The CIM comment is because if you're a one pop guy, as Jensen noted, its easier for the girl. Just like women don't like guys taking the blue pill. Despite all the fantasy letter reviews of she loved me fucking her and my big dick and licking her pussy, you've got some guy banging away on top of you with a hard as rock pole stabbing at you for 20 minutes straight, hard on her body. I've also had conversations with a number of women (not providers), that say it sucks having a guy slamming away like that for 20 plus minutes. If civvie women are bitching about the blue pill or guys who can't cum, imagine if you're doing it 3-5 times a day as part of your job. Yeah, there are some women who like it, but they are also not fucking three to five times a day, either.
Its also sometimes listed in provider ads, no blue pills. Its more work and harder on their bodies.
Also note, a trick of the trade, chit-chat after popping. While it is nice to talk after popping, but do you think she really cares about where you work, what you're doing afterwards, did you have lunch? What foods do you like? You think they really like you that much and care? The underlying theme is that they don't have to do more work.
Which would you rather do if you were a provider? Give a guy a hand job, then talk for 45 minutes or try to get a guy off twice, five different positions, and lick his ass for 60 minutes straight?
I don't think the East Coast is "elitist", just more cautious. There are a lot of back channel groups for reasons mentioned above. Also, I'm all about TOFTT, but as of late (during Covid) I've had several bad experiences; fat, ugly, pig face, sweaty back (nasty and gross from a fat pig provider), and the list goes on. This would happen once in a blue moon before COVID, but is now a regular occurrence. I will say the past few weeks has shown an uptick in quality of providers. A review of Vicki at bookalatina will be posted soon. I had a bad enough experience that it was on my DNS (do not see) list. But glowing reviews made me roll the dice, and it was great.
Several mongers in the DMV have been unceremoniously dropped from agencies-who knows why, but until we know for sure we're cautious and going to be a careful bunch. Many belong to some, but not all agencies. I personally think its a firewall in case one goes down, they don't all go down. I've been fortunate, that I have no problem getting into a new agency. Again, I don't know why, but maybe its because I "overpay" the GFE+ rate, and work hard at being a good customer. But getting into that first agency was a HUGE hurdle and took years. Thus, I am cautious. If you're a Seinfeld fan, its kind of like the Soup Nazi. We don't want to anything wrong that would be a "No soup for YOU!". LOL