Men of LA ...  

I've got to get better with this...no wonder I can't get a date if my life depending on it.

there are competitors that have lighter screening than you, they are going to get the customers.  You have a choice of either relaxing your screening to take some market share, or maintain your standards and let others have that share of the business.  Its the way any kind of industry works, but I know its not what you want to hear.  The easier you make it to buy, the more business you'll get.  Just look at Amazon if you need convincing.  

No doubt screening is the biggest nuisance for clients, but I can't imagine any woman being comfortable without it, whatever the market forces are.  It never leaves my mind the risk you women take in agreeing to meet someone you've never seen before with the kind of strangeness today, so I do my best to accommodate.  My only suggestion is to try to avoid the officiousness that sometimes occurs in screening -- e.g., "you must fill out the form on my website." If a guy is White Listed with recent posts, or is verified on P411 that should probably suffice.  BUT, I'll go back to where I started and acknowledge that it's a risky business and all have the right to their own standards. Stay safe.

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Not all money is good money.  I can't count the number of idiots who request to see me with absolutely NO screening, they all say something like... "I'm a good guy, you can trust me."

She's just venting.  Why all the Hate?  

Just my 2 cents: Unfortunately, I haven't been able to schedule a mutually convenient rendezvous with Alley.  But the few emails we have exchanged in trying to set up such an appt., I have found her to be courteous, friendly and professional.  She is still on my bucket list and hope to spend some quality time with her!

that you were not directing "Ever heard of P411" to Alley-Snd.  My sincere apologies to you...)

So I just went through it with a visiting provider I really wanted to see. I met all her requirements got 4 thumbs up from providers I have seen, she emails me tells me that my initially requested time is not available. I email her back telling her that here is a list of times/dates that would work well too. No answer follow up emails pretty much saying pick the time and never a response back. This is not the first time this happens and this is a highly reviewed provider. Why? I don't get it. I never said anything compromising and complied with all her sh.t. At least have the decency to respond back

the agencies screen, so I will explain.  Once you are screened through your work information and have had a successful session, i.e., the girl you saw reports back to the agency that you are a respectful gentleman, the only information they keep on you in their computer is your first name and burner phone number.  Should you have a subsequent problem where you are less than a gentleman with a girl, you get blacklisted.  

doesn't need to get turned on to see a client, only get paid to pretend to be turned on.  Don't try to kid a kidder.

Recently I have been asking for ID, Employment verification and verification of age, height, weight and any other information provided here.

the Asian agencies are taking over the industry in SoCal.  When I started nine years ago, I only saw indies the first year, and had several experiences like this.  Then I got screened for my first agency, which led to another and another.  Now, each day, between LA, OC and SD, I have a choice between about 150 girls and never need to be screened again.  All the bookers recognize my hobby phone number when I text, and that is all the screening I need.  

I usually just email the lady of my interest and say "Hi my name is Jinx.  Can we haz sexy time now?"  Are you saying that's not enough?

...K-girl screening is notoriously difficult to pass because the bookers are most concerned with whether the guys are LE.  While "indies" are concerned with LE too, they are also concerned with the behavior of the potential clients.

I don't give a shit if you think I'm a "true professional" or not. Your opinion is of NO VALUE to me.

Opinionated assholes are ugly.  Allow others to have their own opinions.  

...as you think.  I've never had a burner phone; I've been on TER for over 14 years and have never had a problem.

When did you become Mr Know it all?  You have no clue how much money they are making, nor anyone else for that matter.  

You are one super fun date!!

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And it takes two,I couldn't have done it without you..
Mad kisses your way!
Now let's beat this joint and get a room...lol...Miss ya.

I always have a great group of So Ca providers to select from. And screening isn't an issue for me.  

Just politely remind them and if they don't want to be screened, on to the next one! It's just apart of the business as some guys want to protect their identity just like we do. It can totally be frustrating and the worst part is when they get really mean because they don't want to be verified. Why can't we all just be nice to each other especially since we want to have fun?!

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+1

Im not a K-girl, obviously so the low screening standards or lack of standards don't apply to me (thank dog)
however, if anyone thinks agencies don't keep your personal info, you have been hoodwinked.  We all believe what is convenient for us, to a degree...

I can't stress the importance of safety for everyone. Screening is both saviour of the trade and necessary evil. As an independent and being a Korean girl, it's easy for me to peer into both sides. There are advantages to both types.  

share work information.  For a reference check they just say whether or not they recognize the cell phone number as that of a legit hobbyist.  ONLY if  they CAN'T verify the number do they ask for more, but they ask for it from the hobbyist, not another booker.  Only one booker ever got my work information, and I have never used him as a reference with another booker.  A Kgirl booker can ONLY check the references you provide, not the ones they don't know about.  No one has my email address either, except a few indies I have seen.  I really don't care if everyone has by burner phone number.  Its not tied to an account in my name anywhere.  

you're more attractive when you get angry, but I can't.  

different world at the Kgirl agencies.  Everything you THINK you know is probably wrong.  They bear absolutely no resemblance to traditional escort agencies.  Its a completely new business model.

in calling me an opinionated asshole?  Its fucking hilarious.

several Kgirls and a few bookers, so I know EVERYTHING about how the business works.  When you have Kgirl friends who spend OTC time with you, you get the inside information, both the good and bad, about how everything works.  THAT'S how I know it all.   I've even been pitched on being an investor and org partner from more than one source, so everything having to do with the business has been explained to me in minute detail from multiple sources, so I know it is credible.  On the other hand, I don't know shit about how you're able to make a living, especially with your hostility and anger issues.  Perhaps my previous post on this thread about "pretending to be turned on" was on target?

can you PM us a list of the girls that have said "Yes" to that?  Lol

set the stage for how I "blasted" you, after your narrow-minded response to my post.  

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great idea.  I never thought of cross-screening the providers to make sure their advertising is accurate.  Of course, its going to be a lot of work and time-consuming to eliminate the ones that are advertising falsely, but I guess its better than finding out when you're standing in the doorway.  I have a couple of indies I'm planning on trying out, and this gives me an idea about how not to be disappointed on arrival.

the average number of Kgirls advertised on CV on a given day between LA, SD and OC, it comes out to about 150.  Their numbers are increasing each year because the demand is there.  There are not even enough indies around this area to match that kind of market share even if they were doing the same volume, which they aren't.  

You can't fix stupid Sweetie!  Not even with duct tape!  Don't feed the troll(s).  They find a weird pleasure by posting sarcasm and negativity.  

I respond to 15-20 provider verifications per week - just responded to 4 this morning.

That's where we meet, at the Encore/Wynn....Great memories there...just saying that's all. The Lakeside..yummy!..hate to name drop....carry on.

reviews a year?  I guess you think you're an expert?  How fucking old are you?

you to validate yourself

why I "know it all" then why did you ask if you didn't want to hear it again?  You challenge me, and I will respond.  If you already know the response, why challenge me?  It makes you look that one of those providers with a bad attitude that just likes to argue, even when you know the facts are against you.  Not making yourself look very good to new potential customers, are you?

an Established Patron.  Why do you think every man out there is looking for a bargain?  

"target" of what they would like, but reality is what they will accept.  

Hey There,

look to the rest of you, but believe me, I am NOT her "darlin."