YES! I totally agree.... I am very eager to please and always willing to try new things! 
Well, you do need to realize that you can't be everything to everyone so don't try. Be comfortable and confident in yourself and in your actions and that will radiate out to who you're with.
I've heard it said that it doesn't matter how good a cherry soda you learn to make, some people just don't like cherry soda.
DkG
Posted By: laurenhirsch
I am fairly new to this but have a deep desire to be 10/10 amazing & completely unforgettable..
You took the words right of my mouth. According to Judy Garland "“It’s better to be a first rate version of yourself than a second rate version of someone else.” So true......
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I agree with Mr. Gonzo, and I will add the following:
If you are not turned-on with a guy, don"t fake it unless you know you are a very good actress. I have been around awhile, and I am not naive enough to believe that I have never been fooled by a lady who is very good at faking it. But the obvious faked O, is such a turn off, it equates to a minus point in performance.
Some of the real pro's here, will read the reviews of their prospective clients, to get a "feel" of what the guy really likes. Those who are intuitive, will pick up, on a guys likes and go for it.
Being unpretentious, is a turn-on, as is having a good sense of humor and being a good conversationalist.
No scoring system is universally liked, and I truly believe that there are no True 10's. But I do believe there are 9.6's and 9.3's.. So I now may, on a rare occasion, round up or down.. The subjective factor is very important in my scoring, some very subtle qualities can and do influence the final score..
Very true! I realize I may not be every man's cup of tea, but that's fine... I'd rather be someone's shot of bourbon
Depends on what you seek!
First the simple stuff...
You must participate in social forums (posting on hobby sites). This action will allow others to get a sense of who you are.
Your ads and website should reflect the services you offer. Don't have any, then get them
You need to be prompt and courteous in all communication.. ( I can't tell you how many ladies I never saw because of this)
Now the hard stuff!
You need to be an award wining actress! You need to be a great poker player!
It is NOT about the ways to have sex. You need to make a connection, in order to do this you need to be able to read the person (like a poker player) as to what is important to them. Next you have to be that person they seek (like an actress). The rest will flow naturally, Remember you can not be ALL things to ALL people. Sometime it may be best not to meet if it does not feel right.
You can not change a zebras stripes! Who you are as a person is difficult to hide even for the best actress, So the best advice is to be yourself and ALWAYS have fun. Do not do something you are not comfortable doing, it will show.
Finally Do not think your private parts are gold. they are not
Everyone has given all the right answers. For me it`s 1. on time, 2. appearance, hygiene and wears requested outfits., 3. has a comfortable place, towels, cold h2o to drink, 4. is academy award winning actress, ( or real is good too) 5. Enjoys sex as much as me 6. makes me feel like a porn star king. It`s always good to be king for that hour.
The average price for me is 4-5 bills an hour. My shrink is cheaper, so is my doctor and accountant, and my spiritual and menu advisor. The only one who fucks me for more is my laywer and that`s never any fun. He doesn`t even give me a cold beverage after a session.
P.S. oh yeah, I forgot...... DFK, DATO,BBBJCIM, and can squirt also is good too. But that`s just me.
So edited to be placed under OP.
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Judging by your photos you have some amazingly good capital to work with. Combine that with eagerness to please and an overall desire to consistently maintain as well as improve your product and "10 - 10" reviews will surely follow.
Honestly
You can not be a 10/10 for every appearance and performance for
every man that u see
Eventuality you will receive the more Realistic 8/9.
10's mean higher expectations. Higher expectations will not make your Life any easier.
Try to do things with passion and enthusiasm.
We are not robots.... sometimes we get AIong but sometimes no.... We never know What is going to happen..
Eventuality your success and respect as a professional will become well known, and you will not have to worry or feel pressured to maintain that 10/10 average. It's not natural, and guys can pick-up on that.
Do u Mind some suggestion?? Some do's and don'ts:
Do not be Late .. Guys are busy too.
If you are having a bad day do not see anyone....
Focus on the more important things.
Screen Well, so u don't get ripped-off, hurt or worse.....
Prioritize your spending. Pay you bills and save some cash. TIME flies.
