Depends on what you seek!
First the simple stuff...
You must participate in social forums (posting on hobby sites). This action will allow others to get a sense of who you are.
Your ads and website should reflect the services you offer. Don't have any, then get them
You need to be prompt and courteous in all communication.. ( I can't tell you how many ladies I never saw because of this)
Now the hard stuff!
You need to be an award wining actress! You need to be a great poker player!
It is NOT about the ways to have sex. You need to make a connection, in order to do this you need to be able to read the person (like a poker player) as to what is important to them. Next you have to be that person they seek (like an actress). The rest will flow naturally, Remember you can not be ALL things to ALL people. Sometime it may be best not to meet if it does not feel right.
You can not change a zebras stripes! Who you are as a person is difficult to hide even for the best actress, So the best advice is to be yourself and ALWAYS have fun. Do not do something you are not comfortable doing, it will show.
Finally Do not think your private parts are gold. they are not