet someone new.  Just keep in mind they are not going to know what you like.  I don't expect them to be exactly like my ATF, but I do judge them on their personality and demeanor.  But as usual YMMV.

drawbacks and while it is wonderful to develop a an ongoing  relationship with ATF's it is also exciting to discover and meet newbies .

I do not find the options mutually exclusive and given the fantasy nature of this hobby I do   enjoy my regulars and contiously visit the K-andy store to taste new flavor , it is a case of having you cake and eating it free of guilt and baggage.  

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14 years ago368 reads

Here is the "Rub" in P4P; Jennifer.

Even when the chemistry and sex with a particular provider is beyond great; Eventually the fact that it can only be enjoyed by RE-investing more money each time conspires with our innate polyamorous tendencies.

 It is often said amongst men that "Psycho bitches are the greatest lays"; but rarely does a cogent man persue a SO type relationship with such a woman because our "left" brain soon kicks in and tells us "Temporal fun only!.... NOT mother/family/matiarch material!".
A great provider is similar. The sex is awesome, and you both may cerebrally click; but paying for it each time soon becomes the aberrant dynamic justifying our regular infidelity, or simply moving on.    

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14 years ago294 reads

I think it feels different....

.....the chemistry. I can't say which is better really. I've had absolutely amazing chemistry with new faces but there's something different (in a good way)/maybe a little more special about clients you have more history with.

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14 years ago288 reads

Better with Someone You Know

Better with someone I know with great chemistry for me as I get
older, need the connection

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