Have fun!
hug
CC
Posted By: laurenhirsch
I am fairly new to this but have a deep desire to be 10/10 amazing & completely unforgettable..
Right on Bella! As a successful and highley respected lady, you know what works.... OBVIOUSLY!
Thank you so much for your response and your suggestions!
This part is more for any men out there who might be reading this, but I am the type that is usually EARLY. I'm very OCD about punctuality. I always make sure that anyone I see has provided me with 2 recent references. If they are new and they don't have references, I request work information. And I am all about saving!! I want to buy myself a house when I am done with college 
Just a suggestion only work information may not be enough
To determinate if the guy is safe
There is lot jerks with nice jobs and nice suit
Carfull
Is alawys good have at least 1 referral..
Ok let stop
Talking like boring mamma sorry
Be safe ..
Hahahaha this made me laugh! Amazing
that matters...
Have Fun!
That is what separates the great providers from the pack.....the Alphabet soup of action and positions...the color of hair ...size..shape...all comes in a distant 2nd IMO. Nobody repeats if they didn't have a good time....
Let me put it this way...I'll take one round and a lots of laughs over 3 rounds with a 'mechanical partner' every time !
Attitude, manners, and intelligence.
she can be a 10 in looks but if she has a bad attitude, or manners, or no intelligence..it is a total turn off
What everyone else has said is spot on...
1) Be yourself
2) Enjoy yourself. if we sense you're in it just for the money (even if you are), we will pick up on it.
3) ...and finally, this, for me, is what separates the truly great from the run of the mill...
REMEMBER ME! Even if you don't, fake it until you do.
It may be awhile before a second visit...but if the lady remembers me, remembers our time together and doesn't make me feel like one among dozens, THAT lady will not only get a second visit, but a third and a fourth.
My only repeat visit, it had only been 5 weeks since the first visit, and I could see in her eyes, she had no clue who I was. When I asked, she admitted it. Kind of burst the fantasy bubble, so whole session was thrown off. If it had been a couple of years I could understand it, but 5 weeks! Only having the one repeat, I was not sure if normal or not. If someone is in sales and customer service they should at least make the effort to remember clients. You are selling an experience, not just a nut.
some gals see several men a day..do not expect any of them remembers you even because they usually want to brush off the whole session and get on with their lives.
Posted By: digitalbohemian
some gals see several men a day..do not expect any of them remembers you even because they usually want to brush off the whole session and get on with their lives.
And like I said, it's the ones that CAN that are the real gems...not all can do it, but they ARE out there.
Posted By: lovinladies6969
2) Enjoy yourself. if we sense you're in it just for the money (even if you are), we will pick up on it.
No you won't pick up on it...women fake in real life and guys do not have a clue about it even after years and years together..we guys, are dummy when it is about sex...
I disagree...I've had some sessions (not many, but some)...with ladies that were clearly NOT into it. One comes to mind that was more about the talking than the sex. Don't get me wrong, I love the talking and the connection, but that is not what I'm paying for (I can get that for free). The provider in question actually was out of business soon after.
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I have a really, really insane memory and am very lucky to have it. I'm the kind of person that remembers the names of most people I went to high school with and I have been out of school for quite some time. I can even remember the names of some people from grade school. I know almost all my friends' birthdays by memory.... okay, I'll stop haha but seriously! If you ever see me, YES I will remember you!
I am also a humanitarian so I am in it for the connections I will make with others. I think it's really cool to be able to chat with people and gain from their life experiences.
Perhaps someday we will have a chance to cross paths...
Or something such as that. Yeah it may be trite but every porn star and every provider I've met who lasted more than a few months all said you'd better really love sex. Like most humans love air and water. If you can be upbeat and ready to play with a smile and a laugh as each new client comes through the door you'll already have a huge leg up on the competition. And I am not sure how you pull that off convincingly if you don't really love sex. And to keep that buzz you have to choose your business as much as you can I think. If you try to see every guy who calls not onlyare you likely to burn out but you may also see assholes who make you forget how much you love sex. The best providers ive seen quickly figured out the balance between quality and quantity.
Best of luck!
I was really surprised and pleased that my post generated so many responses! It's been fun reading all of these..
