The fact is, we all crave variety, so of course I am always tempted to see a new girl.  I saw one recently that was pretty amazing, and I will be seeing her again and again.  So sometimes one choice ends up being the other choice, too (seeing a girl turned her into someone I will see again because we have great chemistry).

Different girls do different things for me.  My current ATF is someone that I have an amazing connection with.  She still works and sees other guys, but I understand it's work, and she understands I see other girls.  But when I see her, it's like a comfortable pair of old jeans that you have worn for a decade (well, okay, let's suspend reality for a second, because no way I could fit into shit that was 10 years old and 20+ pounds ago).

With the ATF, I am happy to spend time with her and not have sex, because we have an amazing connection and because the amount she charges me is so laughably low that it's a token of appreciation more than a session fee (if I told you the amount you would agree).

On the other hand, seeing a new girl that has a great set of pics and a personality or body that I think would fit me is always a temptation.

So...is it "better" one way or the other?  Not sure.

Great question, though!

What do you prefer?

She might be using it for marketing purposes, but she isn't advertising.

At least not from my point of view.

But I'm not a moderator.  

I have always enjoyed finding someone that I have great chemistry with and  then seeing how much better it gets as  you get  to know one another. I like the excitement that builds when you are going to see her again and you know how good it will be.

That is why I have been seeing both of my ATF's for several years....because it keeps getting better.

For me, the thrill of seeing someone new is the best, especially when she exceeds expectations.   I love the excitement and uncertainty of having sex with a beautiful woman, a compete stranger, 5 minutes after you meet her.  It is very primal.

Although the thrill & anticipation of meeting someone new is indeed inciting, I've have GREAT chemistry & connection with 2 ladies who are at the top of my AFT list & who I have seen a combined 25 to 30 times since Oct 2011.  As you can see, I prefer seeing someone I know & who knows me.

That her link has been removed. Before that it can be seen as wrapping an ad in the guise of a legitimate question.

Posted By: crazyshit

She might be using it for marketing purposes, but she isn't advertising.

At least not from my point of view.

But I'm not a moderator.  

The thrill of the unexpected from someone new is energetic.  The excursion is in search for proper chemistry to make fantasies, surreal.

I am pretty new to this hobby.  So I consider myself happy with my ATF.  But I do keep an open mind when I book another provider.  I don't expect them to know what I like and dislikes, but I do expect them to be personable and not treat it as "business".  I need the illusion of GFE, I feel it adds to the experience.  I have had experience of a session void of "passion".  While I don't hold it against that provider, my experience should have been better.

   With my ATF, we have a great time.  It's not so much what happens between the sheets that keeps me going back.  It is her attitude and demeanor that has got a hold of me.  She's very upbeat and positive and doesn't come-off to be business like.  We have such a good time, she has forgotten numerous items behind that she has comeback to pickup (last time it was a lingerie set I had bought for her).  I guess we have such a good time talking, we lose track of what's going on around us.  My ATF is in another state I might add, so I'm not sure if that's a good thing or a bad thing.

  In closing, I think people need to keep an open mind if they want to meet someone new.  Just keep in mind they are not going to know what you like.  I don't expect them to be exactly like my ATF, but I do judge them on their personality and demeanor.  But as usual YMMV.

drawbacks and while it is wonderful to develop a an ongoing  relationship with ATF's it is also exciting to discover and meet newbies .

I do not find the options mutually exclusive and given the fantasy nature of this hobby I do   enjoy my regulars and contiously visit the K-andy store to taste new flavor , it is a case of having you cake and eating it free of guilt and baggage.